Wishful Thinking

How I Lost My Faith and Why I Want to Find It

By: Donna Freitas

Narrated by: Donna Freitas

Length: 7 hrs and 44 mins

Publisher's summary

Donna Freitas wants to believe.

Raised Catholic, she sang songs about Jesus as a child and lived in a house where nuns and priests were regular guests, yet she found herself questioning the faith of her family, examining the reasons none of it added up, and distancing herself from the God of Christianity.

Despite her questions—or perhaps because of them—she made a career out of trying to understand God, pursuing a PhD in religion. But even as she taught college students about mystics, theologians, and others who wrestled with God, she was never able to embrace a faith of her own.

In this searingly honest and deeply personal book, Freitas retraces her roundabout path up and out of the wilderness toward hope, and her dogged—and ongoing—search for faith. She talks about her experience with the Catholic abuse scandal, about being embraced as a speaker at evangelical colleges, about how the death of her mother and the loss of her marriage made her question everything she thought she knew about love, how she cannot reconcile the ways the concept of God makes absolutely no sense, and how she cannot stop trying to believe, despite it all.

Real, raw, and beautifully written, Wishful Thinking is a powerful story about the author’s search for belief in God and about finding God in the most unexpected places.

©2024 Donna Freitas (P)2024 Worthy Books

Critic reviews

“Donna writes about all the difficult things in life — accidents, illness, break-ups, abuse — in her signature incisive style using words to slash scenes into being, carving feelings out of vowels, and connecting us through what she calls ’the magic of writing…' Soulful and sparse, her prose cuts right to the core. I truly appreciate Donna’s candor, bravery, and openness in her latest fabulous read.” —Zibby Owens, author of Blank and Bookends; host of the podcast Moms Don’t Have Time to Read Books; CEO of Zibby Media

"A beautiful exploration of what it really means to find ourselves—and faith—when it seems like all hope is lost." —Amy B. Scher, author of This is How I Save My Life

"Anyone who ever struggled with the longing for a faith they left behind will be grateful for this radiantly wise memoir by Donna Freitas, who brings a piercing clarity and hard-won joy to her radically honest appraisal of the gifts and the burdens of belief.” —Carlene Bauer, author of Girls They Write Songs About

Faith and Doubt

This book was a memoir of faith, lost, nearly found again, lost and now in reach. There were many loving anecdotes about Catholicism. The author’s mom was the star of the book with the saints a distant second. The Brooklynite leapt off the page, she was so vividly drawn. In my lifetime I’ve only met a handful of truly good people. The mother was one of the few I’ve met in print. It was beautiful to see how the author’s antipathy to her mother’s innocence changed over time into heart stopping admiration. Delightful and insightful book.