• Unmasking Narcissism

  • A Guide to Understanding the Narcissist in Your Life
  • By: Mark Ettensohn Psy.D
  • Narrated by: Tom Pile
  • Length: 4 hrs and 13 mins
  • 4.5 out of 5 stars (68 ratings)

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Unmasking Narcissism

By: Mark Ettensohn Psy.D
Narrated by: Tom Pile
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Whether the narcissist in your life is a boss, coworker, relative, or romantic partner, the exercises and advice in Unmasking Narcissism will help you set healthy boundaries and make sense of this complex and often painful issue. In this groundbreaking guide from clinical psychologist Mark Ettensohn, PsyD., you will gain insight into narcissistic behaviors, symptoms, and relationship dynamics. Dr. Ettensohn provides exercises designed to help you clarify your own values and goals for the relationship, whether that means immediate separation or long-term relationship management. Anyone whose life has been touched by narcissism will find this book helpful - whether you are coming to terms with a loved one's diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality disorder (NPD), or working to move forward after leaving a narcissistic relationship.

Unmasking Narcissism provides strategies and coping styles that will guide you toward a deeper understanding of both the narcissist and yourself, with:

  • Easy-to-listen-to sections aligned with the DSM-5 criteria for Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
  • Explanations of both grandiose (overt) and vulnerable (covert) narcissism.
  • Healing tools and techniques, including how to defuse arguments instead of fuel them, mindfulness meditation, and exploring vulnerability.
  • Real-world stories of people coping with narcissists.

Throughout, Unmasking Narcissism offers a fully realized, yet compassionate portrait of narcissism that will help you on your path to healing without compromising your own mental health and wellness.

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Very Confirming

In my research I've encountered many opinions, ideologies, philosophies and stigmatism; but this book has been inspiring and a great asset to my studies. It connected lots of dots and also creates a sense of hope for those of us who still walk in the spirit of love and peace. Thank you!

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This book helped me understand Narcissist.

I loved this book! It was very informative and I can now understand the Narcissist

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thank you for writing this book.

our popular understanding has become a so demonizing of people with narcissism. this needs to be hears by people who have a narcissist in their life. and people need to not tolerate abusive behavior. itw obvious this book was written to counter the popular notion that narcissists are demons from hell, and so I think it leans a little too far in the direction of perhaps tolerating demeaning, devaluing, manipulative, and sometimes abusive treatment from a someone with NPD. I suggest following the author's YouTube channel as well.

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WOW

This book was a complete EYE OPENER! Excellent book! A must read for a better understanding!

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Most helpful book on this subject!

Most compassionate read on the subject I have found so far, as someone with loved NPDs in my life, I appreciate the tone of helping understand their pain and the tools provided here to still love them and not loose myself. Thank you!

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PHENOMENAL

A phenomenal audiobook I would recommend this to anyone who is /was dealing with a narcissist person/s

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Great use of real world examples

I really like the inclusion of real world examples, and multiple different scenarios that one could experience a narcissist or behave like a narcissist. I also like the notion that narcissism exists on a spectrum, and that healthy level of confidence can be needed in certain circumstances. This was a very good book to listen to, and there’s opportunities to go deeper into the psychological workings of a narcissist, but the key points were well elaborated on. Great recommendation to those that encounter narcissist and need some practical solutions to navigate such complex characteristics.

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Weird Voice but Excellent Book

The narrator’s voice is oddly husky, and could’ve been a voice for a villain in a cartoon. It’s not the worst to listen to, but it’s just a little bit surprising at first. The book, however, has excellent recommendations and insight into narcissism, and how to deal with narcissism in a way that doesn’t demonize a person with narcissistic tendencies or narcissistic personality disorder, but instead views the narcissist, as a sick person who needs help. It’s a nice way to recognize that the person who you’re dealing with is not all that or all good they just are and they have a problem that can be dealt with.

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Decent contents, bad narrator

Narrator made it very hard to enjoy the story. The message was good but I struggle to listen with narrative coming across nasal

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Bad Advice From the Beginning less than 5 Minutes

The Author suggests learning to empathise with the dangerous personality of the narcissist. All I need to hear. Equivalent to running out on a freeway and learning how to be a stuntman and soften the pain from being struck by a bumper, windshield or tire.

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