• The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory

  • Everything You Need to Know About Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, and Alternative Love
  • By: Dedeker Winston
  • Narrated by: Stephanie Rose
  • Length: 9 hrs and 58 mins
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (347 ratings)

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The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory

By: Dedeker Winston
Narrated by: Stephanie Rose
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No one likes a know-it-all, but everyone loves a girl with brains and heart. The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory is an intelligent and comprehensive guide to polyamory, open relationships, and other forms of alternative love, offering relationship advice radically different from anything you'll find on the magazine rack.

This practical guidebook will help women break free of the mold of traditional monogamy, without the constraints of jealousy, possessiveness, insecurity, and competition. The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory incorporates interviews and real-world advice from women of all ages in nontraditional relationships, as well as exercises for building self-awareness, confidence in communication, and strategies for managing and eliminating jealousy. If you're curious about exploring group sex, opening up your current monogamous relationship, or ready to "come out" as polyamorous, this book covers it all!

Whether you're a seasoned graduate, a timid freshman, or somewhere in between, you'll learn how to discover and craft unique relationships that are healthy, happy, sexy, and tailor-made for you. Because when it comes to your love life, being a know-it-all is actually a great thing to be.

©2017 Dedeker Winston (P)2018 Tantor

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A great guide for all

This book is a collection of advice you hear in the polyam community wrapped in a personal perspective. Several times I found myself having to skip back because something thought provoking would send my mind on a tangent. It may be my new go to recommendation for people asking where to start.

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can't wait to listen again

fantastically comprehensive deep dive into all things ENM. perfect blend of anecdotal and research based.

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Well put together book

This is a great informational book and is a good way to examine Safely if polyamory is for you

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thought provoking

I love how much this book made me think and the growth it gave me.

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Great resource!

Dedeker is one of my favorite authors and speakers (her podcast is great too!) This book is an easy read but has wonder tools you can learn to help navigate poly (or mono) relationships. It’s a must have.

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So informative!

Dedeker provides so much information about the benefits and struggles of poly along with different ways these can be handled. This book gave me a ton to think about and there were so many, "ah ha!" moments where things just made sense for my current situation. Definitely recommend!

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Very educational

This was my first book on polyamory and I learned loads from it. Highly recommend as an introduction to the topic.

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amazing!

what a great book! a new world we can live without shame. a manual for the non mongomous

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Vast background of relationships

I learned so much about the fundamentals of a relationship this book is for anyone and any type of relationship

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A nice in depth view at polyamory.

The author really touched on all the subjects I could have possibly thought about.A good read for anyone trying to get into the lifestyle.

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