Sexual empowerment is not a destination — it’s a practice. It’s about stepping into your sexual self with ownership, confidence, and connection, even in a world that has often told you to hide. The questions below are not just prompts to think about — they are invitations to remember, re-experience, and claim your power.

Reflective Questions to Guide Your Exploration

1. Owning My Sexuality

* What does “owning my sexuality” mean to me?

* What does that look like in practice — through my choices, my body language, my relationships?

* When have there been times I’ve fully owned my sexuality? What did that feel like in my body?

2. Pride in Sexual Expression

* What does “being proud of my sexuality and sexual expression” mean to me?

* When have I practiced this before, even in small ways?

* How did others respond — and how did I respond to myself in that moment?

3. Connection to Myself

* When have I felt deeply sexually connected to myself?

* Was it through touch, fantasy, movement, or simple presence?

* What helped make that connection powerful, and how can I bring more of that into my life now?

4. Connection to Others

* When have I felt sexually connected to others?

* What qualities in myself, the other person, or the environment made it possible?

* How did empowerment show up in that connection?

5. Disempowerment

* When have I felt sexually disempowered?

* What external factors (shame, fear, judgment, performance anxiety) contributed?

* What internal beliefs or voices were at play?

Taking It Deeper

As you sit with these reflections, notice:

* Patterns. Do you see moments where empowerment comes easily? Do you notice consistent barriers?

* Body responses. Do certain memories make your body tighten or relax? This is key data.

* Growth edges. Where do you sense your next step lies — more connection with self, more expression with others, more release of judgment?

Sexual empowerment grows from awareness. The more you map the landscape of your empowering and disempowering experiences, the clearer your path forward becomes.

To explore what sexual empowerment could look like for you, schedule an individual coaching session together with me.

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When shame is built from the weight of harmful messages, healing requires building a foundation of helpful messages. These are truths, reminders, and affirmations that support your sexual wholeness.

Helpful messages are not about pretending everything is perfect. They’re about rooting yourself in compassion, curiosity, and dignity when it comes to your body, your sexuality, and your desires.

Your healed, empowered inner messages can transform the way you see yourself and the way you relate to the world around you. Schedule a coaching session with me to re-write your inner dialogue to step firmly into a life of sexual empowerment.

—Kevin

In this episode, I sit down with queer mystic and spiritual powerhouse Juno Lux Epifanio (they/he), Founder and Executive Director of The Haus of H—a nonprofit spiritual center reimagining what queer belonging can truly look like.

With a master’s degree in social work, a deep command of mystical and esoteric traditions, and a devotion to uplifting our community, Juno has created an ecosystem of care for queer people unlike anything that has existed before. Their work positions queer liberation as both a social and spiritual movement, using immersive retreats and creative experiences to fuel The Haus of H’s mission of building systems of care that honor LGBTQ+ lives across generations.

Think the heart of a social worker, the fire of an activist, and the soul of a mystic—Juno’s leadership is living ritual.

We drop straight into what real, grounded support for the GBTQ+ community looks like, why reclaiming our personal narratives is a radical act of liberation, and how presence and mindfulness can change the way we move through sex, identity, and community.

We also dive into our upcoming retreat, Fruits of Freedom, and the intention behind creating a space where queer men can finally breathe, open, heal, and celebrate themselves without apology.

From May 1–4, 2026, Juno and I will be co-facilitating this sacred retreat in Smithfield, Utah, alongside Dillon Diaz, Leo Rising, Kai Franco, and Simón Malvaez. Together, we’re crafting a deeply held, deeply queer container for GBTQ+ people to rediscover their sexual selves with freedom, hope, and unapologetic empowerment.

Learn more and reserve your spot: https://givebutter.com/fruitsoffreedom

Or schedule a vibe check with Juno to explore if this retreat is right for you!

And one more thing—if you feel the pull to join us for both my Hawaii SHAMELESS retreat and the Fruits of Freedom retreat, we’ve got something special for you. You can lock in a discounted price when you register for both experiences together. All the details are at the link—go take a look and see if this is your moment to go all-in on your growth, your healing, and your freedom.

To learn more about Juno, explore their social media via Instagram and TikTok. And watch and listen to their podcast!

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