Ready to trade overwhelm for joy this homeschool year?

If you’ve ever wished for a homeschooling break that actually refills your cup without the speaker overload of a massive conference or the pressure to “do it all,” this episode is your permission slip. I’m sitting down with Barbara Cozens to talk about what really happens at a We Gather Together Beach Retreat.

Barbara traveled to the 2023 retreat from snowy Nevada for some well-deserved rest, good company, and inspiration. She’s sharing her honest take on what surprised her, what she brought home for her own kids, and why she believes every mom needs time away before she reaches burnout.

If you’re debating whether to join us at the retreat, have big “what ifs” about coming alone, or don’t even own a pair of flip-flops, this is the episode to press play. It’s about connection, permission to rest, and finding YOUR people—even if it feels a little nerve-wracking at first.

• The difference between homeschool conferences vs. our soulful beach retreat (no decision fatigue—promise)
• Why you don’t have to “do Morning Basket perfectly” to get big benefits (Barbara’s light bulb moment)
• How to build authentic connections even if you’re an introvert flying solo
• The surprising things you can get out of a 3-day retreat (hint: it’s not just about new teaching tips)
• Simple ways to bring retreat wisdom and peace back into your daily homeschool
• Tips for first-time attendees: travel, what to expect, and how we make it easy and welcoming

• Homeschool Mom Beach Retreat Info Page
• Ask us anything about the retreat: info@pambarnhill.com
• Free Homeschool Better Together Community

Ready to fill your own cup so you can pour into your homeschool? Come relax, reset, and find your people. Barbara, I, and a beach chair with your name are waiting.

For the full show notes visit: https://pambarnhill.com/hsbt50

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Advent Plans

What’s the real story behind “bad” handwriting? Is it just a phase, or a red flag? And what should you actually do when your kid melts down every time you pull out a pencil?

In this episode, I’m joined by Sarah Collins, a homeschool mom, licensed occupational therapist, and founder of Homeschool OT, to debunk some common OT myths and offer practical, encouraging advice for homeschool parents concerned about handwriting, motor skills, and when to seek extra help.

You’ll hear:

• How Sarah pivoted from OT homeschool skeptic to trailblazer serving families worldwide
• The #1 question every parent should ask if their child struggles with handwriting (hint: function > form)
• Simple ways to support reluctant writers (think: core strength before cursive!)
• What really matters for writing readiness, warning signs to watch for, and when it’s time to seek professional support (without guilt or shame)
• Lots of fun, judgment-free encouragement for new and veteran homeschoolers

Resources Mentioned:

• Sarah’s site, resources & podcast
• Instagram: @homeschoolot
• Improving Handwriting Without Actually Writing
• A Chameleon Tale (Sarah’s sensory-regulation picture book)
• Free Homeschool Community

For full show notes and a transcript of today’s episode, head to pambarnhill.com/hsbt49

How many times have you set out to have a “consistent” homeschool, only to get derailed by spilled cereal, a surprise dentist appointment, or, let’s be real, your own epic meltdown? (Just me? Didn’t think so.)

Let’s bust this myth right up front: Consistency in homeschool is NOT about never missing a day, nailing every lesson, and marching through the schedule like a robot from a Tesla demo reel.

So what IS the secret? It’s adaptability. True, sustainable consistency, the kind that survives germs, grief, “one of those days,” and whatever else life throws at you, is built on having a plan that bends without breaking.

In this episode, I break down how you can actually plan for adaptability and why it’s not a cop-out, but instead, it’s the key.

• How adaptability is the true backbone of homeschool consistency
• Practical ways to scale schoolwork when time or energy are short
• Simple “last resort” activities that count as connection, not failure
• The value of planning your Plan B ahead (not during the drama)
• Why “good enough” still builds a powerful homeschool habit—more than you think

• Atomic Habits by James Clear
• Homeschool Consistency Bootcamp
• Free Homeschool Community

Want to make your Plan B list and finally ditch the guilt on messy days? Now’s the time: join our Homeschool Consistency Bootcamp! Doors close October 17th—let’s build real-life consistency together.

For full show notes and a transcript of today’s episode, head to https://pambarnhill.com/hsbt48

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Consistency Bootcamp