Do you feel anxious when your preteen asks for more independence?Are you torn between wanting to trust your child and fearing everything will fall apart if you let go? Do you wonder if your need to control is actually creating more distance instead of connection?

In today’s episode, we’re talking about one of the most common — and misunderstood — parenting struggles: balancing guidance and independence with your preteen.

If you’ve ever felt guilty for controlling too much, afraid of letting go, or unsure how to lead without losing connection, this episode is for you. You’ll learn why control often backfires, how faith-led boundaries create safety, and the simple daily habits that help your preteen grow responsibly without damaging trust.

This episode will help you move from pressure and fear to calm leadership, stronger connection, and confident parenting — one small habit at a time.

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Do you ever feel like other moms have it all together while you’re falling behind? Have you questioned your parenting or leadership because of comparison, especially while raising a preteen?

In today’s episode of Confidence in Motherhood, we talk about why comparison is stealing your peace and confidence—and three simple, faith-led ways to stop it so you can lead your family with calm and clarity.

You’ll learn how to anchor your identity in Christ instead of other moms’ lives, how to recognize and limit comparison triggers like social media, and how focusing on small daily wins rebuilds confidence and emotional leadership at home.

Comparison leads to pressure and self-doubt, but faith-led awareness restores peace. Calm, intentional presence—not control—is what your children need most.

If this episode resonates, download my free guide From Chaos to Calm – Your Emotional Reset for Overwhelmed Moms. You’re also invited to join my free Facebook community, Connect with Your Preteen for Moms, for daily support and simple routines. Links are in the show notes.

Thank you for listening to Confidence in Motherhood. Take one small habit from today and practice it this week. Keep leading with faith and calm, mama—I’ll see you next time.

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Are you tired of repeating yourself over and over again? Does your preteen act like they suddenly “can’t hear you”? Do simple instructions turn into arguments, frustration, or shut down moments?

In this episode, I’m sharing the most common communication mistakes moms make—the ones that unintentionally push preteens away—and the simple daily habits that get your child to actually listen the first time so you can create a calmer, more connected home.

You'll learn why your preteen tunes you out, how your tone and timing affect communication, and the 3-step framework that builds respect, teamwork, and actual listening without yelling or repeating yourself.

Remember: 3-Step Preteen Communication Framework: “Connection Before Correction” Method; Use a 10-Second Cue: The less you say, the more they hear; Validate First, Guide Second

You’ll learn the root causes behind mom guilt, emotional burnout, and self-doubt—plus the steps to finally walk in confidence, peace, and purpose inside your home.

f this episode encouraged you, please subscribe and leave a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review on Apple Podcasts — it helps more moms find encouragement, hope, and peace through faith-filled parenting and Confidence in Motherhood!

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