In this episode of The Might Delete Later Podcast, the hosts reconnect with Ana, an old high school friend whose fascinating past includes working as a mermaid at the Playboy Mansion. The conversation centers on Ana’s current life as a full-time caregiver for her elderly aunt Sherri, who suffers from vascular dementia and blindness. Ana candidly discusses the emotional, financial, and practical challenges of caregiving, while also sharing moments of humor, resilience, and personal growth. The episode offers an honest look at family, sacrifice, and the enduring power of love and community.

Introduction and Guest Welcome (00:00:10)
The hosts introduce Ana, an old high school friend, and tease her interesting life story and professions.

Ana’s Playboy Mansion Experience (00:01:26)
Ana shares about working at the Playboy Mansion, being a mermaid at parties, and her experiences there.

Transition to Caregiving (00:05:14)
Ana explains leaving her job to care for her elderly aunt, Sherry, and how that responsibility came to her.

Aunt Sherri’s Background and Personality (00:05:33)
Ana describes her aunt’s personality, independence, and their family relationship.

Onset of Sherry’s Health Issues (00:08:03)
Ana recounts noticing changes in Sherri, her stroke, estrangement from her sons, and the beginning of her decline.

Sherri’s Dementia and Blindness (00:09:57)
Ana details Sherri’s vascular dementia, blindness from glaucoma, and the challenges these bring.

Behavioral Changes and Care Challenges (00:10:44)
Discussion of Sherri’s inappropriate behaviors due to dementia, her sweet tooth, and Ana’s efforts to manage her care.

Financial and Emotional Struggles (00:15:03)
Ana talks about the financial strain, difficulty getting state support, and the emotional toll of caregiving.

Faith, Prayer, and Coping (00:18:15)
Ana shares how caregiving has renewed her faith and the role of prayer in coping with stress.

Philosophical and Religious Tangents (00:19:04)
The group discusses beliefs about God, heaven, and spirituality in a lighthearted way.

Uncertainty and Waiting for Support (00:21:08)
Ana describes waiting for social worker responses, losing benefits, and selling clothes to make ends meet.

Ana’s Skating Passion (00:22:55)
Ana talks about her love for roller skating, working at a skating rink as a teen, and returning to skating as an adult.

Sherri’s Remaining Independence (00:25:06)
Ana reflects on how Sherri retains parts of her personality and preferences despite dementia.

Personal Growth Through Caregiving (00:25:44)
Ana discusses how caregiving has changed her, made her calmer, and taught her about herself.

Medical Appointments and Health Management (00:27:01)
Ana describes managing Sherri’s medical care, diet, and the importance of nutrition.

Nutrition and Dementia (00:28:36)
Conversation about the impact of diet on dementia, healthy foods, and the challenges of eating well.

Daily Care Routines and Showering Challenges (00:30:42)
Ana shares the difficulties of bathing Sherri, her fears, and how Ana adapts to help her feel safe.

Estrangement from Sherri’s Sons (00:39:32)
Ana explains the family estrangement, lack of contact with Sherri’s sons, and their absence from her care.

Financial Sacrifices and Family Concerns (00:45:16)
Ana discusses using her own savings, concerns about Sherri’s sons returning for money, and her commitment to caregiving.

Rescuing Sherri and Bringing Her Home (00:46:15)
Ana recounts the moment she decided to bring Sherri home and the initial challenges.

Decline in Sherri’s Vision and Mobility (00:47:37)
Ana talks about Sherri’s worsen

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In this episode of the "Might Delete Later Podcast," hosts Derrick and D-Shean welcome Lori Weigant, a seasoned realtor from the Roseville/Sacramento area. Lori shares her journey from buying her first foreclosure to building a successful real estate career. She discusses market changes, credit tips, and the realities of buying and selling homes, including hidden neighborhood issues and financial hurdles. Lori offers practical advice for first-time buyers, highlights the importance of integrity and problem-solving in real estate, and shares personal stories about overcoming challenges in both her professional and personal life.

Introduction & Guest Introduction (00:00:22)
Hosts introduce themselves and special guest Lori Weigant, a realtor in the Roseville/Sacramento area.

Lori’s Start in Real Estate (00:01:28)
Lori shares how buying her first foreclosure in 2011 inspired her to become a real estate agent.

Getting Licensed & Early Career (00:02:31)
Lori discusses studying part-time, getting licensed in 2014, and the changing real estate market post-2008.

Market Changes & Motivation (00:03:15)
Lori talks about the impact of the market collapse, COVID-19, and her motivation for working by referral.

First Transactions & Early Experiences (00:05:58)
Lori describes her first buyer, early transactions, and working with various property types.

Commission Structure & Business Setup (00:07:42)
Explains commission-based pay, broker relationships, and setting up her own S Corp for tax purposes.

Independent Business Operations (00:09:06)
Lori details running her business independently, handling her own marketing, and using her own transaction coordinator.

Credit Score Specialty & Personal Journey (00:10:39)
Lori discusses her focus on helping clients improve credit scores and her own journey to an 850 FICO score.

Financial Advice & Home Upgrades (00:12:33)
Advice on financial discipline, saving, and prioritizing home upgrades like kitchens and bathrooms over pools.

Client Needs & Forever Homes (00:14:23)
How Lori assesses clients’ long-term plans and the impact of life changes on homeownership.

Out-of-State Moves & Referrals (00:15:56)
Lori explains her California license and how she helps clients find agents in other states.

Companies Buying Homes & Investor Impact (00:16:16)
Discussion on companies buying homes, flipping, cutting corners, and the effect on buyers and renters.

Personal Experience with Flipped Home (00:17:49)
Host shares experience buying a flipped home with hidden issues and problematic neighbors.

Inspections, Disclosures & Neighborhood Research (00:21:14)
Importance of thorough inspections, talking to neighbors, and the legalities of disclosure.

Undisclosed Issues & Legal Recourse (00:24:45)
Discussion on withheld information, potential lawsuits, and the impact of undisclosed property history.

Neighborhood Quality & Agent Limitations (00:28:52)
Lori explains what agents can and cannot disclose about neighborhoods due to fair housing laws.

Property Taxes & Mello-Roos (00:30:05)
Explanation of how property taxes are calculated, Mello-Roos bonds, and differences by area and neighborhood.

Generational Home Buying Trends & Polls (00:34:44)
Review of generational attitudes toward home prices, affordability, and causes of the housing crisis.

Interest Rates & Affordability Challenges (00:36:59)
Lori discusses how high interest rates and inflation affect home affordability and buyers’ decisions.

Delayed Homeownership & Client Mindsets (00:39:16)
Trends of people buying homes later, different client priorities, and Lori’s own experience with a profi

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In this episode of "Might Delete Later Podcast," hosts Derrick and Shana welcome Melkez for a wide-ranging conversation. Melkez discusses the No Kings Rally, political activism, and the challenges of U.S. political messaging. The group also explores honesty in relationships, referencing clips from Cam Newton, and shares personal stories about awkward encounters. Melkez reflects on Sacramento’s hip hop scene, his journey as a b-boy, and the city’s hidden cultural influences. The episode blends political insight, relationship talk, and local hip hop history for an engaging, thought-provoking listen.

Introduction & No Kings Rally (00:00:11)
Hosts introduce Melkez; discuss the No Kings Rally, political activism, and the importance of protest.

California’s Political Influence & Electric Cars (00:01:15)
Melkez explains California’s impact on hybrid technology, the EV1, and the politics behind electric vehicles.

Protest Messaging & Media Spin (00:05:03)
Discussion on how protests are framed in the media, fear-mongering, and the struggle of Democrats with messaging.

Money in Politics & Citizens United (00:06:48)
Conversation about the influence of donors, Citizens United, and the shift from individual representation to donor-driven politics.

Truth in Labeling & Food Industry (00:07:50)
Melkez talks about food labeling laws, GMOs, and differences in food standards between the US and Europe.

Corporations, Shareholders, and Public Health (00:09:26)
Exploration of corporate responsibility, Dodge vs. Ford, and how shareholder interests affect public health and product safety.

Plastic Bags & Industry Influence (00:10:53)
Discussion on the politics of plastic bags, industry lobbying, and environmental impacts.

Cam Newton & Body Count Debate (00:11:47)
Transition to Cam Newton’s Breakfast Club interview about asking partners about their sexual history.

Clips & Reactions: Honesty in Relationships (00:12:27)
Clips from Cam Newton; panel discusses honesty, transparency, and the relevance of “body count” in relationships.

Personal Experiences with Disclosure (00:18:09)
Hosts and guest share personal stories about disclosing past relationships and the impact on trust.

Relationship Priorities & Social Life (00:23:54)
Shana reflects on prioritizing her relationship over socializing, and how her perspective has changed.

Concert Stories & Stockton Experiences (00:24:25)
Hosts share stories about attending concerts, events in Stockton, and the dangers of nightlife photography.

Stockton’s Economic Stagnation (00:27:50)
Melkez discusses the lack of development in Stockton, local business challenges, and possible reasons for stagnation.

Melkez Background & Sacramento Hip Hop (00:29:15)
Melkez shares his upbringing in South Sacramento, school experiences, and early involvement in hip hop culture.

Transition from Gang Life to Dance (00:30:37)
Melkez describes moving from gang influences to dance, and how it shaped his life.

Hip Hop History & B-Boy Culture (00:34:05)
Deep dive into hip hop origins, the role of B-Boys, DJ innovations, and foundational figures in the culture.

Graffiti, Crews, and Local Legends (00:38:45)
Stories about graffiti, forming dance crews, and connections to notable hip hop figures.

Entrepreneurship: Brainstorm & T-Shirt Business (00:42:43)
Melkez recounts starting his T-shirt business, early hustles, and lessons from high school entrepreneurship.

Closing & Where to Find Melkez (00:47:00)
Wrap-up, Melkez shares his social media, music, and local Sacramento music scene recommendations.

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