How many of you feel like the clock is ticking?

You want marriage.
You want a family.
You want children.
And yet, when you look around at the dating pool, you feel the pressure of time and the frustration of settling for less than you deserve.

In this episode, I speak directly to the women who come to me every single day — successful, beautiful, accomplished women who are tired of attracting emotionally unavailable, narcissistic, or beneath-their-level men. Women who have tried everything: therapy, retreats, coaching, matchmaking — and still haven't gotten the result they want.

I'm here to tell you this: your age does not disqualify you, and your desire does not make you unrealistic.

This is not about chasing men.
This is about becoming the woman who naturally attracts the right one.

If you're done wasting time, done ignoring red flags, and ready to get what you actually want — this episode is for you.

Ma'am… we need to have a grown conversation.

In this episode, I'm breaking down something most people don't want to talk about—because it's not "popular," it's not trendy, and it doesn't sound like the feel-good advice floating around online. But it might be the information that saves you.

I'm Shay—your Love Diva. I'm a master's certified love strategist, and yes, I'm also a woman of science. I graduated pre-med biology, spent over a decade in pharmaceutical sales, and I've helped high-value women uplevel their love lives using the science of attraction for over ten years.

And today, we're talking about what happens when you're sexually intimate with a man—because it's not "just sex."

Even with a condom, you're still exposing your body to him. And according to research, semen isn't just fluid—it's biological data: proteins, hormones, and molecular messengers that communicate with your immune system and reproductive system. Meaning your body can adapt, adjust, and respond to a man's presence in ways you may not even realize.

So if you've ever wondered why you felt anxious after sleeping with him… why you felt emotionally off… why you stayed attached to an ex you know was toxic… we're going there.

Because the real question is: is he worth it?
Is he worth how your body may be responding long-term? Is he worth what he might be leaving behind—biochemically, emotionally, mentally?

This episode is for the woman who's done being reckless with access to her body and is ready to start moving like a wife—strategic, intentional, and protected.

Hey my loves, it's Shay, your Love Diva, and today we're getting into something real — the Pull Away Phase.
You know that moment when everything feels good, the connection is growing, and then boom… they start acting different. Less calls, slower texts, more distance, and you're sitting there trying not to overthink yourself into a stress nap.

In this episode, I'm teaching you what the pull away phase really is, why it happens, and how to respond like a woman (or man) who knows their worth. We're talking about the biggest mistake people make — chasing — and what to do instead so you stay grounded, confident, and emotionally in control.

Because baby… if they wobble, you don't collapse.
Press play and let your Love Diva walk you through it.