Team Toxins, Antidotes, and Choice

Want more cohesive, collaborative, and healthy teams? Most team problems don’t start in the plan—they start in the space between people. In this podcast, Philippa and Penelope break down the behaviours that quietly wreck trust and teamwork, so you can build teams that actually work well together.

You’ll hear about Gottman’s Four Horsemen and how they show up in everyday team life:

Defensiveness – That knee-jerk pushback, blame-shifting and excuse-making instead of listening.

Criticism/Blame – Attacking someone’s character rather than addressing the issue.

Contempt – Acting superior through sarcasm, eye-rolling, or mean-spirited jokes.

Stonewalling – Completely checking out and going radio silent.

Better yet, you’ll get practical antidotes you can use today. Curiosity turns defensiveness into learning. Constructive communication replaces blame with clarity. Appreciation undercuts contempt. Care and connection repair stonewalling. You’ll hear real examples, scripts, and simple tweaks you can try this week to cut drama and build a shared language for conflict that actually helps.

If you’re tired of being stuck in the “who’s right?” mud pit, this is your way out.

Follow the show, share it with someone who needs it, and drop a quick review. Which antidote will you try first?​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​