Episode #1088

This is one of those episodes we had to bring back. It's a real conversation about what happens when men quietly settle for less in their marriage, their health, or their life in general. Doug and Chris revisit the hard truth: when you stop taking action, you're not pausing, you're choosing. And that choice has consequences.

They talk about the trap of tolerating a "not that bad" marriage, the fear that keeps men from speaking up, and how easy it is to lose yourself trying to keep the peace. Doug shares what he's seen happen when guys finally stop hiding, start leading, and take a real step forward. Chris opens up about how hard it was for him to speak his truth and what shifted when he finally did.

You'll also hear why your wife may not be checked out from the relationship she may just be tired of waiting for you to show up. The good news? It's not too late to change that. But you've got to stop sitting on the fence.

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Episode #1087

If you keep waiting for the "right moment" to fix your marriage, you're already making a choice and not the one you want. In this episode, Doug and Chris break down what it really looks like to stop spinning your wheels and start leading your relationship. They talk about why indecision kills intimacy, how hesitation builds resentment, and how taking real action imperfect or not is what actually starts to shift things.

You'll learn how to evaluate where you're at across what they call the Five Territories: self, health, wealth, relationships, and business. You'll also hear how inaction shows up as victimhood and why it's the fastest way to lose connection with your wife, your kids, and yourself.

Doug shares what it means to be the decisive leader in your home, even when you're not sure of the next step. Chris talks about why your wife might not support you at first, and how to rebuild her trust not with talk, but with consistent action. They get into real stories from their coaching experience, with examples of men turning things around by finally stepping off the fence.

If your relationship feels stuck, if your energy is off, or if you've been consuming advice but not actually doing anything with it this is the conversation you need to hear.

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Episode #1086

Most men create a vision for their business but rarely take the time to do the same for their marriage or family. In this episode, Doug and Chris unpack why that's a problem, and how to start creating a clear, shared vision at home. This isn't about long meetings or forcing your wife to sit on the couch and talk about feelings. It's about finding a way that works, walking, talking, asking the right questions and using that to get aligned.

They share real examples from their own lives: how to include your kids, even if they're young or older, how to keep it light and fun, and how small conversations can lead to big shifts. You'll hear what worked, what didn't, and why this kind of planning can deepen connection without pressure. Chris also opens up about his own hesitation around doing this "the right way," and Doug offers simple tools and ideas to make it doable, not overwhelming.

They also cover how to set a vision that's not just about logistics or calendars but about how you want your home life to feel. You'll learn how to plan in a way that brings energy, clarity, and direction into your relationship and your role as a father. It's not about getting it perfect it's about leading with intention and creating a future everyone's excited about. If your marriage or family life feels like it's drifting, this episode will help you reset and start fresh.

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