Cory Kingstrom joins the conversation.

Today’s topic indulges the question, “How do you fight right?

Cory and Danielle discuss what they’ve learned from Dr. Julie Schwarz Gottman and Dr. John Gottman’s new book, “Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict into Connection.” Danielle received this book as a complimentary gift from Harmony Books. Thank you for the gift!

The conversation indulges what our takeaway is from understanding conflict under a new lens, the lens of connection. We discuss conflict styles and Cory and Danielle do not see eye-to-eye on which type of conflict style fits best.

The conversation then turns toward Internet Authentication. Should the government verify all social media and internet users or should people be afforded the cloak of anonymity?

The conversation then morphs into a discussion on Red Pill agendas and why Andrew Tate and his ilk are dangerous to discourse. From there, we briefly delve into “What is stoicism?”

And finally, we delve into the infidelity conversation and discuss how abandonment issues can create conflicts in relationships.

This episode is filled with so much substance, nuance, and two individual perspectives compassionately considering one another in an authentic, connected dialogue.

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Episode 119 is a monologue. Today, Danielle shares her thoughts about TRP- The Red Pill Ideology-that is infecting society.

This monologue includes portions of a study conducted by Matteo Bottoa and Lucas Gottzén. The study is called: Swallowing and spitting out the red pill: young men, vulnerability, and radicalization pathways in the manosphere.

Topics include: Emotional exploitation and the currency that costing you your dignity. Manosphere groups and Red Pill content exploit the emotional experiences of their audience for profit while leaving men perpetually stuck in depression, isolation, while encouraging growing feelings of resentment and hatred of women.

Please enter the listening stratosphere with an open heart, and open mind, and open ears. Thank you for compassionately considering the perspective of Danielle Kingstrom

The study discussed within this episode can be found here:

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/09589236.2023.2260318

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Dovid Feldman joins the conversation. He is a licensed marriage therapist

Today’s topic indulges the question, “How do you rebuild or strengthen your marriage?”

Dovid Shares the 5 foundations for a great marriage. These are: Gratitude, Listening, Communication, Boundaries, and Sexuality.

The conversation indulges the spike in sexlessness in marriages and long term relationships. Dovid offers some great ideas that can help you cultivate a structure to maintain erotic enthusiasm and ensures needs are being met. He notes that the plan to “just have sex when you feel like” is the reason sexuality is the foundational focus in his course. If you wait for when you “feel” like it, how long are you waiting?

The conversation then turns to how to implement and differentiate desire and intimacy in the marriage. He speaks of the Jewish idea of implementing a degree of abstinence to help keep desire alive.

When discussing boundaries, Dovid notes the importance of understanding how only how to set the boundaries, but how to receive them as well. And reminds us that boundaries are designed to separate us while also bringing us closer. It’s a paradox we must manage.

This episode is filled with so much substance, nuance, and two individual perspectives compassionately considering one another in an authentic, connected dialogue.

For more insight and inspiration, be sure to follow today’s guest on X (formerly Twitter- forever Twitter):

https://twitter.com/dovidfeldman

And check out Dovid’s website to build a great marriage:

https://dovidfeldman.com/