LOVERS by shan

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  • Lovers by Shan is an education-first space where listeners come to better understand their own intimate lives through the life lessons and expertise of others. Shan’s mission is to empower everyone to be their own intimacy expert in the bedroom and beyond by treating guests of the podcast as educators in their own right. Past guest include Kelly Rowland who taught us about being a sensualist. Becky G who shared the importance of healthy love in an unhealthy body. Kerry Washington who warned about the dangers of keeping secrets. Kamie Crawford who taught us about the joys of breaking up. Jesse Reyez who reminded us that it's alright to admit you're the one who let a good one get away. When we paused in 2023 we had 5.1 million listeners and 8 million YouTube views. Excited to see how many lives we can impact in 2025 with our fresh look and approach.
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  • S2 Ep116: Don't Waste Your Time With People Like This!
    Apr 23 2025
    This is a rare solo episode with just Shan behind the mic—no guests, no distractions. Just her, answering some of your most pressing, unfiltered questions. From personal reflections to deeper dives on topics you’ve been dying to hear her take on, this one’s intimate, insightful, and straight from the heart

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  • S2 Ep115: Soul Ties and Seeking Sacred Love: B. Simone on Chastity and Demisexuality
    Apr 16 2025
    Are you ready to dive deep into the complexities of love, faith, and identity? In this thought-provoking episode, Shan Boodram sits down with B. Simone to discuss the transformative journey of embracing chastity, understanding soul ties, and exploring the nuances of identity and connection.
    While B. Simone does not identify as demisexual, Shan suggests the possibility during their candid conversation, sparking an insightful dialogue about emotional intimacy and sexual attraction. This episode unpacks key topics like:
    ✨ What You’ll Learn:


    • Demisexuality: A sexual orientation where someone experiences sexual attraction only after forming a strong emotional bond.
    • Soul Ties: A deep, often spiritual connection that binds two people, sometimes through shared experiences or intimacy.
    • Chastity: A lifestyle or mindset of aligning one’s sexual behavior and thoughts with personal, moral, or spiritual values, which may or may not involve abstinence.


    Together, Shan and B. Simone explore how devotion to faith, self-love, and personal growth can shape intimate relationships and redefine what it means to truly connect with others.
    Whether you’re curious about demisexuality, seeking clarity on soul ties, or inspired by the intersection of spirituality and sexuality, this episode is packed with insights that will leave you reflecting on your own path to sacred love.
    🎧 Tune in now, and don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes on love, relationships, and self-discovery!


    Thank You B. Simone
    https://www.instagram.com/thebsimone
    Let’s Try This Again: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz67j2koC3urUkQirbvueCA
    https://www.officialbsimone.com/


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  • S2 Ep114: What Happens to Old Love When You Have New Intimate Needs? Ft Karamo Brown
    Apr 9 2025
    Does a change in your intimate needs have to mean a change of heart? In this episode of Lovers Shan Boodram sits down with Karamo Brown, TV personality (Karama and Queer Eye), author, and culture expert, for a raw and revealing conversation about intimacy and growth. Karamo opens up about how his intimate needs evolved through his 20s, 30s, and 40s—both emotionally and in the bedroom. He shares how these changes led to the end of a past relationship, where his partner couldn’t accept his evolving needs without taking it personally.
    Now, in a thriving new relationship, Karamo reveals how he’s learned to bring his partner along as he navigates these changes, fostering a deeper connection and understanding. This episode is packed with wisdom on embracing growth, improving communication, and honoring your needs without guilt.


    Karamo Brown, Lovers and Friends Podcast, Lovers by Shan, Shan Boodram, intimacy in relationships, emotional intimacy, evolving needs in relationships, intimacy advice, relationship communication, breakups and growth, thriving relationships, intimacy in 20s 30s 40s, LGBTQ relationships, personal growth, gay relationship advice, sex and relationships

    Thank You Karamo Brown
    https://www.instagram.com/karamo
    Learn About His TV Show: https://karamoshow.com/
    Get His New Children’s Book: https://zandoprojects.com/books/i-am-okay-to-feel/

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    Arya is a service for couples that helps them break their sexual routine with the help of an intimacy concierge that serves up curated sexy scenes monthly to sign up or learn more go to
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More Please!!

I love this conversation. John Gotham says after 15 minutes of interacting with a couple, he is able to predict within 90% certainty whether the couple will 1. Stay together 2. Dissolve 3. Stay together HAPPILY. I feel like I am in a relationship similar to that of your parents. It is often "tumultuous" but we are utterly committed. I would love to hear more discussion around this topic. Is commitment enough when there's so much grief along the way, or is it possible for two opposites to transcend from commitment to... mutual balance? I am a long-time follower since early YouTube days, and I talk about your work all the time. Thank you for the thoughtful conversations and research you bring to my life. I love what you do and who you choose to be- often through public and vulnerable example. #respect
P.S. Thank you Bryan and Olivia for your openness and candor!

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CNM or Poly people

I LOVED this episode ! It spoke to me directly as a woman who is learning about CNM and what I personally identify with. This episode (like All episodes in the Lovers and Friends podcast) are EXTREMELY knowledgeable Funny down to earth and MOST importantly to me, a SAFE SPACE. Please anyone who’s interested in sexuality Listen to this Podcast you won’t be disappointed!

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Different Perspective

Thank you for this podcast! I love your podcasts soo much. This helped me have a different perspective of the guys I’ve been dating, especially because I’m in my late 20’s and it feels like no guy wants to commit yet won’t leave me alone and I’m like whyyy me lol. makes me realize that sometimes it’s not that deep and it is what it is dating in your 20’s 😂😅

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Late to the poddy…

Lovers and friends only got on my radar after following Mr/MrsKevOnStage but I am all in!!

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You can tell the team who help make this podcast really enjoy working together. Shan Boodram has put together a unique format and dives into very intriguing conversations with her guests.

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absolutely amazing

loved it I listened to it twice. I love learning from shan and appreciate how she makes me feel like I should be talking about everything with my partner.

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Love you SHAN

Everyone of your episodes are so put together, and so thought out well, I don’t know how anyone could beat that!

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