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It's Not Me, It's You

It's Not Me, It's You

De: Vanessa Castillo and Matthew Castillo
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Love is messy. Dating is chaotic. And sometimes, it’s not you... it’s definitely them. Or is it? Join sibling duo Vanessa and Matthew Castillo (11 years apart but equally chaotic) as they dive into the wild world of relationships, fireside chat style. From ghosting and cringe-worthy situationships to long-term love and red flags we all ignore. Expect real talk, unfiltered laughs, and hard truths. Whether you’re single, cuffed, or somewhere in between, you’ll leave every episode feeling a little less alone, and a lot more entertained. Come for the laughs, stay for the relatable chaos. ♥️ 💔Vanessa Castillo and Matthew Castillo Ciencias Sociales Relaciones
Episodios
  • From Horoscope to Horrorscope: Is He Cooking or Cooked?

    From Horoscope to Horrorscope: Is He Cooking or Cooked?
    Apr 15 2026

    EPISODE 16

    This episode goes from horoscopes to straight-up horrorscopes real quick 😭


    We sit down with our guest and get into his dating history (being in love not once, but twice, almost getting engaged, and all the chaos in between). Somewhere along the way, we start questioning if it was real love… or just the stars playing games.


    We talk zodiac signs, patterns in dating, red flags we ignored, and those moments where you really have to ask yourself: are they cooking… or are they actually cooked?


    It’s funny, a little unhinged, and way too relatable if you’ve ever tried to make sense of your love life through a birth chart.
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    1 h y 2 m
  • Red flags, Green flags & Everything in between

    Red flags, Green flags & Everything in between
    Mar 11 2026

    🎙️ Episode 15: Red Flags, Green Flags & Everything In Between (w/ Cosze)

    In this episode, we sit down with our guest Cosze and get into the messy middle of modern dating... the red flags, the green flags, and all the confusing signals in between.

    Like most of our conversations, it starts one place and ends somewhere completely different. We talk dating experiences, reading people’s energy, figuring out what’s real vs what’s a warning sign, and the gray areas that make relationships so complicated.

    Some people ignore red flags. Some people run at the first sign of trouble. And some of us are just trying to figure out what actually matters when you’re getting to know someone.

    Real talk, random tangents, and the kind of conversation that feels like sitting around with friends trying to decode dating.
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    1 h y 33 m
  • The "fun parts" of dating...

    The "fun parts" of dating...
    Jan 12 2026

    The Fun Parts of Dating (Yes, We’re Being Sarcastic)

    We had a little time before the year wrapped… so of course we hit record.
    This one’s off-the-whim, no outline, no filter, just us talking about the “fun” parts of dating (heavy sarcasm implied).

    From mixed signals, situationships, overthinking texts, dating fatigue, and the emotional gymnastics that somehow count as modern romance, we’re laughing through it because honestly… what else can you do?

    If you’ve ever said “I’m done dating” and then downloaded the app again a week later, this episode is for you.
    End-of-year chaos, dating trauma bonding, and real talk before the reset.

    Happy almost-new-year. Good luck out there 🫡
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    22 m
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