234: Build a Gate, Not a Wall: How to Keep the Wrong People Out and Let the Right Ones In

The walls you built to protect your heart? They might be the very same walls keeping love out.

What if the “red flag scanning,” second-guessing, and pulling away you call self-protection are actually signs that your past wounds are still making your choices for you?

This week on Project Loving Myself, I’m revealing why real safety in love isn’t about hiding behind walls—it’s about discernment. And how healing shifts you from choosing out of fear… to choosing from your worth.

💌 Ready to break the cycle? Join the Reconnection Inner Child Healing workshop on October 11 to uncover the patterns you didn’t even realize were running your life. Register here.

💡 In This Episode, You’ll Explore:

✨ The difference between walls that isolate you and gates that protect you

✨ Why pain often feels familiar—and why that’s dangerous in love

✨ How healing shifts your choices from fear-based to aligned and empowered

✨ The secret to knowing who’s safe to let in—and who isn’t

Share this with someone who’s tired of choosing pain and ready to choose better.

📱 Tag me @sanaiyahgurnamal + @projectlovingmyselfpodcast with your biggest aha moment.

Because love isn’t about letting everyone in—it’s about trusting yourself to choose who’s worth opening the gate for. ✨

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