Resilience Unravelled - Redefining Masculinity and Building Community with Ralph Brewer

In this episode of 'Resilience Unravelled,' host Russell Thackeray welcomes Ralph Brewer from Help for Men. Ralph shares his journey of overcoming personal challenges, including divorce and single fatherhood, which led him to create Help for Men and The Brotherhood.

They discuss the concept of masculinity and its current crisis, touching on toxic masculinity, the role of men, and societal expectations. Ralph emphasises the importance of community, role models, and accountability in personal development and relationship growth. They also explore the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships and the need for men to find secure spaces for vulnerability and growth. Ralph's organisation, Help for Men, offers support through books, conferences, and discussion forums for men worldwide.

00:00 Introduction

00:50 Ralph's Background and Journey

02:01 Exploring Masculinity and Toxic Masculinity

02:44 Pendulum Swing in Male Behaviour

04:38 Cultural Constants and Masculinity

07:02 Gender Roles and Societal Expectations

11:06 Parenting, Education, and Masculinity

13:47 Safe Spaces and Vulnerability

16:03 Accountability in Relationships

16:53 Anxious Men and Avoidant Partners

17:53 Therapy and Group Sessions

19:28 The Role of Community and Role Models

21:30 Victim Mentality and Personal Growth

26:03 Rebuilding and Parenting

30:28 Global Reach and Conferences

You can contact us at [e-mail]

Resources can be found online or link to our website https://resilienceunravelled.com