Unassisted
A Memoir About Self-Discovery and the Meaning of Home
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Erin J. Stammer
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Erin J. Stammer
About this listen
Sensitive and cautious from an early age, Erin had always managed to mitigate the periodic upheavals in her life, but in a short 18 months, a whirlwind of events tip the balance that she had been able to maintain. The Great Recession, a second marriage, merging families, menopause, and undertaking an enormous role managing a chaotic assisted living facility all combine to create a perfect storm that threatens to break her. Unassisted is Erin’s story of finding herself and finding home.
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Overall5 out of 5 stars
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- Minneapolis listener
- 10-24-21
Excellent memoir
Down-to-earth and real,Stammer talks about her life and what she’s learned in a vulnerable and very relatable way.
She has certainly had tough times and acknowledges her own mistakes in an adult way. The bonus are passages of beautiful writing throughout every chapter. She manages to make a pretty normal life into a page-turner.
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