Mother’s Day is a complicated one for me—and I know I’m not alone. In this episode, I open up about my relationship with Mother’s Day, especially after losing my mom just over a year ago.

This isn’t a conversation about flowers and brunch plans (though I’m not knocking either). This is a deeper reflection on grief, forgiveness, healing, and the legacy we carry—and sometimes rewrite—as daughters and mothers.

For most of my life, I had a complicated relationship with my mom. It wasn’t something I talked about publicly while she was alive, but now, as I work on the book about our story, I feel called to share more—especially for those of you who also didn’t grow up with the Hallmark version of a mother-daughter relationship.

In this episode, I share:

• Why Mother’s Day can feel like grief, even if your mom is still alive
  

• What helped me begin to forgive my mom—and why it didn’t require a conversation

  The full-circle moment at our final Mother’s Day together

  Why I chose to write a book instead of telling our story on social media

  A powerful reframe around forgiveness, boundaries, and self-honoring

  What to do when you feel like “celebrating” just doesn’t feel aligned
  

• Whether you’re missing your mom, navigating a strained relationship, or just feeling the heaviness this day can bring—I hope this episode meets you with compassion and validation.

  And as a gift, I’ve added a link to access a guided healing meditation —a gentle energy transmission through the mother line. You can revisit it anytime. It’s not a one-time fix, but it’s a sacred step.

  🌸 Listen in and remember: You can honor Mother’s Day in your own way. You can feel grief and gratitude in the same breath. You can hold the full complexity of love, disappointment, and healing—and still choose softness.

  If this resonates, I’d love if you shared the episode with someone who needs it. You’re not alone in this.

  Links & Resources:

  1. Connect with Nichole Joy on IG: https://www.instagram.com/nichole_joy__/

  2. Stay in the loop & receive a free gift from me. Enter your info at the link below, and I’ll keep you posted on the book’s publishing date. Also, I’ll send you a copy of the meditation to your inbox:

  https://nicholejoy.kartra.com/page/bookupdates

  
  

I’m so excited to bring you this conversation with my dear friend and mentor, Dr. Alexis Romeu. We’ve been connected since 2017, and if you’ve been around here for a while, you already know she’s no stranger to the podcast. But if this is your first time meeting her, let me properly introduce you to someone who has truly changed my life.

Dr. Alexis is a doctor of Chinese medicine turned metaphysical teacher, channel for a trans dimensional being named Simon, founder of the Expansion Principle energy healing technology (which I’m now a practitioner of), and author of two incredible books. Go off friend!

In this episode, we dive deep into what channeling actually is (spoiler: it’s not just “I had a great idea!”). We unpack the difference between readings, psychic abilities, mediumship, and true trans-channeling—where consciousness outside of you speaks through you. Alexis shares her journey of connecting with Simon, how Expansion Principle came to be, and the importance of energetic discernment (because no, you don’t just let any ol’ being borrow your vessel).

We also talk about:

• How channeling is different from psychic readings (and why not all "messages" are created equal)

• Why the guidance from Simon has been a game-changer for me—especially during the hardest seasons of my life

• How Expansion Principle has opened up my intuitive abilities (even though I didn’t come from a traditional healing background)

• The beauty of zooming out to see life from a higher perspective, especially when humaning feels like… a lot

• What to expect if you’re joining us for an in-person channeling experience (yes, Alexis is coming to Tampa!)
  

If you’ve ever been curious about channeling, energy healing, or how to navigate life with a little more cosmic support, this conversation is for you. Plus, we share some personal stories—including how Simon casually dropped details about my book cover (that I never told Alexis) and why fairies made a surprise appearance.

✨ Tampa friends—don’t forget, Alexis will be here on May 1st for two special events: 1️⃣ A live channeling experience with Simon 2️⃣ A Meet the Author event for her newest book The Art of Sacred Relating I’ll drop the links below so you can grab your spot.

And if you’re not local, don’t worry—there are plenty of virtual ways to connect with Alexis and Simon too. Trust me, once you experience it, you’ll get why I’ve been showing up twice a month (plus private sessions) for years now.

Links & Resources:

🔹 Connect with Nichole Joy on IG: https://www.instagram.com/nichole_joy__/

🔹 Register for Tampa Events (May 1st): https://www.facebook.com/share/1GXb7DRFcL/

🔹 Alexis’ Books: — The Expansion Principle https://a.co/d/dv3WgnD

— The Art of Sacred Relating https://a.co/d/6YXGlop

🔹 Follow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dralexis_simon/

If this episode landed, I’d love to hear from you! Screenshot, share to your stories, and tag me—and if you’re coming to the Tampa event, let’s hug in real life.

In this episode, I’m joined by my former client turned dear friend, and visionary leader Melissa Fernandez — Cirque du Soleil performer turned postpartum doula turned powerhouse agency CEO—to talk all about the inaugural Doula Agency Owner Summit happening in Atlanta this April... and why I said YES to being there in person. (JOIN US - limited seating at this event - secure your spot at the link below).
We dive deep into the real behind-the-scenes of agency leadership, community building, and creating what doesn’t exist—especially when you feel the nudge to disrupt the norm and follow your own path.
If you’ve ever felt the pull to lead differently…
If you’re building (or dreaming of building) a team…
If you know there’s a better way to do business, birthwork, and beyond…
This episode is for you.
I’m officially inviting you to come hang out with us in Atlanta this spring. This is more than a summit—it’s a movement. And we would love to have you there.
In This Episode:
How Melissa went from “I don’t want to run an agency” to leading the #1 postpartum doula agency in Atlanta

The myths that keep birthworkers from expanding (and how to release them)
What it really means to lead with heart and step into your role as CEO
Why business is changing—and how to evolve with it
What makes this summit different from any other event in the industry
Why I’m showing up in person, and how you’ll know if this space is for you
An invitation to connect, collaborate, and rise together
Join Us:
Doula Agency Owner Summit | April 28–30 | Atlanta, GA
In-person tickets are limited. Virtual tickets also available.
https://nicholejoy--theatlantapostpartumdoula.thrivecart.com/agency-summit/
Use the link above to grab your spot, learn more, or reach out with questions.
Let’s Connect:
DM me @nichole_joy__ if you’re planning to come or want to meet up in Atlanta. I’d love to hear from you!
Connect with Melissa Fernandez, the owner of the #1 Postpartum Doula Agency in Atlanta, The Atlanta Postpartum Doula @the.atlanta.postpartum.doula
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