The person in control of a scene or relationship is the single person who decides. There is only one Captain of a relationship, and many have emailed me regarding their frustrations with their partner claiming the benefits of being in a Ds relationship while not actually transferring real authority, and I discuss this as well, and mitigations.

Tags: Ds, Relationship Design

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Prefacing your formal scene with a simple fractal representation of the scene produces extremely deep responsiveness in your subject during the second scene, and accelerates the process of conditioning and responsiveness.

Tags: Scene, Conditioning, Hypnokink

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Restricting yourself to using a single tool or rope tie for the entirety of a scene is a effective way to build a deep familiarity with all of the possible uses of a tool. I discuss this idea in both hypnokink and other examples and also the idea of standards of progression for hypnokink skills.

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