Confidence is not a prerequisite for speaking well. It’s a result of learning how to show up with intention, even when your nerves are humming beneath the surface.

In this episode, I talk about the uncomfortable gap between how you feel on the inside and how you want to present yourself on the outside. That moment before you speak in a meeting, record a video, or step onto a stage—when your heart is racing and your thoughts feel scattered. You want to sound calm and credible, but internally you’re questioning everything.

Here’s the truth: confidence is not the absence of nerves. It’s the ability to communicate clearly despite them.

Inside this episode, I share three practical strategies you can use immediately to project confidence—regardless of what’s going on internally:

1. Borrow confidence from your body
2. Lean on structure, not memory
3. Shift from self-focus to service

I also share an important reminder: confidence, executive presence, and storytelling are skills. They’re built through intentional practice—not something you either have or you don’t. There’s a difference between being fake and being intentional. Choosing how you show up, especially when your emotions feel messy, is leadership.

When you stand tall, slow down, rely on structure, and focus on service, something powerful happens. Your behavior leads. Your audience responds. And over time, your internal confidence catches up.

If you’re ready to strengthen your speaking skills and executive presence, I’d love to support you. Visit speakingyourbrand.com to learn more about working with us.

Be sure to follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify so you don’t miss upcoming episodes packed with strategies and inspiration just for you. For interviews and longer episodes, check out the Speaking Your Brand podcast.

The script was generated by AI based on past Speaking Your Brand podcast episodes, proprietary frameworks, and years of experience coaching clients on public speaking and thought leadership. Powered by a custom Retrieval-Augmented Generation (RAG) system, the script pulls from a rich library of our expert insights and methodologies. The final episode is voiced using host Carol Cox’s AI voice clone from Eleven Labs, so you’re getting her guidance - in her own voice - delivered in a quick and accessible format. It’s a unique blend of innovation and authenticity designed to help you speak with confidence and clarity.

Become Bookable Live Online Workshop - April 15, 2026
If you want to speak more but you’re not sure where to start or your efforts haven’t produced the results you want, I’m hosting a live online workshop called “Become Bookable: How to Get Speaking Invitations” on Wednesday, April 15th.

A lot of brilliant women assume they just need to pitch themselves more. But the real reason speakers get invited isn’t because they pitch harder — it’s because they’re positioned as bookable.

In this 3-hour interactive workshop live on Zoom, I’ll show you how speakers actually get invited — and help you clarify the positioning that makes event organizers say yes.

As a podcast listener, use the coupon code “Podcast100” to save $100 on your registration.

Learn more and register at https://www.speakingyourbrand.com/bookable

“I want to give a TEDx talk.” I hear that all the time from women entrepreneurs and leaders.

For many, TEDx represents credibility, visibility, and the opportunity to share an idea on a global stage. And yes, a TEDx talk can absolutely open doors.

But landing one isn’t about luck. It’s not about submitting a single application and crossing your fingers.

There’s a strategy behind it — and in this episode, I break down what it really takes.

Here’s what we explore:

• The shift from topic to big idea
• Why speaking locally increases your chances
• The power of relationships
• Perseverance and perspective
• Blending expertise with personal story

If a TEDx talk is on your vision board, let this be your reminder: start preparing now. Sharpen your idea. Speak more. Build relationships. Step fully into your role as a thought leader.

If you’d like support crafting your TEDx talk, clarifying your big idea, and building a speaking strategy that positions you for opportunities like TEDx, visit speakingyourbrand.com to learn how we can work together.

Be sure to follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify so you don’t miss upcoming episodes packed with strategies and inspiration just for you.

For interviews and longer episodes, check out the Speaking Your Brand podcast.

The script was generated by AI based on past Speaking Your Brand podcast episodes, proprietary frameworks, and years of experience coaching clients on public speaking and thought leadership. Powered by a custom Retrieval-Augmented Generation (RAG) system, the script pulls from a rich library of our expert insights and methodologies. The final episode is voiced using host Carol Cox’s AI voice clone from Eleven Labs, so you’re getting her guidance - in her own voice - delivered in a quick and accessible format. It’s a unique blend of innovation and authenticity designed to help you speak with confidence and clarity.

Become Bookable Live Online Workshop - April 15, 2026
If you want to speak more but you’re not sure where to start or your efforts haven’t produced the results you want, I’m hosting a live online workshop called “Become Bookable: How to Get Speaking Invitations” on Wednesday, April 15th.

A lot of brilliant women assume they just need to pitch themselves more. But the real reason speakers get invited isn’t because they pitch harder — it’s because they’re positioned as bookable.

In this 3-hour interactive workshop live on Zoom, I’ll show you how speakers actually get invited — and help you clarify the positioning that makes event organizers say yes.

As a podcast listener, use the coupon code “Podcast100” to save $100 on your registration.

Learn more and register at https://www.speakingyourbrand.com/bookable

Some speakers seem to be everywhere — guesting on podcasts, moderating panels, showing up at industry events — and it can look effortless. Behind the scenes, they’re not necessarily pitching nonstop. In fact, the most sustainable visibility often comes from a very different strategy.

In this episode of the Confident Speaker Podcast, I share how to get invited to speak on podcasts and panels without living in constant hustle mode. You don’t need to send endless cold pitches.

You need clarity, consistency, and connection.

Here’s what I break down:

• Why pitching from scarcity drains your energy
• How to build strategic visibility
• How to optimize your digital presence so you can be found
• Why a clear, distinct message makes you referable

This episode is really about shifting your mindset. Instead of asking, “How can I pitch more?” try asking: - Where do I want to become known? - Who needs to see me consistently? - Is my message clear enough that someone else could describe it in one sentence?

You don’t need dozens of invitations. You need aligned opportunities that create momentum.

One well-placed podcast can lead to several more. One strong panel can spark future keynotes. One genuine relationship can open multiple doors.

When you focus on resonance over volume, visibility becomes sustainable — and far more powerful.

If you’re ready to clarify your message, strengthen your positioning, and create a visibility strategy that truly supports your thought leadership, I’d love to help. Visit speakingyourbrand.com to learn more about working with us.

Be sure to follow the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify so you don’t miss upcoming episodes packed with strategies and inspiration just for you.

For interviews and longer episodes, check out the Speaking Your Brand podcast.

The script was generated by AI based on past Speaking Your Brand podcast episodes, proprietary frameworks, and years of experience coaching clients on public speaking and thought leadership. Powered by a custom Retrieval-Augmented Generation (RAG) system, the script pulls from a rich library of our expert insights and methodologies. The final episode is voiced using host Carol Cox’s AI voice clone from Eleven Labs, so you’re getting her guidance - in her own voice - delivered in a quick and accessible format. It’s a unique blend of innovation and authenticity designed to help you speak with confidence and clarity.

Become Bookable Live Online Workshop - April 15, 2026
If you want to speak more but you’re not sure where to start or your efforts haven’t produced the results you want, I’m hosting a live online workshop called “Become Bookable: How to Get Speaking Invitations” on Wednesday, April 15th.

A lot of brilliant women assume they just need to pitch themselves more. But the real reason speakers get invited isn’t because they pitch harder — it’s because they’re positioned as bookable.

In this 3-hour interactive workshop live on Zoom, I’ll show you how speakers actually get invited — and help you clarify the positioning that makes event organizers say yes.

As a podcast listener, use the coupon code “Podcast100” to save $100 on your registration.

Learn more and register at https://www.speakingyourbrand.com/bookable