Host: Joseph Lewin

Guest: Devin Paxton

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Episode originally aired live on Jul 1, 2025 on LinkedIn

Produced by Sell Through Social

Joseph and Devin break down what brand really means in 2025 and why it matters even more now that AI is everywhere. They unpack why relying solely on ChatGPT makes you blend in, how to build a brand that actually resonates with humans, and the steps for developing a clear, authentic brand foundation.

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• AI is making content cheap, fast, and impossible to distinguish.
• As noise rises, brand becomes the differentiator—not volume, not speed.
• People buy based on trust, emotion, and familiarity…things AI cannot replicate.
• Companies skipping brand fundamentals end up with generic messaging and higher acquisition costs.

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• A brand is the emotional impression people have of you.
• Colors, fonts, and logos amplify the feeling—they aren’t the brand.
• Brand answers:
• “How do you make people feel?”
• “What do they trust you for?”
• “Why do they choose you over similar options?”

• AI can generate content, but it can’t generate meaning.
• ChatGPT gives you what’s “average” in the dataset—meaning your brand becomes generic if you rely on it exclusively.
• The differentiator becomes:
• Human voice
• Human story
• Human authenticity

• Most creators and founders start by posting content.
• But effective branding starts with listening:
• What does your audience not understand?
• What frustrates them?
• What do they wish existed?
• Use Google “People Also Ask,” forums, comments, and conversations to collect real questions.

• Trend-based content is short-lived.
• Evergreen content builds authority and trust over time.
• The goal is not virality—it’s memorability.

• Talk to your actual customers.
• Visit the communities where they hang out.
• Ask what’s keeping them stuck and what breakthrough they’re hoping for.
• The problems people think but don’t say publicly are where great brand messaging comes from.

Devin shares a multi-channel campaign for the film Love Reconsidered, using:

• Organic social
• Paid ads (Meta, Google, YouTube)
• Influencer tie-ins
• Press partnerships
• Cast-led storytelling

Results:

• ~174,000 impressions
• Coverage on The Today Show, Bravo, and major entertainment outlets
• The campaign worked because the story and emotional core remained consistent across every channel.

Joseph explains why companies with strong brands:

• Close deals faster
• Get more cold outreach replies
• Maintain lower CAC over time
• Build familiarity long before the sales call

Brand makes every other marketing activity more efficient.

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Host: Joseph Lewin

Guest: Sidney Evans

Episode originally aired live on Jun 30, 2025 on LinkedIn,

Produced by Sell Through Social.

As AI becomes part of everyone’s daily workflow, technical skills are getting commoditized. What won’t be commoditized? Your ability to understand people, lead them, and connect with them.

In this episode, Joseph and Sidney dig into emotional intelligence (EQ) as a competitive advantage in an AI-driven world—especially for leaders.

Sidney’s core argument:

The companies that develop emotionally intelligent leaders will have a competitive edge in the AI era.

Where EQ shines while AI struggles:

• Human-centered leadership – AI can handle data and logic; leaders still have to handle humans.
• Ethical decision-making – AI can’t fully grasp nuance, context, or long-term human impact.
• Team cohesion – People don’t bond with tools; they bond with leaders who listen, care, and guide.
• Change management – In seasons of disruption, emotionally intelligent leaders help teams navigate fear, uncertainty, and resistance.

Sidney’s working definition:

EQ is the ability to regulate, manage, and influence your behavior and emotions—especially in relation to others.

Key components he highlights:

• Self-awareness – Noticing your internal state, triggers, and patterns.
• Self-regulation – Managing your reactions instead of being run by them.
• Empathy (not sympathy)
• Sympathy is “I feel bad for you” (about me and my feelings).
• Empathy is “I see how you feel; let me understand more and support you” (about you).
• Influence – Using your emotional awareness to positively guide people and situations.

Sidney uses a DISC-style framework to help leaders read and respond to others:

• D – Dominant (results-oriented): Direct, decisive, “Let’s fix it” energy.
• I – Intellect / Influencing (people-oriented): Focused on connection, energy, and people.
• S – Steady & Stable (service-oriented): Loyal, calm, prefers stability and harmony.
• C – Cautious & Conscientious (process-oriented): Analytical, detail-driven, system-focused.

Example: walking into a cold room

• D: “It’s cold. I’m turning up the heat.”
• I: “Hey, is anyone else cold?”
• S: “I’m glad I brought my sweater.”
• C: “I wonder if the thermostat or AC is broken.”

Emotionally intelligent leaders adjust their communication style based on the person in front of them, rather than just defaulting to their own style.

Sidney points out that “You good?” is a useless check-in; everyone just says “Yeah, I’m fine.”

Better questions to build connection and insight:

• “What’s energizing you today?”
• “What project are you most excited about right now?”
• “What feels challenging for you...

Host: Joseph Lewin

Guest: Dr. Deepak Bhootra

Episode originally aired on Jun 27, 2025 on LinkedIn,

Produced by Sell Through Social

Most people default to “salesy” because their only models are bad ones—pushy tactics, pressure, and performance. Dr. Deepak reframes selling as connection, clarity, and service. We bust seven common sales myths, then unpack “Sales Sorcery”—a mindset and method to sell with quiet confidence, test fast, and build resilience.

• We copy the worst examples (Wolf-of-Wall-Street vibes, hard closes, pressure).
• Owners think they’re “running a business,” not selling—so they never train the skill.
• Performance replaces connection; scripts replace discovery; pushing replaces helping.
• Fix: Change the benchmark. Define selling as diagnosing pain/desire, offering fit, and earning permission through trust.

1. “If my offer’s good, it will sell itself.” Great work still needs a voice. Visibility and positioning matter.
2. “You must be extroverted/charismatic.” Success = quiet confidence + trust + belief in your offer.
3. “I have to talk people into buying.” You seek permission and fit; pressure erodes trust (and data).
4. “I need a big following first.” Audience fallacy. In B2B, alignment > audience. One-to-one wins.
5. “Selling is pushy/gross/unethical.” That’s stigma from bad models. Helping solve pain is ethical.
6. “My offer must be 100% ready before I sell.” Perfection drains runway. Sell before you perfect; refine with the market.
7. “No = I failed.” No = data. Detach identity from outcome; iterate messaging/fit.

• Not louder—clearer. Clarity beats theatrics.
• Test early. Stop hiding behind prep; take the imperfect offer to market.
• Karmic selling. Open hands: give value even when it’s a “no” (introductions, resources). Referrals and timing bring people back.
• Resilience frame. Expect rejection; measure learning velocity, not ego bruises.
• Augmented intelligence. Use AI to deliver 3× value, not to replace presence.
• Owner reality. If you don’t sell, your company gets sold—cash flow beats “infinite refinement.”

• Listen before you sell. Interview target buyers for real pains/desires.
• Sell before you build. Pre-sell the sketch; build what’s paid for.
• Build before you scale. Iterate with real customers, then standardize and expand.

• Open with “Can I share an idea that might help?” then diagnose.
• Track No’s as datapoints (reason, segment, timing, objection theme).
• Ship 6 imperfect outreach reps this week—review, refine, repeat.
• Replace “failure” with “test.” Outcome teaches; process compounds.
• Keep a Give List: when it’s not a fit, connect them to a resource/person.
• Guard runway: if you think you have 12 months, operate like...

Host: Joseph Lewin

Guest: Kejal Shah — Talent Consultant • Certified Career Coach • Founder, KeepWay Consulting

This episode was originally aired on Sep 24, 2024 on LinkedIn

Joseph and Kejal unpack why so many businesses struggle to hire and keep good people, and why your mid-level managers are the make-or-break layer for culture, retention, and growth. Kejal shares a practical framework (ADR: Attraction, Development, Retention) and talks about why owners have to stop pretending hiring is “just an HR thing.”

This episode was produced by Sell Through Social.

Why you can’t treat hiring like “just filling a seat”:

• Turnover is higher and more expensive than ever.
• Most companies don’t clearly define what a successful hire looks like before they start interviewing.

Kejal has leaders focus on 3 value pillars in candidates:

• Purpose – Why do they do what they do?
• Passion – What energizes them?
• Promises – What do they consistently deliver on?

If you don’t clarify this up front and build it into your interview questions, you bake in retention problems before the person even starts.

Kejal breaks down why bad hiring is so expensive:

• For hourly / blue-collar roles, sourcing 1 person can cost:
• $4K–$8K+ (ads, tools, recruiter/HR time, interview time, onboarding).
• For white-collar roles, it’s often:
• $8K–$12K+ just to get them in the door.

And that’s before:

• Onboarding and training time
• Lost productivity
• Burden on the rest of the team when someone quits
• Restarting the whole process 6–12 months later

Most companies don’t fully count:

• The time cost of hiring managers
• The opportunity cost of a seat being open for months
• The burnout cost on existing staff covering extra workload

If you actually total it all up, one bad hire (or one early departure) can easily cost more than building a solid hiring & retention system from the start.

Kejal’s core conviction:

“Your vision and culture live and die in your mid-level leadership team.”

Mid-level managers sit in the pressure sandwich:

• Pressure from the top: owners & executives demanding performance and low turnover.
• Pressure from the bottom: frontline employees who need support, clarity, and development.

Problems that show up if this layer isn’t equipped:

• Owners get mad: “Why are you losing people? We’re spending all this money on hiring!”
• Mid-level managers were never trained in:
• How to hire the right people
• How to coach and develop them
• How to retain and grow them
• Employees feel unheard, overworked, and unseen—and leave.

If mid-level leaders are not:

• Bought into the vision
• Given real authority & tools
• Trained to hire, coach, and retain

…then culture, productivity, and retention all start to crumble.

Host: Joseph Lewin

Guest: Tim Rettig — Founder & CEO, Intrust IT • Second-Generation ESOP Owner • ESOP Advocate

This show was originally aired on Aug 28, 2024 on LinkedIn.

Joseph and Tim unpack how selling a company to your employees—through an ESOP (Employee Stock Ownership Plan)—can create financial freedom for founders, long-term wealth for teams, and lasting stability for the business. Tim explains what ESOPs are, how they work, and why they’re one of the most overlooked exit strategies in business.

This show was produced by Sell Through Social.

• Definition: An Employee Stock Ownership Plan is a trust that owns part (or all) of a company on behalf of its employees.
• The company’s profits go to the trust, which pays off the loan used to buy the business from the owner.
• Employees earn shares over time, but aren’t personally liable for any company debt.
• Think of it like a 401(k)—but tied to your company’s performance, not Wall Street’s.

• A company worth $10M can be sold to an ESOP trust.
• The ESOP borrows the money, pays the owner, and then repays the loan using future company profits.
• The employees earn stock value as the company grows—without risk or personal investment.
• Owners can sell any percentage (10%, 30%, or 100%), making it flexible for partial or full exit.

• Complex setup: Legal and financial structures are specialized.
• Few incentives for advisors: CPAs and brokers often make more money selling to private equity.
• Low visibility: It’s not “sexy,” but it’s highly effective—especially for manufacturing, construction, and IT service companies.
• ESOPs work best for companies with 30+ employees and $1–2M+ EBITDA.

• Gain ownership and wealth—without risk or buy-in.
• Typically earn higher pay, better benefits, and greater job stability.
• Build a third major asset for retirement (in addition to home equity and 401k).
• ESOP shares increase as company value grows. When employees retire or leave, the company buys back their shares at fair market value.
• Legally protected: the company must begin buybacks within 5 years of departure.

• The seller can defer or eliminate capital gains tax through a 1042 Exchange (similar to a real-estate 1031).
• Example: Selling a $10M company could normally mean ~$4M in taxes. Under a 1042, that money can be reinvested into public or private U.S. companies tax-free.
• Heirs also receive a step-up in basis, avoiding capital gains on inherited assets.

• When structured as an S-Corp ESOP, the ESOP trust owns shares—and pays no taxes on that percentage of profits.
• Example: A company that’s 30% ESOP-owned pays taxes on only 70% of profits.
• Fully ESOP-owned S-Corps pay zero federal corporate...

Host: Joseph Lewin

Guest: Chris Cirullo — Founder, Mission Fit Dads (helping busy Christian business leaders build healthy, lasting habits)

This show was originally aired on Aug 21, 2024 on LinkedIn.

The show is produced by Sell Through Social.

Joseph and Chris unpack why smart, driven entrepreneurs still struggle to build healthy habits—and how to rewire your brain so change actually sticks. They walk through practical frameworks, a simple daily scorecard, and a 15-minute morning routine that can work in any season of life.

• Ambitious leaders often succeed in business while silently running on fumes.
• Most are “trying” instead of training, expecting overnight transformation.
• Without fixing habits, you eventually hit a ceiling—in health, family, and business.

• Wrong expectations = constant failure loop
• People assume habits “just happen” instead of requiring design, repetition, and discomfort.
• They jump straight to the ideal state (e.g., “I’m going to run a marathon”) instead of small, sustainable steps.
• Habits are well-worn paths—not erased, but replaced
• Old habits rarely disappear; you must create a more compelling alternative path and put “roadblocks” in front of the old one.
• Environment design (friction for bad habits, ease for good ones) is crucial.
• The Habit Loop
• Cue → Craving → Action → Reward.
• If you don’t intentionally engineer this loop for new habits and disrupt it for bad ones, you end up relying on willpower, which always runs out.
• Trying vs Training
• Trying: “I’ll wake up tomorrow and run 26 miles.”
• Training: “This week I’ll walk/run 1 mile, next week 2…”
• Transformation comes from progressive training, not heroic one-off effort.
• Google Maps Analogy: Current vs Desired State
• You need brutal honesty about where you really are and clarity about where you want to go.
• Without both points, you can’t plan a realistic route.
• Chris references the Stockdale Paradox: confront the brutal facts with relentless optimism.
• The Habit Health Ladder (Self-Assessment)
• Top: 8–12 months of consistent habits (rarely miss twice).
• Middle: Inconsistent good habits; sometimes long gaps.
• Bottom: Out-of-control habits; doing what you don’t want to do.
• If most of your life sits in the bottom three rungs, you’re in the red, even if one area looks “successful.”
• You can’t level up on “red” habits
• You may grow revenue or team size while in the red, but you can’t keep scaling or stay healthy without upgrading your habits.
• Eventually you hit burnout, like Chris did—massive success on the outside, collapse on the inside.

• Knowledge
• Intake system for the right 20% of information that produces 80% of results.
• Feedback loops to refine what actually works for you.
• Practice...

Host: Joseph Lewin — sellthroughsocial.com

Guest: Stephen Black — Founder/CEO, abrighterday.life • Author, The Five Rules

This show was originally aired live on Jul 29, 2024 on LinkedIn.

Joseph and Stephen distill 40 years of team leadership into a practical framework—The Five Rules—that strengthens culture, improves performance, and carries over into family life.

This show is produced by Sell Through Social

• Lead, don’t just manage: KPIs matter, but behaviors drive results.
• People > process: How leaders treat the team becomes how the team treats customers.
• Home/work harmony: Better humans → better leaders → better businesses.

• From manager to leader: Early career = coaching numbers; seasoned leader = coaching behaviors.
• Service chain: Leader cares for the team → team serves customers → customers reward the business.
• Intentional growth: Commit to ongoing study (e.g., four leadership books/year).
• The three questions every team member asks: Do you care about me? Can you help me? Can I trust you? Turn these into daily proof through actions.
• Listen before you launch: Vision without team input creates surprises, burnout, and failed rollouts.
• You shape the dinner-table story: Give people something good to say when asked, “How was your day?”

1. Do Your Job — Own your agreements, model standards, remove blockers.
2. Be Kind — Especially to the people you lead and live with; praise publicly, correct with dignity.
3. No Surprises — Over-communicate early; share drafts, clarify impact and timelines, invite feedback.
4. No Drama — Address facts; separate home/work stress so you can be present in each.
5. Protect the Brand — You are the brand; refuse toxicity, don’t undermine, defend culture in small moments.

• 1:1s for behavior coaching: “What behavior would make next week easier?”
• “Walk the dog” test for ideas: float it quietly—if no interest, park it.
• Weekly rhythm: team huddle (wins → risks → asks).
• “Blessings” habit: end meetings by naming specific things people did right.
• Law of the harvest: good ideas often require seasonal timelines—plant, tend, harvest.

• “Your team will never treat customers better than leadership treats the team.”
• “If you make spur-of-the-moment decisions, expect spur-of-the-moment results.”
• “Turn Do you care? Can you help? Can I trust you? into daily proof—not slogans.”

• Stephen’s book: The Five Rules — available via abrighterday.life and major booksellers.
• Mentors referenced: John Maxwell (inner circle), Andy Reid on family-first leadership, Steve Jobs on hiring smart people.

This episode originally aired live on Jul 24, 2024 on LinkedIn.

Joseph and Ari break down a practical, low-budget playbook for launching small, high-impact in-person events that create trust, conversations, and real pipeline—without panels, pitches, or pricey venues.

This show is produced by Sell Through Social

• Being the host flips you from attention-seeker to opportunity-giver.
• Curated rooms of like-minded pros produce warmer intros, referrals, and deals than big, noisy mixers.
• You can start with $200 and a free space, then scale with sponsors.

• Host > Attend: As host, you choose the room, set the tone, and have more meaningful conversations.
• Give > Get: Design the event as a gift to your niche (no panels, no pitching, no promotion).
• Audience First: Define an IGP (Ideal Guest Profile)—narrow, shared goals/energy beat broad “SMB.”
• Start Scrappy: Free/low-cost venues (coworking, coffee shops off-hours, community spaces); barter your audience for space.
• Sponsors the Smart Way: Sell access + conversations, not stage time. Make sponsors group leaders in icebreakers.
• Repeatable Flow (2 hours):

1. Open mingle
2. Guided icebreaker #1 (small groups)
3. Mingle (now with context)
4. Group photo
5. Guided icebreaker #2 (new groups)
6. Final mingle

• Food & Bev: Simple, tested menu beats fancy spreads (skip pricey charcuterie).
• Outreach Works: Inner circle → curated cold email/DM → plus-ones (approved). Invite for their benefit, not your sale.
• Relationships > “Talks”: People remember how you made them feel—safe, seen, and connected.

1. Define the room: e.g., “Cincinnati consultants & boutique agencies (1–10 ppl), relationship-driven, family-first builders.”
2. Pick the slot: Weeknight, 6–8pm or 7–9pm.
3. Secure venue: Pitch a coworking space on “30 ideal prospects visiting your space.” Ask for a private area for 2 hours.
4. Capacity & target RSVPs: Want 30 attending? Aim for 50–80 RSVPs.
5. Name & promise: “The Cincinnati Consultant Circle — curated connections, zero pitching.”
6. Invite stack: Warm list (friends/clients/guests from your show), Handpicked LinkedIn DMs + targeted cold email, and Approved plus-ones (must fit the room)
7. Run of show: Print a simple agenda; prep two 5-minute icebreakers with 1–2 questions each.
8. Roles: Host/MC (you), Door greeter, Timer, Photographer, Sponsor as icebreaker lead.
9. Menu: Light, clean, easy to eat one-handed; water & a couple of crowd-pleasers.
10. Follow-ups (next morning): Send group photo, attendee list (opt-in), and “3 warm-intro templates” to encourage connections.

• “What’s one client win you’re proud of this quarter—and what unlocked it?”
• “What’s a...