In this week’s episode, Kevin and I dive into something that so many runners (especially my fellow Type A personalities!) will relate to — the paradox of control.

As runners, we love our plans, our paces, our structure. Control helps us stay consistent and push toward our goals. But when that need for control starts to take over, it can also lead to stress, frustration, and even burnout — both on the run and in life.

We open up about some personal experiences — from remodeling our bathroom (hello, chaos!) to grieving the loss of our sweet pet — and how those moments reminded us that not everything can or should be controlled. Sometimes, the best growth happens when we learn to let go and allow space for life (and training) to unfold.

In this episode, we talk about:
🏃‍♀️ How control can be both your superpower and your stumbling block
🧠 Why surrendering doesn’t mean giving up — it means trusting the process
💡 The mindset shift that helps you find freedom and flow in your running
📓 A journaling prompt to reflect on where you might need to take more control… or where it’s time to let go

If this resonates, we’d love for you to take a few minutes to reflect and share your insights with us — or bring them to your next run and see what comes up.

🎧 Tune in now and let’s explore what it really means to find balance between holding on and letting go.

00:00 Introduction to the Paradox of Control

09:35 Cross Country Team and Control

12:34 Understanding Control and the Nervous System

19:33 Effort, Consistency, and Mindset

28:51 Shifting Belief Systems

30:50 Grace and Patience with a New Dog

33:03 Uncontrollable Factors in Running

36:06 Hormonal Influences and Control

40:05 Structured Flexibility in Training

42:31 Balancing Control and Surrender

52:03 Invitation to the Real Life Runners Team

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In this final episode of our recovery series, we’re diving into one of the most overlooked — yet absolutely essential — parts of recovery: your nervous system.

So often, runners think recovery is just about foam rolling, stretching, and getting enough sleep. But real recovery goes deeper. It’s about helping your body and mind shift out of “go mode” and into a state where true repair can happen.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:
🧠 Your nervous system’s role in recovery – How your body’s “fight or flight” and “rest and repair” modes affect how well you bounce back from training.
🍎 The nutrition connection – Why fueling with enough protein and carbohydrates isn’t just about energy — it’s about giving your body what it needs to rebuild stronger.
😩 The stress factor – How life stress impacts your running recovery (and why you can’t separate the two).
💨 Tools to calm your system – Simple, actionable techniques like intentional breathing, gentle movement, and mindfulness to help you tap into your parasympathetic system and recover more efficiently.
💤 Recovery as a lifestyle – How nutrition, stress management, and quality sleep work together to support your performance, prevent burnout, and keep you running strong for years to come.

Recovery isn’t just what you do after your run — it’s how you live in between the miles.

🎧 Tune in to learn how to work with your nervous system, not against it, so you can train smarter, recover faster, and run stronger — for the long run.

01:40 The Role of the Nervous System in Recovery

03:12 Nutrition: The Foundation of Recovery

08:29 The Importance of Protein and Carbohydrates

10:29 Understanding Low Energy Availability

18:02 Stress Management for Optimal Recovery

25:46 Breathing Techniques for Recovery

28:59 The Critical Role of Sleep

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This week on the Real Life Runners Podcast, we’re continuing our recovery series by diving into the tools that everyone seems to be talking about — cold plunges, saunas, compression gear, massage guns, and more.

There’s a lot of hype out there, but what actually works? 🤔
In this episode, we break down the science behind these popular recovery methods — how they affect your body, when to use them, and when they might actually get in the way of your progress.

We’ll talk about:
Cold therapy — how ice baths and cold plunges can help reduce soreness and inflammation, but also why you might not want to use them after every workout.
Heat and saunas — the surprising benefits of using heat for long-term adaptation and overall recovery.
Compression tools — do those sleeves and boots really work, and how can they improve circulation and perceived recovery?
Massage and self-massage — the benefits of touch, relaxation, and nervous system regulation (and why this one might be more powerful than you think).

And of course, we’ll remind you that no tool — no matter how fancy or expensive — can replace the foundations of recovery: sleep, nutrition, and managing stress.

By the end of this episode, you’ll know how to use these recovery tools strategically to support your running, not sabotage your adaptations.

🎧 Tune in to learn how to make recovery work smarter for you, so you can run stronger, stay healthy, and keep loving the run!

02:53 Exploring Recovery Modalities

05:49 Cold Therapy: Benefits and Drawbacks

14:46 Heat Therapy: How It Works

19:57 Compression Therapy: What You Need to Know

25:29 Massage Therapy: Myths and Facts

30:12 Choosing the Right Recovery Tool

33:49 Common Recovery Mistakes

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