The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams

Narrated by: Andrew Ferebee
Length: 9 hrs and 3 mins
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This is a straight to the point, no b.s. guide to dating the women you want and living the life you deserve.  

No games. No rah rah motivation. No weird seduction tactics. Just raw, actionable content designed to turn you into the strongest version of yourself and equip you with the mindsets and social skills required to level up your life, and achieve the romantic success for which you’ve always strived. 

Here is a taste of what you’ll learn: 

  • The 11 mental models you must adopt to transform yourself from the inside out and develop the skills you need to master your romantic life. 
  • Why 93% of the most common dating advice you hear is dead wrong, and the TRUTH about what women actually respond to.
  • A simple three-hour a week strategy to find, meet, attract, and date the women you most desire so you NEVER have to settle into a relationship out of scarcity again.
  • The EXACT conversational strategies that will help you capture any woman’s attention and spark instant attraction - even IF you’re not attractive, ripped, rich, or famous. 
  • Proven steps and tactics to escalate your interactions, create sexual tension, and build an abundant dating life where high quality women are chasing you.
  • The number one mistake 97% of men make that leads to toxic relationships (and the exact steps you must take to avoid it). 
  • A proven 90-day game plan that will show you EXACTLY how to go from single, frustrated, and alone to dating an abundance of women or the ONE woman you’ve always desired.   

Enjoy the journey of a lifetime.

– Andrew Ferebee, founder of Knowledge For Me

So what are you waiting for? Scroll up, get the book, and begin your journey! 

©2015 Andrew Ferebee (P)2015 Andrew Ferebee

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Wonderful audiobook

Where does The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

This is actually the first audiobook I've downloaded. However, I do have the book in written format.

What was one of the most memorable moments of The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams?

Many of the steps provided in the book are grounded on sensibility and hope. Any man should be able to improve their dating life with these steps.

Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

You'll be hooked! Andrew does a great job of breaking down what a guy needs to do to improve his dating life. If that's your goal, give this book a shot.

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Much more than it needed to be

If you could sum up The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams in three words, what would they be?

forget 3 word summaries. It was transformative! This book is amazing and it has something for everyone.
What shocked me the most was how much it improved my confidence before I even tried any of it. I began listening to it after a crappy breakup and within hours was like "f-yeah, I'm pumped to start bettering myself and showing the new me off to the world!" Seriously, I poured through this thing in less than a week and found myself doing many things I was previously scared to do. I don't care to relay all the details but before I even finished the book I got out there to practice the teachings and was rewarded with a lovely little success story!

I love how it begins by directing the focus at the reader's own life first and facilitating some self examination. Andrew does a wonderful job of exploring obstacles and self limitations in the readers own life and how those things have consequences when it comes to women. 4 main parts are:1.The grounded man: who is he? why do you need to be him?2.How to date: (what most people probably get his book for, but NOT as critical as part 1) the nitty gritty of approaching women, being engaging in conversation, getting a phone number, following up on it with texts, planning future dates, going on dates, going home with a girl, building a relationship3. Relationships. staying in the right one, leaving a bad one. building the right one up4 Mastery: how to use first 3 parts and knowing what level of competency you are at and what might be preventing you from reaching the next

Lastly, I really loved that this book was least cheesy/sleezy thing I ever read. I was worried about it being too much about "improving game." It isn't and stresses this. It's about being the best version of yourself and how to present this to others including women. It also explains such and such is what a woman is thinking/looking for even if she isn't aware of it, and this is what you need to do about it, and how you can do it in an authentic, genuine way, that won't leave you feeling slimy.

Who was your favorite character and why?

it's self help, not ficiton

What about Andrew Ferebee’s performance did you like?

He sounds sincere. I believe him.

What’s an idea from the book that you will remember?

comfort talking to women is an extension of basic social skills and the later should be solid before moving on to the former.

Any additional comments?

if it has a fault, it is at times he seems to be rattling off cliches. But those phrases only became cliche because they have been found to be true time and time again and bear repeating. Also they are peppered in appropriately. I.e. "Don't talk about it, be about it!" But like I said, what good motivational/self-help book doesn't stress the importance of implementing the contained knowledge?

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Motivation on Becoming a "Grounded Man"

There's no secret recipe. No gimmick. No trick. The book is very true to itself.

The first part of the book was a very refreshing and motivational look on the importance of becoming the man you want to be first, before going after women.

Second part of the book goes more in depth with the pre-stages of "chasing" a women to fostering a relationship. He goes in depth on texting, first dates logistics, getting her back home, what to do what not to do, and how to be a grounded man for her.

My only disappointment is not in the content but the quality of the audio book. He stumbles with his words here and there. He rushes his sentences and the editing seems like it was done by a beginner. If you can look (hear) past that it is a great and motivating listen.

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Great and straight to the point !

What did you love best about The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams?

It cover all aspect of dating. It's not just about learning a technique to seduce, it's about improving in all aspect of our life

What other book might you compare The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams to and why?

It can be compare to Models from Mark Manson. It is similar in term of approach and in terms of contents. However, the Dating Playbook is more straightforward

Any additional comments?

A must read for all men, whether they are single or in a relationship.

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Just No

You'd imagine that a guy who says he hosts his own podcast would be able to sound anything like he wasn't terrified of reading aloud; no emotion and very rushed as he read in a super flat voice. The material he offers hardly meets his own bill of being tangible steps and is just him pitching his personal bootcamps.

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Tired, rehashed material.

What would have made The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams better?

There is ABSOLUTELY no original material in this book. It is COMPLETELY a re-hash (and often similarly titled) from other works.

What was most disappointing about Andrew Ferebee’s story?

There is no story. This guy hasn't got an original bone in his AFC body.

What didn’t you like about Andrew Ferebee’s performance?

Not a good speaker. Don't quit your Starbuck's job.

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Eye opener

This was an amazing eye opener for me.
A must read if you're serious about improving this part of your life

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Too much theory not enough how

This author spends 90% of the book explaining theory. Very few details about how it is to be accomplished. Gives bad advice About practicing hitting on girls in bars and clubs. Even if you hate bars and clubs and have no interest in the type of girls who frequent them. Very few tidbits on the actual HOW! So annoying.

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Epic Dating Advice

Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

Absolutely

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The Dating Playbook for Men is a phenomenal resource from an outstanding man. I've been following Andrew since the inception of Knowledge for Men and have never been disappointed by his work. As usual TDPFM is the best in the industry and will take you from 0 to hero if you put in the work

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Greatness

It's awesome , as much about actions as it is about theory.

Everyone looking for clear focused content , grab this audiobook.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 08-03-17

Author should not have narrated it!

What disappointed you about The Dating Playbook For Men: A Proven 7 Step System To Go From Single To The Woman Of Your Dreams?

Disappointing book, read by the author in very constant tone and FAR TOO FAST! It's hard to keep up and being the author doesn't mean being the narrator unless you've had drama/voice/previous experience. I've given up on it, and the content as well which I find jumpy and not for me.

Who might you have cast as narrator instead of Andrew Ferebee?

Just someone who could read much more slowly, with pauses, and who you can actually listen to for 5 hours. It takes skill - I'd have gone with an experienced audiobook narrator.

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  • BStudio
  • 01-03-20

Good Book

This is a book to help you be more positive and more assertive. It will also reveal some of the myths men are thinking about. It is definitely worth reading.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 08-01-19

Play at 90/95% speed

Narrator speaks very fast and it often feels rushed. Some good ideas to reflect on for common mistakes

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  • Anonymous User
  • 07-01-19

Awesome information and experiences

Indeed a very awesome and useful resources! so simply cannot recommended it enough!
Thank you! 😁

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  • Michael
  • 07-24-18

Must read !!!

This is one of the most helpful books I have read about dating and relationships. It has so much information that I had to read it 10 times !

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  • Sajid
  • 09-29-17

What a man needs!!

Excellent book and I thoroughly recommend to any man out there. Be a grounded man

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  • Colin Dalziel
  • 06-09-16

Great book, gives you the tools to be yourself and be successful with girls

Really interesting to listen to. Most books created on dating embraces the idea of "game". The dating playbook for men allows you to truly be yourself while being successful, no more lies, cheesy pick up lines or playing games. 7 steps are easy to take on board and apply. Great book!

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  • Jagir R
  • 06-07-16

Excellent Book and Narration

I've read a few books like this and this one is right at the top in terms of qyality especially since it aims to help you fulfil your potential in all aspects if your life

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  • Nico
  • 04-27-16

High quality book that can change lives

Inspiring, a lot of knowledge that can be easily applied in real life. Love it!

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  • Declan
  • 05-01-16

worth it for any man. single or in a relationship

bought this book and immediately boosted my confidence. I would definitly recommend it for any man

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  • Dean Wilson
  • 03-15-19

Good book but poorly edited narration

I really enjoyed listening to this book as I personally would like to be better at approaching people(not necessarily just women, but people in general). I found this book to be really engaging and I learnt a lot. I was however a little disappointed in the edited of the narration. Some lines are repeated and I had a few moments where there was some black space in the middle of sentences. It can be a little frustrating but if you cam get around it it's definitely a good listen/read.

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  • Reece Musson
  • 05-08-20

Sound advice

If you have read models by Mark Manson a lot of this advice will sound familiar.

I liked the comparison of being a “nice guy” vs a “grounded man”, overall Ferebee nails the advice and provides his readers with a great resource for developing an attractive lifestyle.

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  • Charles Lee
  • 07-18-19

Great story and advice for single men

Listening to this book has had a profound impact on me. I found that what Andrew had to share was impactful and meaningful as he had many things to share about issues men have in their dating lives. If lessons in this book was applied it would definitely have an impact with the men life who struggle with relationship.

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  • Michael
  • 01-31-19

Great Book!

Found the book to be clear and concise in relation to the subject matter. In addition, l like the practical components included in the call.

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  • Shaun
  • 05-24-18

To be fair, haven’t finished it. I can’t

This may we’ll be a good book, but I will never know because I just can’t listen to the narrator any more. He is incredibly boring and is just reading with no character. The author needs to pay a professional narrator. Disappointing

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  • Anonymous User
  • 01-05-18

Motivational and informative

Great book, the step by step system is simple and informative. This book shows powerful information to change your life. Well done.