Jayson opens up about his recent prostate cancer diagnosis. He talks about the causes of cancer, letting people’s care in and his recommendations for how men should monitor their health as they age. This episode is a PSA for men over 40, if you haven’t been screened for cancer, now is the time.

Timestamps:

• 2:16 - Jayson's experience
• 6:34 - Causes of cancer
• 9:01 - Letting people's care in
• 12:15 - Recommendations for men over 40

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IN THIS EPISODE, You will learn:

• To see your partner as a sacred mirror and sanctuary for the growing your greatest actualized self
• The true characteristics of a long-term partnership
• How your partnership is the optimal container for complete transformation of yourself into the highest possible version imaginable
• How to fall in love and why this is more important than being married
• How to take radical responsibility for being loved in every moment of your life
• How to actually get your needs/wants met in a partnership
• How to know if conflict in your relationship is driving you toward or away from more magnificence

There’s a ton in this episode so dive in and go slow.

And, Here’s a great question from Annie to ask yourself if you are trying to decide to stay or leave:

Is the person I’m being called to become by what my partner’s asking me to become (if you take on the growth-development framework), will you become a more extraordinary version of yourself? If who they are asking you to become is a constricted, small, tight version of you, then this is probably not the person you want to be with.

However, if you identify as the smaller version of you, then, you are going to hear your partner’s feedback as criticism and blame and might make them wrong in the process. So, pay attention to these finer points.

Timestamps:

• 1:47 - What are we getting into when we say yes to long-term relationships?
• 6:04 - Becoming the best version of yourself
• 9:49 - Annie's story
• 16:48 - Taking responsibility when we don't feel loved
• 21:35 - Getting out of your victimhood
• 30:34 - When to leave

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Most of us have no idea how damaging relational stress can be. In this episode, legendary medical doctor and psycho-physio-spiritual trailblazer Dr. Gabor Maté brings some very grounded, practical examples of how relationship stress can impact our lives. The result of stress can be seen throughout the web of our life and it’s up to us to learn how to relate and attach well to our fellow humans. I love how this man turns such complicated topics into common sense. If you want a deeper cut about your marriage, children, or any stressful relationship, this episode is a must listen.

SHOWNOTES

• What happens when Gabor’s wife forgets to pick him up at the airport. [8:30]
• How our partners are perfectly suited to help us grow. [10:35]
• What happened in Gabor’s childhood that makes his wife a perfect match for him now. [13:00]
• The long-term cost of not dealing with stress. [15:00]
• How parents can be compromised by raising their children. [17:30]
• The link between our relationship health and our physical and mental health. [19:30]
• What’s the best way to deal with our own relational and attachment issues? [29:00]
• Why relational healing modalities are so effective. [30:00]
• What we can learn from pygmy cultures about parenting and relationships. [32:30]
• How relationship can most effectively be taught to children. [34:00]
• The effect of Facebook and Internet on kids. [38:00]

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