In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler delivers a powerful message on embracing failure as a catalyst for growth. Drawing from personal experiences, he outlines six actionable strategies to learn from setbacks, including avoiding complacency, focusing on controllables, and forgiving oneself. Michler emphasizes resilience and personal responsibility, urging listeners to let go of past mistakes and build a better future. His candid, motivational approach inspires men to confront challenges head-on and transform adversity into opportunity.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Introduction: The Inevitability of Failure
02:53 - Six Strategies to Learn from Failure
05:13 - Complacency Kills
07:33 - Externalities Are Rarely the Problem
11:47 - Build New, Let Go of the Old
15:16 - Do Not Grow Bitter or Label
19:27 - Forgive Yourself
27:04 - Focus on the Controllables
28:52 - Closing: Transform Challenges into Growth

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In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorenson tackle tough, real-world questions from men facing divorce, personal setbacks, and disconnection at home. They dive into how optics impact execution, how to master emotional resilience through stress, and why ego can sabotage your growth.

From powerful mindset shifts to tactical advice for navigating separation and fatherhood, this episode is packed with hard truths and uplifting insights. Whether you’re healing, leading, or rebuilding—this one hits home.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 – Technical Troubles and Weekend Recap
05:45 – Viewer Questions Begin
06:02 – What to Do When Divorce Hits
10:07 – Reconnecting Without Shared Interests
15:09 – Rebuilding After a Breakup
21:45 – Divorce Logistics and Legal Readiness
27:59 – How to Apologize to Your Kids
32:23 – Blessings Hidden in Disappointment
44:58 – Would You Want Your Son to Live Your Life?
52:07 – Hierarchical Decision-Making
52:34 – Optics vs. Execution Debate
59:00 – The Brain’s Argument With Itself
01:02:24 – Optics as a Sign of Respect
01:04:50 – Final Thoughts and Hope Through Hard Times

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It can be challenging to be faithful towards your goals and objectives in the seemingly endless supply of trials and adversity. Whether you’re dealing with a crippling financial situation, devastating divorce, or something like my guest today, Hal Elrod, dealt with, a life-threatening cancer diagnosis.

In spite of all that, and more, you have responsibilities to take care of and duties to fulfill. So, how do you do it? Today, Hal and I talk about being realistic in your pursuits by balancing the line between probable and possible, what is a true miracle and how to create more of them in your life, the powerful connection between mind and body (and, how to use it), and using affirmations in a way that works.

00:00 — Reconnecting After Nearly a Decade
00:45 — Hal’s Cancer Diagnosis and Immediate Challenges
03:35 — Fear of Death vs. Fear for Family
06:14 — The Miracle Equation: Unwavering Faith and Extraordinary Effort
08:17 — Preparing for Death While Fighting to Live
13:08 — The Role of Affirmations in Healing
14:20 — Beating Cancer: Mindset vs. Reality
18:35 — The Mind-Body Connection and Healing Miracles
21:28 — Dr. Bernie Siegel’s Insights on Cancer Survival
23:20 — Choosing Hope Over Despair
24:51 — Fear of Failure and Others' Opinions
27:11 — Defining and Creating "Miracles"
30:09 — Faith Without Works Is Dead
31:25 — The Origin of the Miracle Equation
36:44 — The Sales Miracle: A $20,000 Breakthrough
39:42 — When Other People Influence Your Outcomes
41:29 — Overcoming Major Setbacks with the "Until" Mindset
44:53 — Adjusting Goals Without Losing Faith
45:51 — Michael Jordan and Unwavering Faith in Action
48:13 — Is It Faith or Delusion?
51:08 — What's Next After The Miracle Morning?
55:09 — Hal’s Next Project: Mastering Action and Inner Peace
57:38 — Where to Find Hal Elrod’s Work

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Ryan Michler shares seven essential mindsets for effective money management in this episode of Friday Field Notes. Aimed at men striving to protect, provide, and preside, Michler emphasizes money as a tool and metric of value, urging listeners to overcome emotional pitfalls and societal misconceptions. He outlines a strategic approach—fortify, neutralize, attack—and stresses the importance of professional support. With practical wisdom, Michler empowers men to master their finances and fulfill their potential. Tune in to rethink money and elevate your financial game.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Episode Introduction
00:37 - Money as a Metric of Value
02:57 - The Duty to Earn
07:45 - Money as a Tool
10:09 - Eliminating Emotions
15:00 - No Room for Amateurs
19:45 - Fortify, Neutralize, Attack
27:03 - Knowing Your Role

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Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen in this week's Ask Me Anything, exploring the pursuit of pleasure versus the pleasure of pursuit, the cultural shift of young men toward the right, and the power of solitude. They tackle listener questions on imposter syndrome, fatherhood, divorce, dating, financial decisions, and personal growth. With humor and insight, they debunk overhyped headlines, like the "astronaut" space crew, and share actionable advice for living purposefully.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Opening Banter and Headlines
01:25 - The Pleasure of Pursuit
06:30 - Space Crew Rant
13:06 - Imposter Syndrome in Job Interviews
20:42 - Lessons from Kids
24:06 - Patience as a Father
28:40 - Why Women Leave Relationships
37:43 - Dating After Divorce
44:36 - Making Financial Decisions
48:08 - Lessons from Hard Times
53:59 - Young Men Moving Right Politically
59:26 - Call to Action

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It’s no secret that most men want to find love in life and someone they can partner with throughout life. But the reality is that far-fewer men are doing the work required than ever before. And, for those who are actively looking for love, many of them are floundering when it comes to approaching women and building interest that could potentially lead to a long-term relationship.

David Meessen is a man who has made it his life’s work to help men understand why they struggle and why society, at large, seems to be continually stacking the deck against the type of relationships the men listening to this podcast are looking for. Today we talk about why men seem to be so intimidated in approaching women, the skills (and, they are learnable skills) you can develop to have a more successful dating life, why “Progressive Desensitization” is such a valuable option in love and in life, the alarming statistics around romantic relationships and young men’s increasing aversion to them, and how radical honestly (not overly-agreeableness) is what creates attraction.

00:00 – Opening & Dating Stats Alarming for Men
01:34 – The Harsh Reality of Dating Apps
03:09 – How Dating Apps Work Against Most Men
04:27 – Learning to Play the Dating Game
05:26 – Sacrificing Values for Connection
06:37 – Approach Anxiety and Desensitization
08:51 – Start Small: Building Momentum Through Socializing
10:01 – Rejection is Often Kind – and Necessary
11:23 – Don’t Pedestalize Her – Have Options
12:46 – We Live in a Friendly or Hostile Universe
14:16 – Oversharing as a Powerful Connection Tool
15:21 – Men Struggle to Share Their Strengths
16:29 – Assume the Burden of the Conversation
17:51 – Bitterness Towards Women & Scarcity Mindset
19:58 – Reality is Better Than Fear-Based Fantasies
22:13 – You Crave the Experience, Not the Person
23:31 – Compatibility vs. Chemistry
25:16 – Communication is a Learnable Skill
26:29 – Influence vs. Manipulation
30:54 – Authenticity in Style & Presence
32:34 – Confidence is Just as Authentic as Humility
33:10 – Radical Honesty and Sharing Values Early
35:42 – Relationships Built on Aligned Values
37:27 – Disagreement is Attractive
39:33 – Common Mistakes in Online & Real-Life Dating
41:39 – Learn Humor to Boost Social Skills
43:03 – Don’t Skip the Ask – Get the Contact
44:59 – Women Get Approached Less Than You Think
46:11 – How to Approach in the Gym the Right Way
47:52 – Meeting Quality Men Matters Too
49:03 – Why Intelligent Men Struggle with Connection
52:15 – Expression Freedom & Compatibility
53:22 – Choose to See the Best in Each Other
54:26 – Final Thoughts & Where to Find David

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In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the concept of self-betrayal, defining it as failing to act on known responsibilities or instincts. He discusses its consequences, including anxiety, poor relationships, and unfulfilled potential, and identifies emotional signs like frustration and impatience. Ryan provides actionable steps to overcome self-betrayal, such as listing neglected tasks, taking immediate action, and journaling emotions.

Encouraging listeners to align actions with their values, he offers resources at orderofman.com. Tune in to learn how to bridge the integrity gap and live a more fulfilled life.

00:00 - Introduction to Self-Betrayal

02:55 - Sources of Intuition and Emotion

05:19 - Consequences of Self-Betrayal

07:44 - Recognizing Self-Betrayal Symptoms

12:30 - External vs. Internal Factors

19:25 - Actionable Steps to Overcome Self-Betrayal

26:05 - Journaling and Reflecting

28:30 - Additional Resources and Closing

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Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen for an engaging "Ask Me Anything" episode, tackling listener questions on personal growth, trust, and balance. From auditing life’s decisions to rebuilding trust with kids, they dive into coachability, journaling, and managing overwork.

Ryan shares insights from his Texas hunting trip and mentions The Men's Forge event (May 1-4). Expect raw reflections on letting go, choosing yourself, and earning trust, with practical advice for intentional living.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Episode Introduction
00:20 - Morning Routine Struggles
03:41 - Auditing Life’s Decisions
15:45 - One Principle for Your Son
20:42 - Prioritizing Self vs. Promises
25:33 - Books That Shape You
37:18 - Why Start Journaling
42:06 - Signs of Overworking
47:36 - Rebuilding Trust with Kids
55:03 - Texas Hunting Trip Recap
59:14 - The Men's Forge Event Promo

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