38 - The #1 Mistake Men Make Trying to ‘Keep the Peace’ in Relationships

You think you're being the calm one. The grounded one. But avoiding hard conversations doesn’t preserve peace—it breeds quiet resentment and kills intimacy.

This video unpacks the hidden cost of emotional avoidance and redefines masculine leadership as the courage to face tension, not flee from it.

If you've ever felt like you're doing everything right—but still losing connection—this one’s for you.

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🔺Key Timestamps

00:00 – The Silent Struggle Men Face in Relationships

00:38 – How Silence Kills Connection

01:48 – When Everything Looks Fine, But Feels Dead

02:34 – The Real Reason She Feels Distant

03:32 – The Secret to Rebuilding Trust and Intimacy