What really kills sex in a marriage? Is it menopause—or is it something deeper? In this episode of Sex, Love & Soul, I (Mary Knight) answer the question so many men are quietly asking: Why doesn’t my wife want me anymore?

We go far beyond hormones and into the hidden dynamics of masculine and feminine energy, emotional leadership, and the ways “nice guy” conditioning sabotages intimacy. I break down why sex drive is about so much more than biology—and why it might never have been about biology at all.

If you’re in a low sex or no sex marriage, this episode is a wake-up call. You’ll hear why your wife may have never fully surrendered to you, why emotional disconnection kills desire, and why so many men wait until it’s too late to face the truth.

This isn’t about blame—it’s about power. Masculine power. And how to reclaim it in a way that builds connection, not control.

If you’re ready to shift the energy in your relationship, deepen your intimacy, and stop waiting for things to fix themselves—this one’s for you.

Learn more about my private coaching, workshops, and book How to Turn Nice into Your Sexy Superpower at sexloveandsoul.com.

Want to ask a question or share something personal? Email me at mary@sexloveandsoul.com. I love hearing from you.

Thanks for listening—and remember, it’s not over unless you decide it is.

Captain Save-A-Ho: Why Nice Guys End Up with Low-Sex Women

Are you constantly drawn to women who seem sweet, wounded, and low on desire—and telling yourself she just needs the right man? In this episode of Sex, Love & Soul, I unpack the hidden dynamic that keeps nice guys stuck in sexless relationships. We’ll talk people-pleasing, birth control, bad boundaries, and the seductive trap of trying to fix a woman instead of actually being with her. If you’re ready to stop shrinking yourself to earn love, this one is for you.

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Subscribe, listen, and let’s change how you show up with women—for good.

You thought it meant something. She said all the right things. Then—she vanished.

If you’ve ever been ghosted by an escort—or anyone—you know the pain is real. You’re left confused, rejected, and obsessing over what went wrong. In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on why this happens, what’s really going on behind her silence, and how you can stop investing your time and energy in pain.

I’m Mary Knight, and I speak from personal experience as a former high-end escort and now as a relationship and intimacy coach for men. I’m not here to shame you—I’m here to tell you the truth that most people won’t. This isn’t just about sex. It’s about entitlement, emotional projection, masculine energy, and the very real consequences of chasing fantasy instead of reality.

If you’re stuck in a cycle of rumination, this video will help you break free. Because waiting for closure is keeping you small—and it’s time to reclaim your power.

Want to stop chasing and start leading?

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