Navigating the landscape of relationships often leads humans with CPTSD to encounter the recurring patterns of choosing emotionally unavailable partners. This pattern can be both perplexing and distressing, as humans find themselves repeatedly drawn to partners who withdraw in moments of vulnerability. I offer a nuanced perspective on this issue, by challenging the traditional view by suggesting that "emotionally unavailable" may be a misnomer, as partners can exhibit emotional responsiveness under certain conditions. These partners can be confusing because they often appear supportive when situations are favorable but tend to withdraw when confronted with challenges or feedback that threatens their self-perception. I emphasize the importance of recognizing these shifts in emotional availability and advocate for creating safe spaces for vulnerability in relationships to break the cycle of avoidance and withdrawal.

Did someone just break up with you?

Finding Answers After Your Relationship Has Ended
a CPTSD Medicine Guided Experience with Tanner

https://cptsdmedicine.com/why-is-this-happening

What does it take to honor your truth, even when it means saying goodbye? In this heartfelt conclusion to Season 13, I make a special announcement regarding the podcast and reflect on the transformative power of truth and alignment in healing work. I delve into the evolution of the CPTSD Medicine Healing Protocol, its culmination as a published manual, and the community’s incredible role in shaping this journey. Hear about the importance of energetic investment, the challenges of leadership, and the exciting vision I have for 2025. Join us to celebrate this milestone, embrace a new chapter, and discover how you can deepen your healing journey in 2025 and beyond.

Key Points From This Episode:

• Creating and publishing the CPTSD Medicine Healing Protocol.

• Learn the significance of the end-of-year frequency as 2024 transitions into 2025.

• Announcement: indefinite production break and what this means for the community.

• The inspiration behind launching the podcast in 2020 and reasons for the production break.

• Find out why honoring personal truth in leadership and growth is essential.

• Explore the energetic, emotional, and financial commitment needed for transformation.

• A heartfelt thank you to listeners for their support and engagement.

• Hear about CPTSD Medicine’s plans for 2025 and beyond.

• An introduction to the new program starting in January.

Quotes:

“When I started this podcast back in 2020, I knew I just needed something different and disruptive in my life.” — Tanner [4:12]

“Everything works best at truth resonance.” — Tanner [6:40]

“There is so much gratitude to those of you that have been here from the beginning or have joined anywhere along the way. My sincerest, sincerest thank you.” — Tanner [13:10]

“[CPTSD Medicine] is ready to become the alternative, holistic health service that creates a legacy of CycleBreaking.” — Tanner[14:45]

What is the importance of ancestral work in healing CPTSD?

Self-belief is a crucial component in the healing journey of individuals with complex PTSD (CPTSD), as it empowers them to trust their capabilities and navigate the intricate path of intergenerational trauma. Tanner underscores this by sharing her personal experiences, where she initially struggled due to a lack of self-belief, which hindered his healing process. Through her journey, Tanner realized that cultivating a strong sense of self-belief is essential for overcoming CPTSD, as it involves betting on oneself and maintaining the conviction to pursue growth and learning. She also emphasizes the importance of trust in the healing process, encouraging individuals to have faith in the unknown and take incremental steps towards building trust in themselves and their journey.

Key TakeAways

- Ancestral work is crucial in CPTSD healing for closing past patterns and understanding intergenerational trauma.

- Self-belief is fundamental for growth and healing, allowing individuals to trust in their abilities and avoid seeking external validation.

- The CPTSD Medicine Healing Protocol integrates various modalities and emphasizes self-belief and ancestral work for resolution.

- Establishing a strong foundation of self-belief, trust, and leadership is essential for maintaining healthy relationships.

Actionable Insights

- Complete ancestral loops for CPTSD healing

- Develop genuine self-belief for personal growth

- Implement the CPTSD Medicine Healing Protocol for trauma resolution

- Establish strong self-identity and boundaries before entering relationships

(00:00:16) "The value of mentorship is that you get to learn from somebody who's already made the mistakes and then not make the same mistakes that they have made." - Tanner

(00:04:19) "And as I've grown as a leader, I've learned to hold that anxiety along with the creativity and the conviction and the determination and the drive and not let it be either or, but allow it to have duality and be both." - Tanner

(00:13:05) "I'm betting on myself. I cannot fail because failure is not even relevant in this framework." - Tanner