About Musata

Musata Matei is Head of Partnerships and Growth at IGNITE in DIFC, and the author of The Mother Shift, a candid exploration of working motherhood and the leadership reset it demands. An expat for most of her life, Musata began her career in London’s high-pressure financial world, including a role at Goldman Sachs, before relocating to Dubai in search of a more sustainable, family-friendly way to live and work.

After experiencing maternity discrimination firsthand, Musata began journaling as a form of self-therapy, which eventually evolved into a book that blends her story with the lived experiences of other mothers and founders. Today, she speaks openly about the motherhood penalty, bias, mental load, and the myth of “having it all,” while advocating for a more human, inclusive leadership model rooted in emotional intelligence, empathy, and authenticity.

About This Episode

In this episode of the Matrix Green Pill Podcast, Hilmarie Hutchison sits down with Musata Matei (Head of Partnerships & Growth, IGNITE DIFC) to unpack what motherhood really shifts: identity, ambition, leadership style, and the definition of success. Musata shares how being fired while pregnant became a turning point, how Dubai offered a different path forward, and why leadership frameworks built for a previous era no longer serve the world we’re living in now.

The conversation dives into the realities many working mothers quietly carry: bias at work, mom guilt, the invisible mental load, and the burnout that comes from chasing the “supermom” standard. Musata offers practical insights for mothers in high-pressure roles, and also challenges companies to rethink performance, flexibility, and what inclusive leadership truly looks like. It’s a grounded, hopeful conversation that reminds us: motherhood doesn’t reduce ambition, it sharpens it and the future of leadership will reward the very skills many women were once told to hide.

Quotes

5:20 - I think the way we think about leadership, work, and parenthood has to evolve, both for women and men. And that's really what the Maver Shift is about. It's about raising awareness and encouraging today and tomorrow's leaders to embrace change.

6:10 - These are becoming the leadership skills that will matter most. They're no longer optional extras. And I truly believe that mothers, working mums, are the ones who embody all of these skills.

8:35 - Another huge experience that we have in common is the strength and perseverance that mothers have. We just don't give up. We keep showing up. Success for many of us is not about a final destination. It's about resilience, consistency, and continuing despite the odds.

12:42 - I believe more in, let's say, sustainability, to put ourselves first without guilt. I know that's easier said than done, but I truly believe now that if we cannot function, everything else eventually falls apart.

13:22 - The biggest advice that I would give to mothers who are really struggling to find that balance is not necessarily to chase that balance, but to put their needs first.

14:12 - I do believe that if you know you want to succeed as a mom and as a professional, you have to redefine ambition and success on your own terms rather than according to what society has told us or according to the expectations of others or even our families. We have to be the ones who define what is good for us and what works for us at every single stage of our life, and certainly every stage of our motherhood.

15:02 - For me, self-care is not just about spa days or bubble baths. It's about maintenance. And it includes both mental and physical healt

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Annie Stacey

Annie Stacey is the founder and CEO of Reloved, a UAE-based eco-tech marketplace redefining how people buy and sell pre-loved furniture, fashion, and lifestyle items. Originally from the UK, Annie moved to the UAE over a decade ago with plans to stay briefly, but quickly found a long-term home in the region. With a background in HR and corporate leadership, she brings a people-first mindset to entrepreneurship, balancing commercial growth with community impact.

Her journey as a founder is marked by resilience and reinvention. After losing her life savings to a fraudulent app developer while pregnant and working full-time, Annie chose not to walk away from her vision. Instead, she rebuilt Reloved from scratch, launching a lean MVP and steadily growing the platform into a trusted circular commerce brand. Today, Reloved has helped save over 1.5 tonnes of CO₂ emissions through conscious consumption, while empowering individuals and families to participate in a more sustainable economy.

About This Episode

In this episode of the Matrix Green Pill Podcast, Hilmarie Hutchison sits down with Annie Stacey for an honest and grounded conversation about entrepreneurship, failure, and purpose-driven innovation. Annie shares the behind-the-scenes reality of building Reloved, from being scammed during early app development to navigating trust, logistics, payments, and buyer–seller dynamics in the UAE market.

The conversation explores the emotional side of founding a startup, including self-doubt, burnout, loneliness, and the pressure to “push through” at all costs. Annie reflects on motherhood, mental resilience, and why stepping back can be just as powerful as working harder. The episode also dives into circular living, conscious consumption, and how small choices can create real environmental impact. It’s a candid reminder that meaningful businesses are often built not from perfection, but from persistence, alignment, and the courage to start again.

Quotes

6:39 - I think in terms of advice, it would just be definitely do your due diligence, don't do what I did, and just assume everything's okay by a nice website.

19:52 - My biggest learning is just being yourself, be authentic.

20:37 - I love nature, I love being outside. I like actually grounding myself, putting my bare feet on the grass.

21:01 - It's the small things that matter and it's the small things that count. And if you've got your health and you're happy, then everything else is good.

21:46 - My vision, my dream would be just for people to be more conscious of the what they're buying and what they're selling and to change the narrative to bring people onto a platform.

22:15 - Be a household name and to be recognized throughout everyone on who would use the platform.

22:44 – It's not going to be perfect. Just take the first leap, which is getting something out there.

23:04 - It is going to be a bumpy ride and enjoy the bumps.

24:19 - Trust the process. Surround yourself with positivity and don't sweat the small stuff. All your dreams will become a reality if you take the right steps in doing so. And take the time to be grateful rather than focusing on the next thing.

Useful Links

Website:https://www.therelovedmarketplace.com

Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/anniecstacey

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anniecstacey:

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About Navixha Bagga

Navixha Bagga is a leadership and emotional wellness coach with over two decades of experience spanning corporate IT, mindfulness, and personal development. After a 23-year career leading teams in high-pressure environments, she transitioned into purpose-driven coaching focused on resilience, emotional regulation, and mindful leadership. Alongside her corporate career, Navixha spent years facilitating breathwork and wellness programs as a volunteer across schools, prisons, and military environments. Today, she works closely with teens, women, and leaders navigating burnout, anxiety, identity shifts, and emotional overload, and is also the host of the Soul Sparked podcast.

About This Episode

In this episode of the Matrix Green Pill Podcast, Hilmarie Hutchison sits down with Navixha Bagga to explore emotional wellness, burnout, and what it truly means to lead from within. Navixha shares her journey from corporate leadership to coaching, the quiet warning signs of burnout, and why resilience comes from intentional pauses rather than constant pressure. The conversation also touches on supporting teens through emotional overload, leading by example, and the green pill moment that prompted Navixha to fully step into her purpose-driven work.

Quotes

1:15 - I'm a constant learner. That is my life purpose and my life journey.

5:33 - Teens are much more willing to unlearn.

7:01 - Burnout is this silent numbness which just continues to grow over years and decades.

7:13 - Resilience is not just about pushing harder, it's actually about taking an intentional, mindful pause and looking deeper, looking within and recognizing and seeing your own emptiness, your internal hurt and cracks that you have within.

9:17 - Emotions are not created and destroyed, but emotions transition from a more negative and toxic one to a neutral one and then to a positive one.

11:53 – The clinching strategy is to model that same behavior that you want to inspire and inculcate in your team.

12:20 - Start with cleaning your own room and your own diet and your own uh schedule first.

13:19 - Each individual, each one of us, is an inherent leader. We are all born with leadership attributes and qualities.

13:51 - We are all born leaders.

18:22 – Resilience - not giving up on myself.

Useful Links

Website:https://navixha.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Organicizeyourlife

LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/navixhabagga/

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