148: I Stopped Trying to Change My Husband

In this episode, I'm sitting down with my dear client and friend Kristi, whose journey through unimaginable loss, a cancer scare, betrayal, and a crumbling marriage led her to one of the most profound transformations I've ever had the privilege of witnessing up close. What she shares about learning to stop controlling everything and finally come back to herself is the kind of raw, hard-fought wisdom that can only come from walking through the fire. If you've ever felt like the ceiling and the floor disappeared out from under you all at once, this conversation was made for you. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Navigating grief, a cancer scare, and betrayal — all at the same time ➡️ How anxiety and control were secretly running the show ➡️ The shift from trying to fix your partner to getting rooted in yourself ➡️ Asking the hard question: "Am I justified, or am I winning?" ➡️ What healing actually looks like when you stop trying to do marriage "the right way" ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN! https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky