In Part 2 of this session, Jane* (not her real name) asked:

(3) This year, I met another man who was very aggressive in going after me. I really feel the spiritual connection to him. I’ve never felt like this before in my life, like my relationship with men has not been good. I’m always the giving role, but for the first time in my life, I’ve somebody behind me who can support me, spiritually, mentally and also practically. This whole thing is very draining, confusing and overwhelming for me. What is this guy’s role in my life? Whether I should pursue this, observe this, or close this off so I can move on and I know what to do?

(4) How can I be a better mother to my children?

(5) Is there anything I should look out for in my business?

Credits to music used: RelaxingTime, Relaxing Music Vol.12

In Part 1 of this session, Jane* (not her real name) asked:

(1) I feel very drained because I’m usually the giving person to my family members. My family is not good to me, and I have to give a lot to them. But I’ve got very good friendships, in that my friends are very supportive and giving to me. Why is it like that? It is a recurring pattern. Is there anything to do with my past life, which is why this is the way things are today?

(2) My relationship with my husband has been very strained. It is the same recurring pattern, like how my dad will use me and have certain expectations of me. I think my husband also sees me as somebody good to have. I don’t feel the love I’m supposed to feel. And it has come to the point where I wish to untangle this. But I also have children with him, whom I love and try to be a good example for. And so, I’m caught between living a truth for myself, and the norm of keeping the family together. Any advice?

Credits to music used: RelaxingTime, Relaxing Music Part 1

In this episode, I shared my long-winding journey to learn and integrate Courage within me, including: (i) my deep-seated fears when growing up, after being diagnosed with autoimmune disease, and surviving at the workplace; and (ii) my two key lessons on Courage -- when learning from a dizi (Chinese flute) teacher at a music school and during the turbulent Covid period.

Credits to music used: RelaxingTime, Autumn Music No.8