Are you living in "boy psychology" or stepping into your true strength as a man? In this episode of the Cupid’s Coach Podcast, host Julie Ferman sits down with coach, entrepreneur, and author Mike Raboor to discuss his direct approach to mindset, discipline, and accountability.
Mike dives deep into the concepts from his new book, "Man Up," exploring why modern culture often promotes weakness through a "dopamine economy" of immediate comfort. He shares his personal journey from a multimillionaire lifestyle of external validation to finding true internal peace through "self-applied suffering" and radical responsibility.
Inside this Episode:
• The "Disciplined Savage": Understanding when to embrace your inner strength and how to tame it with honor and respect.
• Radical Responsibility: Why "manning up" means taking ownership of every area of your life.
• Breaking the Comfort Addiction: The power of a 4:00 AM protocol, cold plunges, and morning rituals to reprogram your brain.
• Boy vs. Man Psychology: Why a man produces more than he consumes and the importance of serving your community and family.
• The Truth About Modern Dating: Why "Mr. Nice Guy" is actually boy psychology and why alpha women struggle to find men who can lead.
• Peace Over Happiness: Why happiness is just an expectation met, while peace comes from the process of becoming who you want to be.
Connect with Mike Raboor: Find more about his protocols and coaching at mikesuniversity.com or follow him on Instagram @mikeradoor
Connect with Julie Ferman: Ready to find your "Natural Match"? Register for free and private matchmaking at JulieFerman.com.
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Dating Outside Your "Type" with Jennie Agin Are you stuck in a cycle of "one-date wonders"? This week on the Cupid’s Coach Podcast, host Julie Ferman sits down with Jennie Agin, founder of Storyful Matchmaking, to reveal why your "type" might be exactly what's keeping you single.
Discover how to reinvent your dating rules through the power of activity-based dates—from character-revealing board games to nature-focused "Adventure Rabbi" retreats. We dive into the art of the second date, sitting with the discomfort of first meetings, and finding "vicarious joy" in small moments.

Key Takeaways:
* Dating Outside Your Type: Why moving past surface-level preferences leads to deeper connection.
* Low-Pressure Dates: How activities like board games serve as the ultimate character test.
* Nailing the Second Date: Practical tips for women to suggest options while staying in their feminine energy.
* Smart, Soulful Connection: Navigating the "tender" early stages of dating with open-mindedness.

Connect with Jenny Agan: Visit StoryfulMatchmaking.com. Connect with Julie Ferman: Register at JulieFerman.com.

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New Year, New Intentions: Doing More of What You Love

Happy New Year, everyone! It’s the beginning of 2026, and as we look ahead, I have a big question for you: What is it that you really love to do that you just haven’t been doing enough of lately?

In this episode, I’m inviting you to join me on a mission to bring more joy, simplicity, and open space into your life. We talk about why we often fill our calendars until there’s no room left for ourselves, and why I’ve started scheduling everything from my naps to walks with my husband and dog.

We also dive deep into the habits that build happy, lasting relationships. I share some powerful research from John Gottman about celebrating wins and expressing gratitude , and I tackle a phrase I hear way too often: "I don't want to be a nurse or a purse." I’ll tell you exactly why that mindset might be the very thing keeping you single and how to shift toward a more generous, giving heart.

In this episode, we’ll explore:

The Blessing of Simplicity: How I’m using AI to simplify my kitchen and my life.


Breaking the "Nurse or Purse" Habit: Why this phrase is a total turnoff to quality men and how to actually handle financial and health expectations.


Mastering the Closeness Loop: Learning the difference between reacting and truly responding with empathy.


The Art of the "Lasso": Tips for women on being easy to schedule with and for men on developing patience.


Secure Attachment: How to practice warmth and reliability so your partner feels safe with you.

Whether you’re a "Golden Bachelor" or re-entering the dating scene after a gray divorce, let’s make this the year you move from "me" to "we" by being the healthiest, happiest version of yourself.

#CupidsCoach #JulieFerman #NewYearIntentions #DatingAdvice #RelationshipGoals #GottmanMethod #DatingAfter50 #TransformMeToWe