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Welcome to The Thais Gibson Podcast, where transformation happens fast and lasts a lifetime. Tune in for expert insights on breaking free from repetitive patterns, practical steps for reprogramming your subconscious mind, and empowering conversations that will inspire you to evolve into your best self across all aspects of life!134043 Desarrollo Personal Éxito Personal
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  • 4 Things Every Fearful Avoidant Experiences During NO CONTACT
    Apr 3 2026

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    When a relationship ends and No Contact begins; what is a Fearful Avoidant actually feeling?

    If you’re a Fearful Avoidant or you’re trying to understand one, this video walks you through the emotional stages they typically experience after a breakup.

    Because Fearful Avoidants have both Anxious and Avoidant tendencies, their experience during No Contact is rarely linear.

    In this episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the four key stages Fearful Avoidants often move through and how to navigate each one in a healthy way.

    Episode Summary

    You’ll learn: • Why Fearful Avoidants may initially feel relief or freedom • How ambivalence begins to creep in • When and why they start missing their ex • The difference between wanting reconnection and wanting commitment • What must happen during the re-bonding stage to avoid repeating old patterns

    This video also explains why breaking No Contact too early or approaching reconnection incorrectly can push a Fearful Avoidant back into Avoidance.

    If reconnection is going to happen, it must be intentional and growth-oriented.

    Key Takeaways ✔️No Contact activates both the Anxious and Avoidant sides of a Fearful Avoidant ✔️Initial relief can last several weeks, especially if the relationship felt overwhelming ✔️Numbing behaviors can mask deeper loneliness ✔️Ambivalence is a transition stage not a final decision ✔️Missing an ex doesn’t always mean readiness for commitment ✔️Healthy re-bonding requires discussing what didn’t work the first time ✔️Without conscious repair, old patterns will repeat

    Timestamps 00:00 – What Do Fearful Avoidants Experience During No Contact? 00:48 – What Is No Contact? 01:59 – 1. They May Initially Experience Relief or Freedom 04:44 – 7-Day Free Trial Promo 05:34 – 2. They Reach a Stage of Ambivalence 06:28 – 3. They Start Missing Their Ex 08:08 – 4. They Enter the Re-Bonding Stage 08:41 – Discuss What Wasn’t Working the First Time Around

    Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

    Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1

    📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/

    Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/

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  • 10 Shocking Ways Dismissive Avoidants Sabotage Intimacy
    Apr 1 2026
    Explore Your Attachment Style With Thais Gibson. Access All Courses, Live Webinars & Q&As Free for 7 Days (Enough Time to Complete a Full Course). Limited-time Access: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-04-01-26&el=podcast You might feel like everything is going well in your relationship… Until suddenly, there’s distance. Withdrawal. A quick exit. Dismissive Avoidants often sabotage intimacy, not because they don’t care, but because vulnerability, dependence, and emotional exposure feel unsafe at a subconscious level. Episode Summary In this episode, Thais Gibson breaks down 10 hidden patterns Dismissive Avoidants use to sabotage intimacy, often without even realizing they’re doing it. From keeping emotional distance and prioritizing independence to minimizing vulnerability, avoiding conflict resolution, and failing to communicate needs, these patterns can quietly erode connection over time. You’ll learn: ✔️ Why Avoidants fear emotional exposure ✔️ How counterdependence blocks healthy interdependence ✔️ The core wounds behind commitment struggles ✔️ Why intermittent reinforcement shows up in avoidant dynamics ✔️ How minimizing problems prevents true intimacy ✔️ Why fear of enmeshment leads to all-or-nothing boundaries ✔️ How lack of needs communication eventually creates quick exits Most importantly, this episode explains how these patterns are not permanent personality traits, they are subconscious conditioning that can be rewired. Because intimacy doesn’t threaten your independence. It expands it. Key Takeaways • Why Avoidants keep emotional distance from partners • The difference between independence and counterdependence • How the “I Am Trapped” core wound fuels commitment fears • Why suppressing vulnerability blocks connection • How intermittent reinforcement creates confusion • The fear of healthy interdependence • Why minimizing problems damages trust • The fear of enmeshment and difficulty setting small boundaries • Why avoidants do quick exits • How not communicating needs sabotages long-term intimacy Timestamps 00:00 – Hidden Ways Avoidants Sabotage Intimacy 00:37 – 1. They Keep Emotional Distance From Their Partner 02:05 – 2. They Prioritize Their Independence to the Point of Becoming Counterdependent 03:09 – 3. They Struggle With Commitments 03:54 – 4. They Minimize Their Ability to Be Vulnerable 04:30 – 5. You May See Some Dynamics of Intermittent Reinforcement 05:27 – 6. They Fear Connecting in an Interdependent Relationship 05:50 – 7. They Minimize Problems in the Relationship 06:50 – 8. They Fear Enmeshment 07:57 – 9. They Will Do a Quick Exit 08:08 – 10. They Don't Communicate Their Needs 08:56 – 7-Day Free Trial Promo 09:46 – Like and Subscribe For More Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/
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  • The Fearful Avoidant Inner Emotional Storm | How to Heal
    Mar 30 2026

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    If you identify as a Fearful Avoidant attachment style, relationships can feel like an exhausting push-pull between craving deep connection and feeling overwhelmed or unsafe once it starts to happen. This inner conflict can leave you confused, burned out, and questioning yourself.

    In this episode, Thais Gibson breaks down why this happens at a subconscious level and what you can begin doing to heal it.

    Once a Fearful Avoidant truly attaches, the nervous system often interprets closeness as both desired and dangerous. Early painful experiences teach the mind to associate relationships with abandonment, betrayal, or feeling trapped. As a result, the subconscious creates a cycle of pulling people close and then pushing them away to self-protect.

    Thais walks through the core subconscious wounds driving this pattern, including abandonment, betrayal, unworthiness, fear of being seen as “bad,” and an all or nothing relationship with boundaries. You’ll learn how these wounds shape communication struggles, over-giving, burnout, and emotional withdrawal and how somatic healing and nervous system regulation are essential for real, lasting change.

    Key Takeaways • Why the mind seeks certainty after painful or chaotic experiences • How Fearful Avoidants come to believe love is both good and threatening • The subconscious roots of the push-pull dynamic • Why over-giving and under-receiving leads to burnout and withdrawal • How fear of being seen as “bad” impacts vulnerability and communication • The Fearful Avoidant boundary cycle and how to begin healing it • Why nervous system regulation is a core pillar of attachment healing

    Timestamps 00:00 – The Fearful Avoidant Inner Emotional Storm 01:11 – When We Go Through Painful Events, The Mind Seeks Certainty 03:40 – You Believe That Relationships Are Both a Good Thing and a Threat 05:21 – The Push-Pull Dynamic 06:31 – Struggling With Communication 08:01 – Somatic Course Promo 08:21 – Fear of Being Seen as Bad 09:51 – Change and Heal Your All-or-Nothing Relationship to Your Boundaries

    Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

    Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast

    🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1

    📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/

    Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/

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first off I’d like to say thank you. The journey that I am on you have heard over and over again I appreciate the content you have out there. I feel like a sponge on a daily basis just soaking in as much as I can I would for someday to meet you whether it be in one of the seminars or I don’t know something, you’re truly inspirational and I appreciate you.
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