6 Reasons We Fall Out of Love & 6 Changes We Can Make to Keep It Flourishing

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Falling in love with someone can happen instantly. Staying in love with the same person is hard work. In most relationships, partnerships last not because of love and all the giddy feelings that come with it. Relationships last when both partners continuously work together to build trust, deal with issues as one but still recognize deferring opinions, and plan a future together with each other’s interest and growth in mind.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares with us the common reasons why many couples fall out of love and ways to save the relationship by keeping the love burning.

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Key Takeaways:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:12 The top reasons we fall out of love
• 05:59 Reason #1: We stop learning new things about each other
• 10:41 Reason #2: We stop talking about vulnerable, meaningful topics
• 17:06 Reason #3: We don’t create systems to deal with arguments
• 22:58 Reason #4: When you aren’t emotionally available
• 23:49 Reason #5: No division of chores and responsibilities
• 24:37 Reason #6: Not addressing important issues with your partner

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I have been married for 31 years and still am learning each day about relationships. I listen while traveling to and from work and thoroughly enjoy. I like the idea of how to fight and will implement it for now on. I will say I'm not a fan of the arguing side by side though. I like it when my husband is looking straight at me because I feel I am being heard. Thanks for doing what you do.