Episodios

  • Ep 196 How AA Harms ADHD & Autistic People
    Mar 24 2026

    🔥 Deprogram Course + leaving AA resources → here

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    🌶️ Neurodivergent Discovery Portal (with self assessments) → here

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    Timestamps:

    00:00 How AA Harms ADHD & Autistic People Intro

    04:49 Bill W.'s Blind Spot Still Harms Neurodivergents

    06:39 AA, Autism + ADHD Timeline

    09:33 ADHD + Alcohol Use Disorder

    11:02 AA + Misdiagnosis of ADHD

    12:57 How AA Harms Neurodivergent People

    14:20 Deprogram, Neurodivergent + Brain Resources

    16:36 My Fave Brain Optimization Tool Come vibe with me:


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    📚 Books that helped me deprogram and think for myself → here

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    ⚠️ Disclaimer: I’m not a therapist, doctor, or licensed healthcare provider. Everything shared is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional care.

    💖 Some links may be affiliate links. I only share what I genuinely use and love.

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    18 m
  • Ep 195 Sobriety Bestie Deprogramming AA Resources
    Mar 17 2026

    I'm super excited to gather all of the deprogramming resources (including ones you haven't seen before!) in one space.

    It's all accessible from SobrietyBestie.com which is now like a deprogram 12 step hub.

    I've moved my website to a new location with my name Kirsten-Johnson.com so that Sobriety Bestie can live on as a one stop deprogramming extravaganza start to finish freedom experience for those navigating the mindf*ck of leaving AA, realizing they were in a recovery cult and wanting to reclaim their mind, autonomy and life.

    My hope is that people wanting to deprogram AA or 12 step can find Sobriety Bestie and move through their deconstruction journey at their own pace.

    Timestamps:

    00:00 Leaving Alcoholics Anonymous

    02:10 No Longer Deprogramming AA Reactions

    05:57 Sobriety Bestie is Complete

    07:17 Why I Created This Deprogramming Work

    12:31 Deprogramming Resources For Leaving AA

    17:11 Kirsten Sobriety Bestie Going Forward

    26:03 Crossing The Finish Line

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    31 m
  • Ep 194 Why I'm No Longer Deprogramming AA
    Mar 10 2026

    My AA deprogramming journey feels complete. I unpack it all in today's podcast.

    I highly recommend getting the deprogramming checklist that's inside the free 👉 Escape Kit (It's in the very first lesson inside there along with an hour video unpacking it all. But you really only need the checklist at a glance to see where you may be.)

    This of course is not the "rule" but it's a guide that I have found super helpful in my own deprogramming journey.

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    26 m
  • Ep 193 Is ChatGPT Brainwashing You?
    Mar 3 2026

    A week ago I switched from ChatGPT to Claude and I want to share WHY with you. This was before the headlines and has nothing to do with politics.

    This is about the language ChatGPT uses, even when you ask it not to, and the potential long term consequences of repeated exposure to this language.

    Timestamps:

    00:00 Why I Switched From ChatGPT To Claude

    05:59 ChatGPT Can't Stop Doing This

    12:26 ChatGPT Authoritarian Language

    16:13 Is AI Brainwashing Us?

    17:28 My Cult Programming Experience

    22:06 Taking Space From ChatGPT

    26:00 Why ChatGPT Uses Psychological Framing


    Resources for deconstructing AA:

    👉 Deprogram Lounge (community, Zooms, book club, Escape Kit + more)

    📚 Deprogram Book List (my fave deprogram, cult recovery and critical thinking books)

    🌀 Deprogram AA Course (free your mind at your own pace)

    Let’s get f*cking free

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    32 m
  • Ep 192 Rockefeller and Alcoholics Anonymous with Bobby C
    Feb 24 2026

    Bobby C is back on Sobriety Bestie Podcast to discuss the Rockefeller and AA connection which runs deeper that you might think. Bobby C unpacks AMA, DSM, Car Jung, and both Rockefeller Jr and Rockefeller Sr along with Alcoholics Anonymous.

    Bobby C's YouTube

    Bobby C's Story

    Timestamps:

    00:00 Rockefeller and Alcoholics Anonymous Intro

    06:05 Benjamin Rush

    09:21 Temperance Movement

    11:46 Magnus Huss

    14:41 Etymology + Words As Control

    23:11 John D Rockefeller

    30:57 Rockefeller Jr and Alcoholics Anonymous

    39:55 Norman Jolliffe

    41:24 Alcoholics Foundation and The Big Book

    49:19 Carl Jung and Roland Hazard

    53:35 Does It Work If You Work It?

    1:01:58 Rockefeller, Hellen Wynn + AA Organization

    1:07:44 Big Pharma, Big Alcohol, AMA

    1:21:54 DSM-V and Substance Use Disorder

    1:25:26 Indentured Servitude: A Slave To AA

    1:29:49 Rockefeller Gave Dr. Bob Money


    Bobby C's Rockefeller Videos:

    https://youtu.be/HYeoI_3Bljw?si=FJ-N5C4wRguHkLbV

    https://youtu.be/XxW_YfkFEtQ?si=0wBr-nAZFqyTSlhC

    https://youtu.be/d2gEC9lzT6A?si=N1NApvG8XfYDGNRl

    https://youtu.be/fZ0UAHMedvQ?si=yfDTg8w9D-TUnz3g

    Resources for deconstructing AA:

    👉 Deprogram Lounge (community, Zooms, book club, Escape Kit + more)

    📚 Deprogram Book List (my fave deprogram, cult recovery and critical thinking books)

    🌀 Deprogram AA Course (free your mind at your own pace)

    Let’s get f*cking free

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    1 h y 34 m
  • Ep 191 The Sober Truth: Debunking AA Myths — Book Review
    Feb 17 2026

    The Sober Truth is a great deprogramming AA, deprogramming 12 step and deprogramming the recovery narrative resource filled with modern science.

    I've compiled a list of all the deprogramming books I recommend here:

    📚 Deprogram Book List (my fave deprogram, cult recovery and critical thinking books)

    Timestamps:

    00:00 The Sober Truth Book Intro

    01:15 The Sober Truth Book

    03:24 Coerced + Court Mandated AA

    06:11 Spontaneous Remission

    09:38 The Nature of Addiction

    11:54 Rehab Industry

    15:24 Busting AA Myths

    19:45 Counting Abstinence Time Is Useful Myth

    21:50 "Drunks" Are All The Same Myth

    Resources for deconstructing AA:

    👉 Deprogram Lounge (community, Zooms, book club, Escape Kit + more)

    📚 Deprogram Book List (my fave deprogram, cult recovery and critical thinking books)

    🌀 Deprogram AA Course (free your mind at your own pace)

    Let’s get f*cking free

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    24 m
  • Ep 190 The AA Deprogrammer's Baloney Detection Kit (Carl Sagan)
    Feb 10 2026

    Today we're exploring Carl Sagan's Baloney Detection Kit from his book The Demon Haunted World and how it applies to deprogramming Alcoholics Anonymous.

    I've compiled a list of all the deprogramming books I recommend here:

    📚 Deprogram Book List (my fave deprogram, cult recovery and critical thinking books)

    Timestamps:

    00:00 Baloney Detection Kit Intro

    02:09 1 - Independent Confirmation

    05:15 2 - Encourage Debate

    08:34 3 - Authority Means Nothing Without Evidence

    14:32 4 - Multiple Hypothesis

    19:23 5 - Don't Marry Your Own Ideas

    23:05 6 - Quantify

    26:57 Leaving AA + Doing Great

    29:24 Geting Worse in AA

    32:50 7 - Every Link Must Hold

    36:20 8 - Occam's Razor

    Resources for deconstructing AA:

    👉 Deprogram Lounge (community, Zooms, book club, Escape Kit + more)

    📚 Deprogram Book List (my fave deprogram, cult recovery and critical thinking books)

    Let’s get f*cking free

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    42 m
  • Ep 189 MARA: A Non-Judgemental Alternative to AA – Bob's Story
    Feb 3 2026

    MARA is a recovery path and stands for Medication Assisted Recovery Anonymous. It has 12 steps but is NOT affiliated with AA or even that similar to AA but the steps are inspired from AA. I find MARA to be very compassionate, empathetic and a recovery path that I'm so glad now exists.

    Bob shares his story with leaving NA, joining MARA and how it's made all the difference in his own recovery and life.

    MARA website

    MARA book

    Timestamps:

    00:00 Medication Assisted Recovery Intro

    03:25 Why Bob Left NA

    08:32 Googling Harm Reduction

    09:41 What is Medication Assisted Recovery Anonymous

    22:36 Prescribed Opioids at 22 Years Sober

    30:31 Withdrawing From Suboxone

    35:04 Recovery Treatment Not Working + Relapse

    42:29 Living a Safe Lifestyle

    44:35 NA vs MARA Recovery

    47:33 MARA Meetings

    1:03:34 My First MARA Meeting

    1:07:47 Working in Treatment + Harm Reduction

    1:13:22 We Were At The Same MARA Meeting

    1:22:23 Building a Support System

    1:29:00 Benefits of MARA Recovery

    1:33:40 Why MARA is a Better Solution

    👉 Deprogram Lounge (community, Zooms, book club, Escape Kit + more)

    📚 Deprogram Book List (my fave deprogram, cult recovery and critical thinking books)

    Let’s get f*cking free

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    1 h y 45 m