129. Playdates Without Panic: 3 Steps to Solve Hitting, Scratching or Grabbing.

We explore why toddlers hit, bite, and grab at playdates and how to respond without shame or panic.

Did you know - these behaviors are VERY common stage in the early years of development?! Research shows that these behaviors are actually very common in early childhood. Studies find that between 26% and 70% of toddlers show some form of physical aggression — hitting, biting, pushing, or scratching — depending on how it’s measured. And in real-life parent reports, around 50–60% of children ages 1-3 hit or lash out at least occasionally when frustrated.

So first off.. not need to think you are failing or raising a psychopath.

When your child hits, spits, or scratches at a playdate, it can feel mortifying — but these moments are actually powerful teaching opportunities.

In this episode, I'll share 3 Playdate Reset Tips, including:

• How to remember what really matters,
• How to teach your child the new behaviors in a way that will finally STICK.
• How to get the end results of more FUN and EASY playdates, without any amount of panic.

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