Dominatrix Audrey Fatale invites Eva Oh into her playspace for a conversation spanning 15 years of professional domination. They cover burnout, returning with purpose, and what changes as you age in the sex industry. From Audrey’s gear obsession and heavy bondage practice to navigating perimenopause and the politics of cis-het male doms, this episode is a candid look at the shifting seasons of dominance—and the power in pacing yourself.

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(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(01:09) - Meeting Audrey Fatale in her Playspace

(02:42) - 15 Years of Domination, a Burnout and We're Back!

(04:00) - The BDSM House Environment vs Indie

(07:50) - Pacing for Job Satisfaction

(10:00) - Eva and Audrey's Different Focuses

(11:50) - Audrey, the Gear Head

(13:10) - Time, Experience and Stepping into 'Natural' Dominance

(18:00) - The Financial Aspect of Femdom

(19:40) - Different Domination 'Seasons', from Baby Domme to Now

(27:30) - Claustrophobia meets Heavy Bondage Practice

(30:00) - When Eva Bottoms

(33:40) - The Politics of Cis-het Male Doms

(37:50) - Audrey's Europe Plans

(39:10) - Perimenopause, HRT and Self-Advocacy

(49:00) - Aging in the Sex Industry

Before Eva Oh entered the scene, Mistress Tahlia was already a seasoned presence at Salon Kitty’s. Eva reconnects with her Senior Mistress to swap stories of hazing rituals, house hierarchy, and the raw intensity of Australia’s most infamous BDSM establishment. From her days at the "Den of Inequity" to the rise of pegging and the economics of erotic labor, Tahlia shares how sex work became her site of power, politics, and transformation.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Becoming Mistress Tahlia(02:55) - Sex Work as a Vehicle for Radicalisation(03:30) - Discovering BDSM(07:30) - Stepping into Power and Salon Kitty's(10:40) - The Den of Inequity(15:00) - Our Different Experiences of Salon Kitty's(19:40) - Hazing Amongst Mistresses(23:30) - Changing of the Guard(25:30) - House vs Independent Work(27:10) - Salon Kitty's Changes and Reunions(29:40) - Becoming Magical Beasts(33:15) - The Accounting Fantasy Role Play(36:00) - Tahlia's First Impressions of Eva at Salon Kitty's(38:25) - Hierarchy at the House(41:50) - The Whorearchy of Erotic Sessions(44:35) - The Emergence of Pegging and the Findom Fallout(49:10) - Online vs Real-time Work(50:35) - Intimate Job Satisfaction(51:10) - Tahlia's English Corporal Punishment Plans(54:30) - Tahlia's Number One Tip

Is marriage the pinnacle of success—or just more unpaid labor dressed up in paperwork? In this final Sex Work VS miniseries episode, I get personal about my own marriages and question what we’re really chasing when we romanticize commitment. Sex work gave me the distance to see it differently: the self-absorbed oxytocin highs, the cultural expectations, and the silent costs of being a “good partner.” If you’ve ever second-guessed the path laid out for you, this one’s for you.

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HIGHLIGHTS:

Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.

(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink

(00:21) - Sex Work VS Marriage

(02:05) - Paperwork and More Unpaid Labour

(03:10) - My Marriages

(04:20) - Unpack Marriage as a Measure of Success

(08:20) - Sex Work Has Given Me Freedom from the Cycle

(11:08) - The Miniseries Recap: Self-absorbed Oxytocin Rides VS Regretting a Life

(14:20) - Thank You Sex Work!