This episode pulls back the curtain on the ugly side of “doing the work”—the part no one glamorizes. We talk about the discipline it takes to give up alcohol and sit with every raw emotion, the exhaustion of therapy and constant self-awareness, and how hard it is to regulate yourself while raising kids who feel everything just as deeply. It’s an honest look at what it really means to break generational cycles—messy, draining, and often thankless—and the daily choice to keep showing up anyway.

What started as a fun experiment to see if our kids’ birth charts were actually accurate quickly turned into an excuse to talk about why our kids are great.

We break down their personalities, what makes each of them unique, and the traits we’re already seeing show up in real life — from big emotions and strong wills to the little things that make them who they are. Some of it felt spot on, some of it didn’t, but it gave us a chance to step back and actually appreciate them for exactly who they are right now.

A lighter episode, a mix of astrology and real life, and a good reminder to slow down and celebrate our kids for who they are.

The wrestle is real. This week we discuss the messy reality of modern parenting, caught between doing what’s best for their kids, ourselves, and the expectations we've inherited. We''ll share stories of guilt, judgment, and generational habits we're trying to unlearn. Realizing the best path forward may just be constant recalibration and trusting our gut.