More Than Words: Honouring Parents Through Action

Rabbi Robyn Fryer Bodzin reflects on the emotional and halachic dynamics of the parent-child relationship, drawing from the fifth commandment and personal anecdotes. She reminds us that while love is often felt, Jewish tradition commands action—honour, care, and responsibility—especially as parents age. In Judaism, showing up matters more than saying “I love you,” and true honour is measured not in sentiment, but in support.
Excerpt from Shabbat morning services. May 10, 2025, Beth Tzedec Congregation, Toronto, Canada.