The Aligned Living System Podcast - Episode #87: Bring Order to Your Life

Hosts: David Waldas & Nick Musica

Episode Summary: In this powerful episode, David Waldas and Nick Musica dive deep into the concept of "bringing order to your life" through the lens of Aligned Living. They discuss the evolution of Aligned Living tools, from separating oneself from the external world to the new "fence line" work, which focuses on consolidating personal energy and amplifying it to create internal and external order. The conversation challenges traditional approaches to personal development and societal problems, advocating for creation over opposition and internal alignment as the true path to effectiveness and simplicity.

Key Discussion Points:

• The Evolution of Aligned Living Tools: David explains how Aligned Living has shifted from primarily focusing on separating empathic abilities from external influences (reversing the 90% external/10% internal feedback loop) to the new "fence line" work.

• The "Fence Line" and Consolidating Power: The "fence line" is introduced as a new tool for staking a claim to one's energy, stabilizing it, and creating a reservoir of personal power, which directly leads to bringing order to life.

• Attraction and Rejection through Alignment: The hosts revisit the concepts of the "tractor beam" (attracting resonance through one's electromagnetic field) and the "gift of rejection" (people not being interested when you stabilize in your true energy).

• Order from Within vs. External Imposition: The episode highlights that true order comes from personal responsibility and internal alignment, not from seeking external validation or allowing the world to impose its chaotic order (leading to anxiety and a feeling of "something is wrong").

• Simplifying Life Through Energetic Organization: David shares his personal experience with the "fence line" work, noting how it has led him to bring structure and order to all segments of his life, simplifying everything and reducing confusion.

• Beyond Exploration to Force: For empaths and intuitives who traditionally focused on feeling and navigating, Aligned Living now emphasizes becoming a "force" by honoring the value of organization, structure, and stability in their energetic world.

• The Problem with Opposition: A core theme is the ineffectiveness of fighting against perceived problems or being "in juxtaposition" to what's wrong. This creates gridlock, entanglement, and distraction, rather than genuine solutions.

• The Power of "Out-Creating": Instead of solving problems, the hosts advocate for "creating what's needed" and "out-creating" the "bullshit" in the world by focusing on what you want to bring.

• Authenticity and Non-Manipulation: Locking in on one's own truth and stabilizing energy is presented as an authentic, non-manipulative way to contribute positively to the world, contrasting it with the games and manipulation prevalent externally.

• Victimhood vs. Effectiveness: The conversation touches on victimhood, explaining that it arises from a feeling of ineffectiveness and being unable to stop negative external forces. By locking in, stabilizing, and bringing order to oneself, victimhood is no longer an option, and effectiveness is achieved.

• A "No Party System" Mentality: The episode encourages listeners to align with themselves and be effective, drawing insights from all perspectives (e.g., Democrats, Republicans, conservatives, liberals) rather than engaging in a gridlocked "two-party system" or demonizing concepts like money.

The Aligned Living System Podcast - Episode #86: The Updated Aligned Living Journey

In this episode, David Waldas and Nick Musica discuss the evolution of the Aligned Living System and new tools incorporated into its core methodology. David shares how Aligned Living originated as a "spontaneous download" focusing on separating the external and internal worlds, reversing the feedback loop to quiet the mind, and connecting with intuition. This foundational concept has been expanded with new tools to create a more rounded, solid, and expanded internal space.

Key Updates and New Tools in the Aligned Living System:

• Reclaiming the Abandoned Self: This new phase addresses parts of ourselves we let go of to cope with our surroundings, often our greatest, unrefined gifts that received "bad reviews". Energetically reclaiming these parts brings order to the inner world, addresses soul fractures, and displaces coping mechanisms. This process helps individuals stop seeking completeness in external relationships or jobs where they might self-sacrifice.

• The Safety Meditation: This tool creates massive expansiveness in the heart and lower chakras, leading to grounding, gravitas, and clarity. It helps surface and work through fears that previously made aspects of oneself or desired actions "off limits," revealing the "fear veneer" as hollow.

• Unburdening the Heart: An original tool that remains fundamental, this process helps reset core beliefs and autopilot responses by restructuring the heart's energy, making it free-flowing and open, and promoting a feeling of lightness and freedom.

• The Fence Line: This new meditation helps define one's energetic space and locus of control. It creates a protective, supportive, and transformative ambient energy that influences how people receive you, rotating them to their highest facet.

• Burning the Boats: This tool focuses on literally burning off energetic "placeholders" and agreements tied to old repeating patterns, victimhood, blame, and anger, thereby taking away the ability to give oneself away to coping mechanisms. It also clears out ingrained "seeds" that are difficult to distinguish from one's identity.

The updated Aligned Living System is now a 12-week program, offered in small group programs (5-7 people) and one-to-one sessions (currently with a waiting list).

Aligned Living Coaches Academy:

David announces the launch of the Aligned Living Coaches Academy, a program designed to train coaches in the updated, "scriptable" Aligned Living System. Applications for the first cohort, starting in September/October, are now being accepted. This academy provides comprehensive training, marketing support, and referrals for coaches.

How to Learn More or Join:

If you are interested in joining the new version of the Aligned Living program or the Coaches Academy, you can:

• Visit David's webpage at www.davidwaldas.com

• Email David directly at David@davidwaldas.com.

In this episode, David and Nick dive into the nuanced difference between showing up for ourselves and showing up in service to others. They explore how our intentions—whether self-focused or service-oriented—shape our experiences in groups, organizations, and daily life. The conversation highlights the importance of alignment and resonance, and how being truly in tune with ourselves allows us to serve more authentically and powerfully.

Key Topics Discussed:

• Self-Interest vs. Service: David shares his personal evolution from attending events with a “what’s in it for me?” mindset to focusing on how he can be of service, and how this shift has led to more fulfilling and energizing experiences.
• The Role of Alignment: Both hosts emphasize that true service starts with personal alignment. When we’re out of alignment, even well-intentioned service can lead to self-sacrifice, resentment, and energetic entanglement.
• Resonance as a Decision-Making Tool: The discussion covers how to use resonance (what feels right) rather than logic or discomfort as a guide for where and how to show up.
• Group Dynamics & Commitment: Nick and David reflect on the power of collective commitment in groups, even when not everyone initially agrees. They discuss the importance of moving forward together and learning quickly from mistakes, rather than getting stuck in indecision.
• Breaking the Cycle of Transactional Thinking: The hosts challenge the common, transactional approach to group participation—only showing up if there’s something to gain—and advocate for a mindset of contribution and service.
• Recognizing Misalignment: They talk about the “trip wires” and symptoms of being out of alignment, such as feeling stuck, anxious, or overly focused on solving problems from the same mindset that created them.
• Practical Tools: David mentions the free video course on their website that helps listeners get into alignment and use resonance as a guide.
• The Win-Win of Service: The episode closes with the idea that when everyone shows up to contribute, everyone receives more than they could have imagined. Service and self-interest become a positive cycle.

Notable Quotes:

• “When we all show up with the intention of service, there’s a massive positive experience where we’re all receiving more than we could ever imagine.”
• “If you’re out of alignment, even service can become self-sacrifice and lead to resentment.”
• “We’ve normalized discomfort and anxiety. The real work is unlearning that and returning to flow and resonance.”

Listener Challenge:
Reflect on your own approach to group settings this week. Are you showing up to get something, or to give? Try tuning into your own alignment and resonance before saying yes to new opportunities.

Call to Action:
David and Nick invite listeners to leave a review, share feedback, and help others discover the podcast.

Closing:
Thanks for listening! Tune in next week for more insights on living in alignment and service.