Episodes

  • #98: Moving Beyond Type 1's Patterns w/ David Thomas

    #98: Moving Beyond Type 1's Patterns w/ David Thomas
    Aug 22 2023
    In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk about how Type 1s can move beyond their core type patterns by incorporating tools from Type 4 and Type 7. David Thomas, Founder of Raising Boys and Girls and Daystar Counseling, joins the show and shares how he came to realize he was a Type 1 and the ways he uses tools from other types in his life and counseling practice. LEAVE A REVIEW FOR "HOW WE RELATE" ON... Amazon: www.amazon.com/How-We-Relate-Und…1687805660&sr=8-1 GoodReads: www.goodreads.com/book/show/60693284-how-we-relate Barnes & Noble: www.barnesandnoble.com/w/how-we-rela…ks/1141293005 Target: www.target.com/p/how-we-relate-b…over/-/A-86919825
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    1 hr
  • #97: Moving Beyond Your Type's Patterns w/ Marilyn Vancil

    #97: Moving Beyond Your Type's Patterns w/ Marilyn Vancil
    Aug 8 2023
    In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey begin a new series on Moving Beyond Your Core Type. Marilyn Vancil joins the show to discuss her new book, Beyond the Enneagram. Together they discuss the need for inner transformation and soul restoration on the Enneagram journey and how to move from self-orientation to God-centered living. LEAVE A REVIEW FOR "HOW WE RELATE" ON... Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/How-We-Relate-Understanding-Enneagram/dp/0310365198/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687805660&sr=8-1 GoodReads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/60693284-how-we-relate Barnes & Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/how-we-relate-jesse-eubanks/1141293005 Target: https://www.target.com/p/how-we-relate-by-jesse-eubanks-hardcover/-/A-86919825
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    54 mins
  • #96: Reflections on Your Desires

    #96: Reflections on Your Desires
    Jul 25 2023
    In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey wrap up the series on The Enneagram and Desire with CrossPoint Director, Clif Roth. Jesse and Lindsey hear what Clif is currently thinking about desire: how it has grown and how it is impacting relationships.
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    1 hr and 4 mins
  • #95: Your Desire to Be at Peace w/Andy Gullahorn (Type 9)

    #95: Your Desire to Be at Peace w/Andy Gullahorn (Type 9)
    Jul 11 2023
    In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through the desire to have peace and how this is expressed in the qualities of Enneagram Type 9. Singer-songwriter and professional high-fiver Andy Gullahorn joins the show and shares how the desire to be at peace has shaped his life as well as his journey to tell the difference between peace and comfort. Everyone plays Trial by Trolley, where Andy will save the world from either hungry Kraken or flying sharks.
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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • #94: Your Desire to Be Protective w/ Adam Young (Type 8)

    #94: Your Desire to Be Protective w/ Adam Young (Type 8)
    Jun 27 2023
    In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through the desire to protect yourself and how this is expressed in the qualities of Enneagram Type 8. Adam Young of The Place We Find Ourselves podcast joins the show and shares how the desire to be protective has shaped his life as well as his journey to tell the difference between protection and control. Everyone plays Your Worst Nightmare, where Lindsey will try to predict Adam’s fears.
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    56 mins
  • The Truth About the Enneagram w/ Love Thy Neighborhood

    The Truth About the Enneagram w/ Love Thy Neighborhood
    Jun 20 2023
    Some claim the enneagram comes from ancient Christians while others claim it’s from demons. Is the enneagram a gift from God or a Trojan horse of self-deception? Three stories of people who discover shocking truths about the enneagram that lead them to unexpected places. Connect with Michelle: michellenebel.com Connect with Tyler: tylerzach.com/history Connect with Lindsey: relatebetter.com
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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • #93: Your Desire to Be Happy w/ Jackie Brewster (Type 7)

    #93: Your Desire to Be Happy w/ Jackie Brewster (Type 7)
    Jun 13 2023
    In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through the desire to have happiness and how this is expressed in the qualities of Enneagram Type 7. Author and Enneagram coach Jackie Brewster joins the show and shares how the desire to be happy has shaped her life as well as her journey to tell the difference between joy and momentary pleasures. Lindsey and Jackie play Two Truths and A Lie, where they each learn something new.
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    50 mins
  • #92: Your Desire to Be Secure w/ Jill Phillips (Type 6)

    #92: Your Desire to Be Secure w/ Jill Phillips (Type 6)
    May 30 2023
    In this episode, Jesse and Lindsey talk through the desire to have security and how this is expressed in the qualities of the Enneagram Type 6. Singer-songwriter and licensed therapist Jill Phillips joins the show and shares how the desire to be secure has shaped her life as well as her journey to tell the difference between security and safety. Everyone plays You’ve Got Problems, where Jill may choose to eat a bowl of teeth.
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    49 mins