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Publisher's Summary

Sometimes it feels as if the more we talk, the less we are heard. But in groundbreaking research, Andrew Newberg, M.D., and Mark Robert Waldman have discovered a powerful strategy called Compassionate Communication that allows two brains to work together as one.

In 12 clear steps, Compassionate Communication actually changes our brain structure — as well as the brain of the person we are talking to — in a way that helps establish a bond between people. In this unique state — free from conflict and distrust — we can communicate more effectively, listen more deeply, collaborate without effort, and succeed more quickly at any task.

Using data collected from MBA students, couples in therapy, caregivers, and brain scans, Newberg and Waldman have seen again and again that Compassionate Communication can transform a difficult conversation into a deeply satisfying one, literally in a matter of a few minutes.

Whether you are negotiating with your boss or your employees, arguing with your spouse, or coping with your kids, Compassionate Communication is a simple and unbeatable way to achieve a win-win dialogue to help you reach your goals. With its clear prescription and proven results, Words Can Change Your Brain will change how you think and speak to virtually everyone.

©2012 Andrew Newberg and Mark Robert Waldman (P)2012 Brilliance Audio, Inc.

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Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

You bet! This book has totally changed the way I communicate with others and I feel so much more connected to people. I am deliberately removing the word "no" from my vocabulary and I have chosen the word "calm" as my word. I repeat it over and over at night when I can't sleep sometimes. Just saying the word, spelling it out and repeating it over and over changes my heart beat and changes my thinking.

Have you listened to any of Mark Robert Waldman’s other performances before? How does this one compare?

No

If you were to make a film of this book, what would be the tag line be?

The power of "NO."

Any additional comments?

I just want to know who will use their compassionate listening skills on me. I need to talk sometimes, too.

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Good but gets boring fast

The message is brilliant but the narration is so monotone that it ends up putting you to sleep.

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Accepting Change

I enjoyed this read. I have been using these strategies in my day to day communications and it is proving to be helpful in many ways.

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Mostly the same stuff I've read before

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This book could be interesting at times but if you've read other books like this about the brain - it's mainly the same information. What I couldn't believe was the narration! I read reviews about how the narrator's voice was annoying, but I was surprised to find that he almost sounds like he has a speech impediment when he's saying words with the "T" sound. I found that to be annoying and disruptive to listening.

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I can start TODAY!

Simple, doable, inspiring communication strategies I can begin today. I look forward to many meaningful conversations!

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A Must Listen!

Excellent information and practical application exercises. Laid out for anyone to understand. Buy the Book too!

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  • Brenda
  • LEAGUE CITY, TX, United States
  • 07-30-13

Just Awful

I tried hard to like this book but ultimately found no redeeming value. The advice was sometimes ok, often impractical, and occasionally ridiculous. In a nutshell relax, look into the other persons eyes, and speak slowly. That's about it. Please save yourself respect, career and friendships by not following the more outlandish advice this book offers. Better yet, don't buy it at all.

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Completely distracted by narrator's lisp!

this may have been the Holy Grail of audiobooks but I'll have no idea because all I hear is the narrator's lisp! It honestly seems like there are some good concepts within the writing, Ironically it's about positive thinking, maybe his voice is a test, haha. I am trying to understand these interesting concepts then I hear the lisp and can no longer focus on what is being said. I don't mind accents or dull tones, I don't feel like I'm overly judgy but I have to turn this one off.

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Awesome book!

Struggling to finish bc I replayed many chapters two or three times but it was worth it!

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Beneficial techniques for work and personal life

A good read including Neuroscience testing of communication techniques That improve health Of both physical body and relationships. Much needed tools in this day of hyperspeed social and work interactions.