Ep. 304 Day 10: Why You’re So Hard on Yourself After Divorce (Especially on New Year’s Eve)
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Ep. 304 Day 10: Why You’re So Hard on Yourself After Divorce (Especially on New Year’s Eve)
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New Year’s Eve has a way of turning self-criticism up to full volume after divorce.
The comparisons.
The sense that you should be further along.
The quiet question of what’s wrong with me that this still hurts?
If you find yourself being unusually hard on yourself today, this episode isn’t here to tell you to “think positive” or try harder.
It’s here to explain why this happens—and what your nervous system is actually doing when self-doubt takes over.
In this episode, we talk about:
- Why divorce retrains your nervous system to scan for failure instead of progress
- Why pride and self-validation feel uncomfortable or even unsafe for so many women
- How New Year’s Eve amplifies comparison, loneliness, and internal pressure
- A simple practice to help your system start noticing what is working
This is not about forcing confidence or pretending you’re okay.
It’s about understanding why self-criticism shows up when safety feels fragile—and how to interrupt the spiral without shaming yourself for being in it.
🎄 This is Day 10 of the 12 Days of Divorce Christmas—short, steady episodes designed to support your nervous system during one of the hardest weeks of the year.
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