293. The Myths of Modern Love

In this episode, Zale engages with social psychologist Pamela Regan to explore the complexities of modern love, including the romantic ideal, different love styles, and the impact of societal expectations on relationships. They discuss the validity of arranged marriages, the burden of expecting one partner to fulfill all emotional needs, and the importance of recognizing the fluctuations in love and commitment over time. The conversation emphasizes that love is multifaceted and can take many forms, encouraging listeners to embrace their unique experiences in love.

Learn more about Pamela Regan at https://www.calstatela.edu/faculty/dr-pamela-regan

Shownotes

00:00

The Evolution of Love and Marriage

01:24

Modern Love: A Complex Landscape

02:41

The Many Faces of Love

05:20

Passionate vs. Companionate Love

08:30

Expectations in Romantic Relationships

11:33

The Burden of One Partner

14:15

Finding Balance in Love

23:49

Navigating Modern Relationships and Boundaries

25:58

Understanding Arranged Marriages in Contemporary Society

31:15

Findings on Commitment and Satisfaction in Marriages

35:38

The Role of Social Influence in Finding Love

41:50

Defining Love: Beyond Feelings to Choices and Actions

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