In today's episode of Love on Command, it gets REAL—and honestly, it's a special one.

I'm Shay, your Love Diva, and today I'm sitting down with Jamil Damji—and let me tell you… this episode is a FIRST. Because Jamil isn't just a guest… he's the fiancé of one of my clients, and he is living proof of what happens when a woman is willing to do the inner work and call in real love the right way.

We talk about how he met his woman, what made her stand out instantly, why he wasn't interested in "fixer-uppers," and what high-performing, elite men are actually looking for when they're choosing a wife—not just a date.

And ladies… he breaks down the exact qualities that make a man want to lock it down, commit, and build a life with you.

So if you're a successful woman who doesn't need a man—but you do desire a partner you can build with—this conversation is going to shift your perspective in the best way.

Press play, take notes, and get ready… because you're about to hear it straight from the great guy's mouth.

Welcome back to Love on Command. 💋

Ladies… let's be honest. Most women are out here dating completely backwards. You're asking yourself, "How do I get him to like me?" or "How do I finally find my person?"—but what if I told you the real answer isn't more dating… it's understanding the science.

Because love is not just magic. Love is biology. Love is predictable. And when you understand what's happening biochemically in the attraction process, you stop guessing, you stop wasting time, and you finally start moving with strategy.

In this episode, I'm going to show you why men bond the way they do, what hormones are actually driving commitment, and how your personal love blueprint affects the kind of men you attract, choose, and hold onto. Most women don't realize they are triggering emotional bonding long before a man ever decides to commit—and that's where heartbreak happens.

If you've ever felt like you've done everything right—successful career, beautiful life—and still wondered, "Why haven't I found my person?"… this conversation is for you.

Because once you understand the phases of bonding, your archetype in love, and the deeper science behind attraction, you will never date in the dark again.

Let's get into it.

Ladies, we need to talk.

If you are successful in your career, disciplined in your life, and powerful in every room you walk into—but somehow keep attracting emotionally unavailable, narcissistic, or weak men—this episode is for you.

In this conversation, I'm breaking down the real reason dating keeps hurting you, and it has nothing to do with you being broken. It's about your patterns, your strategy, and the archetype you're unconsciously dating from.

I'm going to show you why dating in the dark is dangerous—and why high-achieving women cannot date the same way everyone else does. Just like you wouldn't run a business, treat a patient, or walk into court without a plan, you cannot afford to approach love without self-awareness and diagnosis.

If you've ever asked yourself:
"Why am I winning everywhere except love?"
"Why do I keep attracting the same kind of man?"
"Is something wrong with me?"

This episode will change the way you see dating forever.

You are not broken.
Your strategy is.

And today, we turn the lights on.