Faria Ash on Building the Autism Foundation, Training, Advocacy, and Safer Care in the UK
Host Tony Mantor welcomes back autism advocate Faria Ash, who returns to share her progress since discussing her book on toilet training for autistic and SEND children and adults, based on her nonverbal daughter Aia’s real-life story.
Faria explains that the book’s success led her to form the Autism Foundation in the UK (officially launched October 2023), expanding from workshops into autism training for communities, professionals, schools, and care homes, with a focus on communication, social interaction, repetitive behaviors, sensory impairments, and reducing challenging behaviors to improve quality of life. She describes launching an advocacy service to help parents navigate UK processes such as EHCP reports and school documentation so children receive appropriate support.
The conversation addresses misconceptions about autism—especially the idea that “autism is a superpower”—and outlines autism “levels” (1–3) through the core assessment areas of communication, social interaction, and repetitive behaviors.
Faria also discusses the overlap between autism and anxiety, emphasizing routines and structure as key supports, and shares challenges including resistance from authorities and difficulties fundraising to create a safe care facility amid reports of abuse in care settings.
For Autism Awareness Month, she emphasizes that true inclusion requires asking autistic people and families what practical accommodations would help them participate in schools, workplaces, and communities, and she shares how to find her online via autismfoundation.co.uk and her social media profiles.

Welcome to 'Why Not Me' — Autism & Mental Health Worldwide
Meet Your Host Tony Mantor + Why Following Helps
Introducing Guest Faria Ash & Her Growing Autism Foundation (UK)
What’s Changed Since Last Time: Book Launch, Foundation, and Care Facility Vision
How the Autism Foundation Started: Aia’s Story & Toilet Training Breakthrough
Training the Community: Sensory Needs, Communication, and Challenging Behavior
Foundation Growth: Care Homes, Professional Training, and Parent Advocacy (EHCPs)
Fixing Misconceptions: Social Media, ‘Autism as a Superpower,’ and Nonverbal Reality
Where to Start When Learning Autism: The 3 Core Areas (Communication, Social, Repetitive)
Explaining Autism Levels 1–3 (and What They Look Like Day-to-Day)
Autism & Anxiety Overlap: Why Routine Helps and How to Support It
Hard Lessons Building a Foundation: Authorities, Funding, and Safe Care for Vulnerable Adults
The Parents’ Resilience: Stories That Keep the Mission Going
Beyond Awareness Month: What Real Inclusion Looks Like in Communities
One Misconception to End: ‘Autism Is a Superpower’
How to Connect with Faria + What’s Next for the Foundation
Final Thanks & How to Share Your Story with the Show

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The content on Why Not Me: Embracing Autism amd Mental Health Worldwide, including discussions on mental health, autism, and related topics, is provided for informational and entertainment purposes only.

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Lois Brady on Autism Digest, Real Stories, and Raising Expectations in Autism Support
Host Tony Mantor welcomes Lois Brady, publisher of Autism Digest and a speech-language pathologist, to discuss how the magazine blends expert guidance with lived experience using multimedia features like QR-linked videos.
Brady shares how writing Apps for Autism and contributing to Autism, Asperger’s Digest led to her acquiring the publication nearly two years ago. As the mother of an autistic son, she describes early signs, being brushed off by providers, choosing not to label him in school, and the long-term effort that helped him become independent and employed, though social challenges remain.
Brady emphasizes early identification, practical parent strategies, and avoiding the Rosenthal Effect of low expectations, including teaching non-speaking individuals to type.
She describes a breakthrough with a non-speaking child using text-to-speech, addresses public misconceptions, contrasts meltdowns with tantrums, discusses Asperger’s being folded into autism, highlights Temple Grandin’s practical advice, and explores how AI can support early intervention and diagnostic cues.
00:00 Show Intro and Mission
01:21 Meet Lois Brady
02:18 How Autism Digest Began
04:28 Early Career and Inspiration
05:14 A Mom’s Diagnosis Journey
07:39 Early Signs and Adulthood Today
09:16 How Autism Understanding Evolved
10:33 Raising Expectations and Communication
12:16 Typing Breakthrough Story
14:24 Lessons from Autistic Voices
16:06 Media Myths and Public Understanding
17:43 Aspergers vs Autism
18:17 AI for Early Support
21:10 From Cure to Support
22:51 Temple Grandin Wisdom
24:25 Meltdowns vs Tantrums
25:41 Stories and Rising Rates
28:52 Success and High Expectations
29:57 Transitions and Exposure
31:06 Ask Learn Connect

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n this episode of Why Not Me, host Tony Mantor, broadcasting from Nashville, Tennessee, delves into the mental health challenges faced by first responders and veterans.
Featuring Dr. Jean Cillo, a clinical and forensic psychologist, and retired Lieutenant Tom Antonette from the NYPD, the discussion explores the PTP (Post Tour Processing) program, a pioneering mental health support initiative designed by law enforcement for law enforcement, now expanded to all first responders.
The episode emphasizes the importance of providing a safe space for first responders to process trauma, the critical role of peer support, and the continuous efforts to ensure mental well-being in highly stressful jobs. Both guests shed light on the nuanced experiences of police officers, EMTs, and other first responders, underscoring the necessity for accessible mental health resources and the shift in cultural attitudes towards seeking help.

First Responders and Mental Health
Introducing Dr. Jean Cillo and Lt. Tom Antonette
Understanding Trauma in First Responders
Coping Mechanisms and Dark Humor
The Role of Post-Tour Processing
Tom Antonetti's Background and Insights
Challenges and Support for Retired Officers
Final Thoughts and Resources
Closing Remarks and Call to Action

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The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not reflect those of the podcast, its hosts, or affiliates.

Why Not Me is not a medical or mental health professional and does not endorse or verify the accuracy, efficacy, safety of any treatments, programs, or advice discussed.

Listeners should consult qualified healthcare professionals, such as licensed therapists, psychologists, or physicians, before making decisions about mental health or autism- related care.

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