Done Rushing Love & Faking Orgasms feat Shayna & Shanta

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This week on Needs To Be Studied, we’re saying BYE to rushed relationships and fake moans. Joined by the unfiltered and hilarious @shanta_shanta_ and @shaynasmiles, we get into the slow dating era, where women are prioritizing emotional connection, peace, and pleasure over performance.

We talk about:

💋 Why the streets are exhausting

🧠 How healing is changing what (and who) we desire

🔥 The “sexual renaissance” happening in your late 20s and 30s

😩 The real reasons women fake orgasms — and how to stop

🕯️ What slow dating actually looks like in real life

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