Ever feel like every conversation with your teen turns into an argument — and you're both left frustrated and unheard?

You're not alone — but there's a smarter way to navigate these tense moments. In this episode, Tess Connolly, LCSW and parent coach, shares a calm, connection-first approach to arguing with your teen that doesn’t end in slammed doors or shut-downs. If you’re tired of lecturing, yelling, or feeling like the “bad guy,” this episode offers a new path forward.

• Discover the best time and place to address conflict without triggering a blow-up.
• Learn how listening (not lecturing) can shift your teen’s defensiveness into openness.
• Find out how to use conflict as a tool to build trust, empathy, and emotional growth.

Press play now to learn five simple yet powerful strategies to handle arguments with your teen in a way that brings you closer instead of tearing you apart.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

1. Why conflict is normal (and healthy) for teens.
2. How to choose the right time and place for difficult conversations.
3. The power of listening over lecturing.
4. How to focus on behavior without labeling your teen.
5. Why apologizing strengthens your relationship, not your authority.
6. How to repair and reset after an argument.

Conflict isn’t about control — it’s about communication. When you slow down, listen, and create safety, your teen learns emotional regulation, problem-solving, and respect. And that’s how single parents raise confident, connected young adults.

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📧Connect with Therese (Tess) Connolly, LCSW, CCC here👇: therese@mindfulkidsandfamilies.com Website: www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com

🆘 Need 1:1 Support? Book right here to connect with Tess for a 45-minute FREE “Parent Reset” session: Parent Reset Call

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Do you ever wonder if your teen might be vaping—but can’t tell if you’re just being paranoid?

With vaping devices disguised as everyday objects and flavored cartridges designed to appeal to teens, it’s getting harder for parents to spot the signs. This episode helps you identify what’s really going on when your teen’s behavior starts to shift, so you can step in before things escalate.

• Learn the most common behavioral, physical, and environmental signs that signal your teen might be vaping.
• Understand the difference between normal teen changes and red flags that point to substance use.
• Discover how to observe patterns calmly and prepare for a supportive, informed conversation with your teen.

Hit play to learn the key warning signs that can help you confidently recognize if your teen may be vaping—before it becomes a bigger issue.

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📧Connect with Therese (Tess) Connolly, LCSW, CCC here👇: therese@mindfulkidsandfamilies.com Website: www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com

🆘 Need 1:1 Support? Book right here to connect with Tess for a 45-minute FREE “Parent Reset” session: Parent Reset Call

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Is your teen glued to their phone — and every screen time rule you try only leads to arguments and frustration?

If you’ve ever wondered whether giving your teenager more control over their own device use is risky or wise, this episode breaks it all down. Tess Connolly, LCSW, and Gigi explore a real-life case of parents who handed over screen time responsibility to their 16-year-old — and what happened next. You’ll discover how self-regulation, trust, and emotional readiness all play into building long-term digital responsibility.

• Learn how to recognize when your teen is ready to set their own boundaries.
• Discover practical ways to balance parental guidance with teen independence.
• Understand why letting go (a little) can actually strengthen motivation, trust, and accountability in your child.

Press play to hear how giving your teen ownership over their screen time can transform conflict into confidence and connection.

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📧Connect with Therese (Tess) Connolly, LCSW, CCC here👇: therese@mindfulkidsandfamilies.com Website: www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com

🆘 Need 1:1 Support? Book right here to connect with Tess for a 45-minute FREE “Parent Reset” session: Parent Reset Call

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The Single Parenting Reset Show supports single moms, working moms, and all parents with practical parenting tips on screen time, emotional regulation, co-parenting, stress relief, setting boundaries, building trust, and raising confident tweens and teens, while tackling tech addiction, behavior problems, and parent burnout with conscious parenting strategies for stronger family connection.

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Struggling with screen time limits that spark constant battles with your teen?

As a single parent, managing your own screen habits while teaching your teen self-regulation can feel like a losing game. This episode dives deep into how your communication and role modeling directly impact your teen’s behavior—and why traditional screen rules may be working against you.

• Learn how to set screen boundaries based on developmental readiness—not just age.
• Discover simple strategies for modeling healthier device habits (yes, even when you have to work on your phone!).
• Get practical ways to transition from control to collaboration in managing tech with your teen.

Hit play to learn how to reduce screen-time conflicts and help your teen build lifelong digital discipline.

⭐Got screen time problems at home, get the Tech Reset Agreement here 👉Mindful Kids and Families

⭐️Join the Family and get your weekly Mindful Kids and Family Journal here: https://www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com/join-the-family (Get ready for lessons, podcast leads, offers for parents, and ways to win free parent coaching or masterclasses)

📧Connect with Therese (Tess) Connolly, LCSW, CCC here👇: therese@mindfulkidsandfamilies.com Website: www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com

🆘 Need 1:1 Support? Book right here to connect with Tess for a 45-minute FREE “Parent Reset” session: Parent Reset Call

⭐Got screen time problems at home? Get the Tech Reset Agreement here 👉Mindful Kids and Families

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The Single Parenting Reset Show supports single moms, working moms, and all parents with practical parenting tips on screen time, emotional regulation, co-parenting, stress relief, setting boundaries, building trust, and raising confident tweens and teens, while tackling tech addiction, behavior problems, and parent burnout with conscious parenting strategies for stronger family connection.

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Are you constantly battling your teen over screen time — especially when it’s time for dinner or bed?

In this quick-hit episode of The Single Parenting Reset Show, Tess dives into a real-life parenting challenge: how to reset screen time limits when you've let things slide. Whether your teen is gaming all night or ignoring curfews, this episode offers tactical advice that’s both compassionate and firm.

• Discover the exact words to use when setting (or re-setting) screen time boundaries.
• Learn how to use tech tools to shut off access—without a power struggle.
• Hear what really works to get your teen to cooperate—without yelling or threats.

Hit play now to learn how to reset screen time limits and get back on track with your parenting goals—before the next meltdown.

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📧Connect with Therese (Tess) Connolly, LCSW, CCC here👇: therese@mindfulkidsandfamilies.com Website: www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com

🆘 Need 1:1 Support? Book right here to connect with Tess for a 45-minute FREE “Parent Reset” session: Parent Reset Call

⭐Got screen time problems at home? Get the Tech Reset Agreement here 👉Mindful Kids and Families

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The Single Parenting Reset Show supports single moms, working moms, and all parents with practical parenting tips on screen time, emotional regulation, co-parenting, stress relief, setting boundaries, building trust, and raising confident tweens and teens, while tackling tech addiction, behavior problems, and parent burnout with conscious parenting strategies for stronger family connection.

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Do you ever wonder exactly how much screen time is too much for your tween or teen — and how to actually make limits stick without daily battles?

As a single parent, it can feel impossible to manage phones, tablets, and gaming while also keeping peace at home. In this episode, parent and family coach Tess Connolly, LCSW, breaks down what experts like the American Academy of Pediatrics and The Anxious Generation author Jonathan Haidt really recommend — and how to adapt those guidelines in real life.

Listeners will learn:

• What healthy daily screen-time limits look like for tweens vs. teens
• Why the focus should be on balance (sleep, connection, and mental health) — not strict hours
• Practical ways to create a family tech agreement that actually works

Press play now to discover how a few simple resets can reduce screen battles, improve your child’s mood, and bring more calm and connection back into your home.

⭐Got screen time problems at home, get the Tech Reset Agreement here 👉Mindful Kids and Families

⭐️Join the Family and get your weekly Mindful Kids and Family Journal here: https://www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com/join-the-family (Get ready for lessons, podcast leads, offers for parents, and ways to win free parent coaching or masterclasses)

📧Connect with Therese (Tess) Connolly, LCSW, CCC here👇: therese@mindfulkidsandfamilies.com Website: www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com

🆘 Need 1:1 Support? Book right here to connect with Tess for a 45-minute FREE “Parent Reset” session: Parent Reset Call

⭐Got screen time problems at home? Get the Tech Reset Agreement here 👉Mindful Kids and Families

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The Single Parenting Reset Show supports single moms, working moms, and all parents with practical parenting tips on screen time, emotional regulation, co-parenting, stress relief, setting boundaries, building trust, and raising confident tweens and teens, while tackling tech addiction, behavior problems, and parent burnout with conscious parenting strategies for stronger family connection.

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Are you feeling drained from constant power struggles, screen-time battles, and emotional blowups with your teen?

In this episode of The Single Parenting Reset Show, host Tess Connolly, LCSW, talks with therapist Katie K. May about the Caregiver Capacity Map—a breakthrough framework that helps single parents understand their own emotional limits and their teen’s unique sensitivities. If you’re exhausted from trying to “stay calm” while managing behavior, co-parenting, and keeping your teen off screens, this conversation will help you reset and reconnect.

• Discover how to recognize your emotional “capacity level” and refill it before frustration takes over.
• Learn simple validation techniques that instantly improve communication with your tween or teen.
• Find out how small mindset shifts can reduce screen-time conflicts and bring calm back into your home.

Tune in now to learn how to manage stress, respond with empathy, and strengthen communication with your teen—so your single-parent home feels calmer and more connected.

Find out more about Katie K. May and how to purchase her book 'You're on Fire, It's Fine' here 👉https://www.youreonfireitsfine.com/

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📧Connect with Therese (Tess) Connolly, LCSW, CCC here👇: therese@mindfulkidsandfamilies.com Website: www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com

🆘 Need 1:1 Support? Book right here to connect with Tess for a 45-minute FREE “Parent Reset” session: Parent Reset Call

⭐Got screen time problems at home? Get the Tech Reset Agreement here 👉Mindful Kids and Families

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The Single Parenting Reset Show supports single moms, working moms, and all parents with practical parenting tips on screen time, emotional regulation, co-parenting, stress relief, setting boundaries, building trust, and raising confident tweens and teens, while tackling tech addiction, behavior problems, and parent burnout with conscious parenting strategies for stronger family connection.

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Do you feel like your - once close relationship with your teen is slipping away - and no matter what you try, the distance just grows.

You're not alone. Especially for single parents of tweens and teens, the shift between sweet elementary school kids to conflict - heavy adolescence can feel like emotional whiplash.

In this episode, therapist Katie K. May breaks down her 3-step Hierarchy of connection - a proven framework developed with working with hundreds of families struggling to re-build fractured parent-teen bonds.

Learn the exact first step to reconnecting with a distant teen - without pushing conversation or pushing too hard.

Discover how simple side-by-side activities can open the door to real emotional closeness.

Understand why emotional mismatches between you and your teen may be blocking connection - and how to meet them where they are.

Press play to discover a therapist - approved roadmap to reconnect with your teen - even if things feel tense and shut down right now.

Find out more about Katie K. May and how to purchase her book 'You're on Fire, It's Fine' here 👉https://www.youreonfireitsfine.com/

⭐Got screen time problems at home, get the Tech Reset Agreement here 👉Mindful Kids and Families

⭐️Join the Family and get your weekly Mindful Kids and Family Journal here: https://www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com/join-the-family (Get ready for lessons, podcast leads, offers for parents, and ways to win free parent coaching or masterclasses)

📧Connect with Therese (Tess) Connolly, LCSW, CCC here👇: therese@mindfulkidsandfamilies.com Website: www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com

🆘 Need 1:1 Support? Book right here to connect with Tess for a 45-minute FREE “Parent Reset” session: Parent Reset Call

⭐Got screen time problems at home? Get the Tech Reset Agreement here 👉Mindful Kids and Families

⭐️Join the Family and get your weekly Mindful Kids and Family Journal here: https://www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com/join-the-family (Get ready for lessons, podcast leads, offers for parents, and ways to win free parent coaching or masterclasses)

The Single Parenting Reset Show supports single moms, working moms, and all parents with practical parenting tips on screen time, emotional regulation, co-parenting, stress relief, setting boundaries, building trust, and raising confident tweens and teens, while tackling tech addiction, behavior problems, and parent burnout with conscious parenting strategies for stronger family connection.

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