This week on Coffee and Cleavage, Shantal, Lynnie, and Gary are answering your juiciest fan-submitted questions—and it’s all about firsts, fantasies, and the moments that make you go “WTF?!” The trio share surprising things they are into and debate public sex, awkward dirty talk slip-ups, and who’s really more experimental in bed—men or women.

Lynnie, Shantal, and Gary welcome a truly unique guest: Matt Barr, the official record-holder for the world’s largest scientifically documented penis—measuring over 14 inches. In this candid and honest conversation, Matt opens up about discovering his size, navigating dating and mental health, public perception, and the myths that surround male anatomy. We also touch on his experience posing nude for his upcoming book, how he responds to the “prove it” crowd, and what advice he’d give to any man struggling with size insecurity.

This isn’t just a conversation about size—it’s a conversation about what size means.

In this week’s episode, Shantal, Lynnie, and Gary answer even more fan-submitted questions—from what makes a hookup truly unforgettable to how many “okay” dates is too many before moving on. They are talking sex confidence vs. physical skill, the surprising impact of rejection, and why the first kiss might—or might not—tell you everything you need to know.

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