In this episode, I talk about how rejection is normal and deciding how to handle it (before it happens) makes it sting less. I also talk about how to think about meeting and dating women as a “numbers game” - the RIGHT way.

Why think about any of this? Because, this ability to prepare for rejection and bounce back from rejection (quickly) is exactly what guys who are good with women do (and you can do it too).

Episode Notes:

RR45. You will get rejected but you will win in the end, if you make being reboundy your goal.

• Your “Average” in dating is this: When talking to women, what percentage of time are you having comfortable, fun interactions? Higher is better.
• The more women interact you with in a comfortable and fun way, the more your chances for getting phone numbers and dates increases.
• Super Joes are comfortable, fun, and cool with ALL women (even ones they won’t date). Be like the Super Joes.
• Essence of being “reboundy” = staying balanced, focused, and going back to preparing - even after setbacks with women.
• You are already “reboundy” in some parts of your life. You know how this feels.

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Quote to Remember:

“You’re not here to lower your standards, settle, and date women you not that into looks-wise or personality-wise. You’re not here give up on women altogether. That’s not why you’re here. You’re here to win.”

Learn more about the Reboundy Program: https://reboundy.com/

In this episode, I talk about the bad habit of being extra nice or giving star treatment to new women, just because they look good (i.e., simping). I also talk about some ways to beat this natural urge to put attractive women on pedestals (before they actually deserve it).

Why care about all of this? Because, with a new woman who is very attractive, you might be too “nice” to her or you might try being a total jerk (as a workaround for your niceness). Both approaches are bad. Listen now to learn more about the “right” moves with a woman who is extremely attractive.

Episode Notes:

RR44. Remember that no woman deserves to be put on a pedestal when she hasn’t really earned it.

• The Halo Effect = the behavior of automatically assigning positive values to someone, just because they look good.
• Good looks are not a reliable metric for guessing at intelligence, goodness, or personality in someone new.
• Putting a beautiful woman on a pedestal is something many guys do. If you do this, you may be lumped in with other unremarkable guys.
• When you talking to a woman who is beautiful, look for her imperfections and think about them.
• Don’t overcorrect your niceness tendency by being a mean jerk. Just be neutral and normal.

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Quote to Remember:

“Watch out for the Halo Effect because good looks don’t guarantee you’re getting quality or happiness over time.”

Learn more about the Reboundy Program: https://reboundy.com/

In this episode, I talk about the super-human advantage you can have with women IF you have a good sense of humor. I also talk about how to work on your sense of humor the right way - so you can be the funny guy who dates WAY out of his league.

Episode Notes:

RR43: If you want a killer sense of humor, listen to comedy, and share, share, share.

• You don’t have to be a professional comedian to get someone to smile or laugh.
• When a guy has a good sense of humor, that signals safety and fun to a woman.
• When a guy has no sense of humor, that signals potential danger or boredom to a woman.
• Listening to stand-up comedy and sharing (with attribution) is an easy way to get someone to smile or laugh.
• For men, confidence combined with a good sense of humor, is magical to women.

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Quote to Remember:

“Smiling, laughing, chuckling…all that…is good…but only when appropriate and only when it fits the conversation or situation.”

Learn more about the Reboundy Program: https://reboundy.com/