You Can’t Love Me Like This

What the Job Takes From the People Who Wait at Home

De: Orlando E. Rivera

Narrado por: Virtual Voice

Some people don’t leave relationships.

They just stop arriving.

You Can’t Love Me Like This is not a self-help book.
It is not a relationship guide.
And it is not written to make anyone feel comfortable.

It is a raw, unfiltered look at what high-stakes professions quietly take from love, intimacy, and the people who wait at home.

Written by healthcare leader and former frontline clinician Orlando E. Rivera, this book explores what happens after the shift ends, when the sirens stop, but survival mode doesn’t. It names the patterns most couples feel but rarely talk about: emotional withdrawal, constant vigilance, silence, resentment, and the loneliness that can exist even inside committed relationships.

This book is for:

• EMTs, paramedics, nurses, and first responders

• The partners who love them and feel shut out

• Anyone who has watched a relationship change without a single dramatic moment

• Readers drawn to books about burnout, moral injury, and emotional labor

You Can’t Love Me Like This doesn’t offer advice or fixes. It offers recognition.

Through deeply human chapters, it examines why patience turns into endurance, why understanding becomes resentment, and why love can survive for years without feeling safe.

This book does not assign blame.
It does not promise healing.
It tells the truth.

If you’ve ever felt close to someone who couldn’t fully come home, this book will feel painfully familiar.

This is not a book about leaving.
It’s a book about what happens long before anyone does.