This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage

By: Ann Patchett

Narrated by: Ann Patchett

Length: 11 hrs and 36 mins

Publisher's Summary

Blending literature and memoir, Ann Patchett, author of State of Wonder and Bel Canto examines her deepest commitments: to writing, family, friends, dogs, books, and her husband in This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage. Together, these essays, previously published in The Atlantic, Harper, Vogue, and The Washington Post, form a resonant portrait of a life lived with loyalty and with love.

This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage takes us into the very real world of Ann Patchett's life. Stretching from her childhood to the present day, from a disastrous early marriage to a later happy one, it covers a multitude of topics, including relationships with family and friends, and charts the hard work and joy of writing, and the unexpected thrill of opening a bookstore.

As she shares stories of the people, places, ideals, and art to which she has remained indelibly committed, Ann Patchett brings into focus the large experiences and small moments that have shaped her as a daughter, wife, and writer.

©2013 Ann Patchett (P)2013 HarperCollinsPublishers

Critic Reviews

"Readable and candid, Patchett’s collection is a joyful celebration of life, love and the written word." (Kirkus Reviews)

"Reading Patchett is like spending time with a deeply perceptive longtime pal, or a new friend that one instantly connects with." (USA Today)

"[A] sparkling collection." (The New Yorker)

Entertaining, engrossing, and elucidative essays

This is the Story of a Happy Marriage is everything other reviewers have said, and more. It’s a wonderfully-written and varied collection of Ann Patchett’s essays, ranging from musings about how she considered joining the Los Angeles Police Dept. in order to write about it and how she is influenced by her father, a retired LAPD police captain, to her feelings about her dog Rose and Sister Nena, the nun that taught her to read and write, to the eloquent and moving account of caring for her grandmother during her progression into dementia.

I’ve read and enjoyed (with reservations) several of Patchett’s novels. Bel Canto was great but I hated the ending, and I liked State of Wonder, except for some of the more ludicrous plot points. I personally found this collection of essays much more engrossing than any of her novels that I’ve read. She can write about almost anything, revealing thoughts, emotions, and advice without becoming preachy and overbearing.

I was completely unaware of Lucy Grealy, Patchett’s long-term friendship with her, and the controversies arising from their relationship. I’m very tempted to read Patchett’s Truth and Beauty to delve into this further, and may do that after I’ve had some time to digest the essay from Grealy’s sister in The Guardian. I’m hoping that Patchett will further show, as she did in this collection, that there are often quite a few ways of viewing a situation, and one absolute truth does not always exist.

I do have to thank Ann Patchett for leading me to an epiphany. In “Love Sustained”, she writes about the long and painful decline of her grandmother Eva:

“My grandmother had spent her life taking care of other people, cooking their food, cleaning their houses. It was her proof that she was valuable in the world. Now I cleaned my grandmother's apartment, which hurt her every single time. My cleaning was an accusation, no matter how quietly I went about it.”

When I read “It was her proof that she was valuable in the world.”, I gained a much better understanding of my dear mother-in-law. She raised five children with lots of hard work and no time to herself. Now that she has too much time to herself, she is missing that visible proof that she is valuable in the world. I could see her so clearly in that one simple sentence. I’m grateful for this entertaining and elucidative collection of essays that was a pleasure to read, and even more so when read by the author in the audio version.

David Sedaris said I'd like it, and I did.:-)

I went to see David Sedaris on his last tour and he usually has a book recommendation and this time it was this book. Huzzah.

for Ann Pratchett's fans

I was expecting a book on Ann's writing life, but got a collection of her essays, published during her life in a number of magazines. While the writing is good, and stories are sometimes good, too, it is quite repetative. I did love the essay about her dog and grandma's passing.

The Story of an unhappy life

What did you like best about This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage? What did you like least?

Liked Rose the dog best. Author's narration was the worst. She sounded miffed, angry, just plain pissed off at so many things, people, places...the whole world.

Would you be willing to try another book from Ann Patchett? Why or why not?

Not really. Didn't like Bel Canto. Maybe this author is just not for me.

Would you be willing to try another one of Ann Patchett’s performances?

no. she does not have a reading voice that one wants to hear for more than 30 seconds.

Do you think This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage needs a follow-up book? Why or why not?

Oh NO!

Any additional comments?

Many of us have been waitresses. Perhaps less bitter because we weren't frustrated poets and didn't go to Iowa to study graduate writing.

Can't finish it

Writing is clean but horribly boring. It's only about Anne- the Title is misleading. Narrator is monotone and I can't stand listening to her talk. Cannot believe I wasted credits to buy this book. Save yourself- this is better off as firewood than a book taking up space.

Insufferable

Couldn't finish, even though I'm sure the author had fantastic advice. she reminded me of a cynical, weary professor.

Interesting and Engaging

Where does This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

Pretty high: I've had a run of badly written or read books lately, so this was a welcome surprise. I truly had a sense of relief listening to it.

Who was your favorite character and why?

It's a series of essays, so there aren't any characters, only real people. The one consistency is the voice of the author, Ann Patchett. She comes across as very matter-of-fact, if not particularly introspective or self-reflective. That is partly what I liked about the book, as she doesn't wallow about in self-indulgent personal analysis. She seems to encounter life with the curiosity, bemusement and bewilderment of someone from another planet. One can almost see her squinting as she tries to figure out how other people approach their lives or perceive hers.

Which character – as performed by Ann Patchett – was your favorite?

Ann Patchett, as herself. Usually a book read by the author is the kiss of death for an audiobook, but in this case it works. She knows the cadence of her writing and, most importantly, her humor. I don't think it would work with anyone else reading.

Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

No. I listened to the chapters or articles sequentially but over the course of a few days of driving.

Any additional comments?

This is a very engaging collection of articles, especially as read by the author. My main image of it was as a beautiful workhorse of a book. It was a surprise, as I didn't realize she had a parallel career in non-fiction. I have had mixed-reactions to her novels, although I find the writing in them to be brilliant. Now I have fallen in love with her non-fiction writing. She has a pace and cadence, along with a combination of information, description, and humor, that is unerringly satisfying.

Just go with it or not !

What did you love best about This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage?

Well I tried to like it. I even listened to it twice, no luck. She shouldn't narrate her books.

What did you like best about this story?

It just went on and on. Her voice drove me crazy,sorry,

Beautiful Non-Fiction short pieces

Ann Patchett at her finest. Real and surprising, funny, touching and honest. Each piece engaging in its own way. I learned so much, about writing, about what it's like to go through the police academy in LA, own an indie bookstore, love a nun, stand up and speak out in the face of criticism, and yes, have a happy marriage. Some of it is repetitive because of the nature of the collection. This is work collected over the years. Highly recommended.

Unbelievably great!

Ann Patchett is a natural storyteller. Up until this point I had only read her fiction. This is the Story of a Happy Marriage are essays. At first glance I thought, oh, I'm not sure I'm going to like that. But from the first essay I read, I couldn't get enough. Stories of her life, her husband, being a divorced woman, her dog... Are all enchanting. Reading her stories is like sitting down with your best friend in learning about her life. Absolutely delightful. I'd recommend it to anyone. Thank you Ann Patchett for writing this book!